Shandong commercial newspaper reporter Gao Qian
[proof can't be opened many times]
"proof is lost on the bus." In the office of a neighborhood committee in Huaiyin District, Xiao Jun (a pseudonym) of a third year student in a certain school told the director Wang in difficulty. In fact, Xiao Jun's family is a family that enjoys subsistence allowances. This time, a student assistance procedure requires her to open a school certificate in school. Director Wang gave the form to Xiao Jun a week ago, but she repeatedly said she could not bring it out. In order not to affect the release of aid, director Wang had to go to her home to know the situation before she learned that the certificate was missing. Later, through her parents, director Wang learned the real reason. Xiao Jun felt that if the students knew that they would not be able to afford to eat the lowest allowances. "Now children's self-esteem is very strong, but some of the proofs have to go, so they often encounter similar situations." Director Wang told the reporter. In desperation, Xiao Jun's parents quietly issued proof to the school, which did not delay the payment of the relief fund.
reporters also know something similar in other communities. Xiao hang (the pseudonym) is also a high school student, on the issue of proving, his performance is more obvious, direct statement does not go to open the proof, finally led to the time, missed a quarter of the rescue.
caricature Zhang Feng peak love rescue quietly let the children easily accept
home living North Street, Ms. Wang alone with her daughter life, now by placing the steamed bread stall and monthly premium to maintain the mother and daughter's life. Last year, my daughter was admitted to a relatively good high school. Since her daughter's child (the pseudonym) in the first three years, she found that the child's self-esteem is becoming more and more strong, not to participate in the social assistance activities, and do not want to let the public know about it. Therefore, every time Mrs. Wang consulted with her daughter carefully, she would accept some love donations after she had agreed with her. Speaking of the experience that little children would not like to mention, Ms. Wang sighed with emotion. "Once we participated in a love activity, and later we reported in the media. I wonder if any of her classmates saw it and sent it to the Internet, so their classmates knew it, and some laughed at her. Since then, children have been very resistant to accepting love in public. Ms. Wang thinks that love activities do not have to be carried out in the public view, and it is necessary to leave some privacy for the children, so that it will be easier for the children to accept them.
[accept assistance is not humble as long as the heart is full of sunshine]
it is difficult for the children of low insurance families to accept the help of love. "In fact, the most conventional is the student assistance that has been carried out in the last two years, and the proof that the child has to go is simply to learn. The school can prove that the student is a student of a certain grade in the school. But children can't get along with their own psychology, and they always fear carrying the hat of poor students. The children of the lower grade didn't have this consciousness, and they were in junior high school or high school. Their sense of poverty and wealth was very strong, and many parents of low insurance families were generally reflecting the problem. A middle school director thinks that it is necessary to correctly guide the child to face the low insurance, let the child be full of sunshine, regard it as a social security, not to reduce the status and lose face. 銆�