Re: after 90, the belly is not prominent. Why is it already in the middle age crisis?

Big bellies can be avoided, but the middle-aged crisis actually exists for young people suffering from the middle-aged crisis, the Beijing News has responded: "The so-called'post-90 middle-aged crisis'is only a pseudo proposition, more like a tower without foundation. It is built up by anxious individuals and will be washed away by the current of reality. is a puzzling explanation. Individual anxiety comes from the flood of reality. How does the latter wash away the individual anxiety? Unless it's the end of the world. Sun Longji, a historian, said that Chinese culture has two tendencies in intergenerational relations: one is the tendency of "childishness". Due to the various indulgences of loving mothers and strict fathers who tend to discipline their children as children, Chinese children are still unable to wean mentally and develop imperfectly in personality when they are adults. Now the so-called "Mabao" and "giant baby"; the second is "aging tendency", children were taught from an early age to settle down to Confucian ethics, sophisticated way of doing things, as soon as adulthood is the responsibility of the family to start a career, one step into society must pretend to be old (because society generally trusts the elderly). "Therefore, the Chinese address people, not'Xiao Zhang''Xiao Li''Xiao Sun', is'Lao Zhang''Lao Li''Lao Sun'." "Br />

0 Lao She has a work called"Lao Zhang's Philosophy". It is the pressure of work that replaces the sophisticated and aging society of strangers in modern cities. To cope with the high cost of living, young people have to work overtime day after day. American sociologist C. Wright Mills says one of the characteristics of modern white-collar workers is that work out of touch with life occupies most of their time, and late nights and weekends are their only leisure time. Br /> "In order to buy back the'happiness'of every night and weekend with money, people sell themselves piece by piece every day. They use their leisure time to get rid of the endless torture of work, with negative luxury enjoyment and screaming, to eliminate the boring life. So there is "25:00" (New Weekly 141), there is "the Chinese in the second half of the night" (New Weekly 392), there is a lack of sleep, listless after 90. The big belly of the middle-aged can be avoided, but the crisis of the middle-aged is solid, it equally falls on the heads of everyone who works hard. The

midlife crisis is often manifested as a workplace crisis. Map / Vision China
"midlife crisis" is often just a Tucao
what is the solution? the state recently issued the "medium and long-term youth development plan (2016-2025)", which limits the age range of young people to 14-35 years old. Redemarcation between youth and middle age is obviously not a solution, because young people can claim to have a "pre-middle-aged crisis", after middle age there is a "post-middle-aged crisis". So the term "middle-aged crisis" is not very accurate, after all, whose life is not a crisis from beginning to end?

Life is a crisis.
for the individual, the "midlife crisis" is often just a Tucao, which will go all out to realize the dream of life. The reality behind the mid-life crisis may leave you with a lot of things to lose. "It's like having to give up your luggage and clothes in order to survive when you're swept away by a flood. You've lost a lot of things, at least not all of your life." (Yotaro Isaka) As far as society is concerned, just remember the passage in Hot Wind Suikan: The path of life is progressive, always going up the slope of the infinite spiritual triangle, and nothing can stop him. Whatever tragedy strikes society, the full potential of human thirst strides forward.