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Yang manager said that the people who go to the marriage agency still want to find the marriage target as soon as possible. Students in school are not yet the most suitable age for marriage. They are not mentally mature enough, and few people are willing to spend a few years waiting.
is it a feast or fast food?
whether it is a college student association or the spontaneous organization of a blind date in school, love has become an unavoidable objective fact on the university campus. In recent years, a share of College Students' marriage fever has quietly sprung up.
a survey of campus love shows that the idea of "a strong love affair on campus" is more common, and the "one school love" student is increasing. More than 80% of juniors and seniors are in love, and more than 1/4 of freshmen are in love.
professor Yang Suqun, a professor of social science education at Shandong Normal University, said that college students' views on marriage and love are diversified. Most of them are in love, and some of them are in love to make up their inner vacant, lonely or herd mentality.
in such a relaxed environment of love freedom, more attention should be paid to college students' love morality. Yang Suqun said that, under the premise of compliance with the regulations of school management, college students can participate in more activities to make new friends, increase understanding of the opposite sex group, and master some love and marriage common sense and prepare for marriage.
the investigation report on the influence of 2010 relatives on the relationship between marriage and love of college students shows that only 29% of college students think that love should be the ultimate goal of marriage and that most people are just in love with the psychology of trying.
with the increase of employment pressure, college students are worried about the future of employment. Some female college students even believe that "good marriage is the best employment".
"many people choose partners to see the other's economic conditions first, and the result is not getting the ideal marriage but scarring." Zhang Hua, director of the Provincial Institute for youth research, said. "Campus love is a good opportunity for young people to learn to interact with the opposite sex and experience pure love." Zhang Hua believes that, on this issue, the school should innovate the mode of marriage and love outlook education, guide the students to integrate the mainstream marriage concept in the interaction, and create a healthy and positive atmosphere for the love of college students.
for more Post-80's women, the fear of old age is another reason for their early intention to get married. Marriage has a certain effect on women's further education. Many college students give up the opportunity to study and read, mainly because they are worried about their high academic qualifications. "Campus love is not a fast food." Shangdong woman university professor Tian Meiying believes that college students are in the youth season, love is not good, but to deal with bad love problems, they will have a negative impact on their life, and some even change the normal trajectory of life. Although each person's way of love is different and its connotation is different, Tian Meiying thinks that one must think about it. It should not be too random to treat emotional problems. Love should also think of responsibility. It also needs to consider the consequences. It is necessary to face emotional problems with a mature state of mind, which can not affect academic and future life.