source: the author of the Yangzi Evening News: Chen Jing's
photo of Jin Bing and Du mama. The picture was provided by me
Jin Bing found himself very much like Dujia's daughter. On the 4 day of
2, a micro-blog said that more than 30 years ago, a baby girl was born only more than 20 days later. In the 2006 year old mother suffered from cancer, the most wanted was the abandoned flesh and blood. A girl who had just arrived in Nanjing after graduating from university was deeply moved. She disguised herself as "her daughter" and asked for "filial piety" at home. 6 years later, the old man died. Yesterday, the reporter contacted Jin Bing, a Nanjing girl who disguised herself as a daughter, and a family in Nanjing Pukou district who came to visit her parents.
[b] in the eyes that reminded her of her mother, [/b]
[b], that mom was looking for her daughter just like [/b]
Jin Bing is a native of Sihong, Jiangsu. After graduating from a university in Huaian in 2006, she came to Nanjing to work. One day at the end of 2006, she suddenly saw a special notice on TV. A peasant's old father was crying in the face of the camera, looking for her daughter who had been sent away years ago. "Your mom is out of cancer. I just want to see you. Daughter, come back as soon as you can. " Old father Du Fangqin kept repeating his self accusation and how to excuse the daughter. What Jin Bing can't forget is that the mother in the lens is full of anticipation and pain.
the expression made her familiar. After his brother's child drowned, her mother was anxious to go mad, and the similar pain was written on her face, so she could not let her sick old mother. "I heard that the whereabouts of Dujia's daughter had been heard at that time, and the girl agreed to see one side before the Spring Festival, but suddenly changed the hexagram. To a dying man, it is too cruel to give hope and disillusionment. And she found that the pictures of Du's daughter on TV were very similar to herself, and there was a beauty nevus, which was very high, and was born in 1981 as the baby daughter. At that time she decided to pretend to be a daughter. "It was almost a year, and thought about realizing her wish first." Jin Bing said he was just a good thing for himself, but she had a mother's dream for his mother.
[b] was thrown into the house by firecrackers, "mother daughter" cried [/b]
[b] intimate "daughter" to the elderly to stabilize the condition of the elderly [/b]
she then contact Du dad, there is surprise and surprise. The reporter contacted Du Jialing of Dujia, who was still fresh in her mood. "I didn't think there would be a strange girl to comfort my mother and be this daughter." They are a small village under the Pukou District of Nanjing. When they were too poor, their parents were not allowed to send their 20 - day - born daughter to a better home in Nanjing. Every time I mention this "little girl", the whole family is heartache.
2007 Spring Festival Jin Bing first "home", the same day she just arrived in the village, several production teams of villagers stand by the roadside, festive firecrackers to take the "daughter" all the way home. In spite of the fact that she had been telling all of her family except Du mama, she was just disguised as a daughter, but Du Baba and doberson, together with the villagers, had tears of excitement together with the villagers. Du mother, who had been in bed for a long time, came out to greet her. "When I saw me, my mother's first sentence was, 'daughter, I think of you, I think of you'". Jin Bingyi clasped her and cried out "mother", and her mother and daughter cried.
Jin Bing is very busy with IT work, but she calls every few days. She will go home once every festival or one or two months. "Once, she asked me if I had eaten the eggs, but actually she wanted me to go." Before the Spring Festival in 2007, Du mother was declared unable to support life for too long, but she gradually stabilized. Sister Du said, "it must be because Jin Bing, without her, would never live in my mother. Every time she comes, she calls "Daddy" and "mommy". When she sees what my mother wants to do, she will say, "Mom, don't worry, I'll come."
she saw a TV set in her home or a 14 inch black-and-white TV, and she said, "it's very clear, the eyes are hard to die," and the second time she sent a 25 inch color TV. More let Du big sister exclamation himself can not do is, spring, summer, winter and autumn and winter to buy clothes shoes for mother, regardless of size, color, style, Du mother is very satisfied, "she never asked the size ah." Every thing that should be done by the small cotton padded jacket, she did almost everything, and she did it for 6 years. At one time, Du family thought that she was the real daughter, at least the little daughter arranged to comfort her mother.
[b] again difficult to put down is the love of [/b]
[b] "mother" love and her spoiled, "Dad" always protect her [/b]
[b] "I actually harvest is me, moved me" [/b]
Du sister said, every time Jin Bing "go home" sitting in the mother's side. Jin Bing said there was nothing special about it. "What do you mean by going back to your mother's house?" She asked the reporter, "it's like talking to a normal mother and daughter, talking about the family and asking me about my work."
impressed her once, "Mom" was spoiled with her. "Once I went, my mother asked me to wash her hair and wash her feet cloth. My father also blamed her for directing me to work. Actually, she really enjoyed it." According to the requirements of "mother", Jin Bing did it one by one. In fact, she also enjoyed this kind of warmth. "I really feel lucky in this world, in addition to my parents who give you the love of this family." Mama Du also gave her a lot of love. In the second half of 2009, Jin Bing came back from abroad and got a bad cold. Mother Du knew that her quilt was too thin, and she planted two mu of cotton with Du Fu in second years. "They were specially planted for me," Jin Bing stressed. Later, she made two thick cotton quilts for her.
one in the city, one in the countryside, the two had nothing to do with it. Where did the feeling come from? "Like two people who fell in love at first sight, they didn't know before, and I think it's the fate." Jin Bing said, in fact, the first time to "go home", and did not think so far, but after going, the idea changed, "it is the reunion of a long violation of the family", she is more and more love such a simple family.
[b] go abroad for half a year, to persuade the true daughter to go home to see [/b]
[b] Du mother also know the truth, afraid she left without [/b]
2009, Jin Bing went abroad for half a year, lost contact, but still do not put Du mother, later know du dad went to her Sihong home to find her. She realized the importance of her daughter to Du family and decided to go to the real "little girl". At that time Du dad only knew to give a "Ge" family name, in the public security department and the help of some media, finally found the "little daughter" Ge Miao (the pseudonym). Jin Bing said the same day, they quarrelled bitterly. "Your mother is dying. You don't want to meet?" "She doesn't want me," she said. "Now I think of me. I will never go to see her." Jin Bing said, "after all these years, is there so much resentment?" "I have no resentment. I just don't want to see them. Let's forget."
no room for manoeuvre, Jin Bing found the husband of Ge Miao, "in fact, she is also very difficult. Her parents are not in good health, because they are not happy." Jin Bing said that we should not blame Ge Miao for not seeing her mother. "As a saying goes," raising mother is greater than heaven ". She took their wedding discs from the husband of the Ge Miao to the parents of Du family, and always persuaded Du's parents, "now that she knows her daughter is very good." Jin Bing worked so hard on both of them.
she recalls that soon after she returned home, mother Du knew that she was not her own daughter. She was afraid that she would not tell it when she left. During the national day of 2012, mother Du died, and Jin Bing still regrets that she is not in bed. "She died at 5 in the morning. I didn't receive a call. I saw it at 8 in the morning and hurried over." At the funeral of Du mother, she and her husband completed every ceremony in the capacity of filial piety and filial son, and sent away "mother".
[b] Du mother has gone away, dad is now sick to hope to look forward to the daughter of [/b]
Jin Bing said, "mother", after the "mother", the two did not alienate, she moved more feelings to "Dad". Du dad is now a late lung disease, and his heart is still unseen. "Every time my dad mentioned the little girl's look, I felt bad about it. I still had a glimmer of hope to see this sister." Jin Bing and Dujia did not have the contact way of Ge Miao, and they lost their contact ways two years ago. The reporter has not been able to get in touch with the Ge Miao.
Jin Bing felt sad and could not bear to blame Gu Miao. "I do this for myself, for the sake of 'mother', but also for the Miao, I hope she will be a mother in the future, and when I understand my mother's pain, I will do these things for her, and less guilt."