Dating is a career prejudice: single men are afraid of flight attendants, single women do not want to find farmers.
source: China Radio Network Author: full Chao Xu
according to the voice of China "news vertical and horizontal", the Valentine's day market is a bit cold, but this day is not only the only roses in the cold. During the Spring Festival, many people who are busy with blind dates are also encountering a cold spell.
the reason why they are cold is interesting because of their occupation. The survey shows that many people have a career bias in choosing a spouse and are absolutely away from those who are engaged in some professions. What are the unpopular professions in the hearts of men and women?
a young man in Zhejiang arranged 18 blind dates during the Spring Festival. He said such a new year's way of life unforgettable. Apparently, the parents of the young man were worried. The report on marriage and love between 2012 Chinese people, published by large marriage websites and research institutions, shows that 30 years of age are the age nodes of single people who reduce their spouse's needs. At the age of 30, there will be a small peak in the standard of choosing a spouse for a single person. Of course, the report says that three adults will not reduce themselves. The standard of choosing spouse.
the increase in single age and young men and women has become a social phenomenon. The survey shows that 1/3 of single people admit to their fear of marriage. Compared to women, three of the male fears of marriage, "no house" and "no money for a family", and "no marriage expenses" are higher than women, and women are afraid of marriage. It is higher than male in the two items of "small three prevalence" and "fear of domestic violence".
male respondents: three conditions. Is there a card? Do you have a car? Do you have a room? This is not the reality I want, but the reality of the society itself.
female respondents: as long as this goal is not reached before marriage and can be achieved after marriage, one of the expectations is acceptable. If there is no room and no sense of security, everyone is different.
male interviewees: I personally feel that it is fate that feels stable for women. It is very important for them to feel that they can not afford the responsibility of their families.
the survey also shows that the misunderstandings of the other half of the job in the process of choosing a spouse have also become a reason why many people are not willing to choose. In addition, male singles are reluctant to find stewardships, guides and media journalists, while female singers are reluctant to find farmers and freelance. The person. Reporters interviewed randomly found that the so-called most unpopular career in choosing a spouse, not many people who really touched and understood.
male respondents: the stewardess and tour guide have a bad reputation.
female interviewees: when it comes to careers, journalists are high risk occupations, such as those reported at the earthquake site, and the risk of journalists is higher.
interviewee: I don't like to find a workaholic type because I have no time to accompany me.
female respondents: people in entertainment circles may not be able to choose media. The news is so heavy that the entertainment circle is too chaotic. There are so many friends around the media that the media is too busy.
interviewee: for occupation, I understand some situations in the media circle, and feel that they are in contact with people.
, Wang Zhiguo said that people's different understanding of different professions is normal, but they can not totally negate a profession.
Wang Zhiguo: everyone is stereotyped on every profession, the soldiers are very strict, the preschool teachers are all kind, and the freelancer's income is unstable. And this understanding is precisely in the process of mate selection will affect the public's perception and feelings of this kind of people, it is a normal phenomenon, it is really difficult to avoid. Of course, I also suggest that you do not make a full denial because of this stereotype. After all, there is a difference in the working status of everyone in each profession and in every specific job.