Re: "son, don't take a wife as a family!" Father's faith in the fire
when you were a child, I was very busy with work and rarely went home, so everything in the family, whether it was your grandparents' body, your study, or the necessary water and gas fee to keep the family, the relationship between relatives and friends, housework, were all done by your mother. Yes.
at the beginning, I think, who's not all the "male master"? How hard can it be to do housework and take children with them?
once your grandma was sick, your mother had to go back to her mother's home for some time.
I have to hurry home every day to cook for you, so I can easily toss out a few dishes and have to tidy up and watch you study. You are just in the most leather time. Just thinking about playing, reading your homework, I am very angry.
after two weeks, I felt extremely tired. The dirty clothes were piled up in the mountains, and the floor of the table was covered with ashes. I'm so tired after waiting for you every day. Several times you didn't get up in the morning, so you were late several times. Do you remember how miserable the two days were? It was after that that I realized how hard it was for your mother.
Li Bihua said, how much love a woman can have to stand in the kitchen and wash that pile of bowls.
what matters most to people is not what they really do, but what they do. If a woman marriages, she will be at home. Whether the decoration of the family is good, the hygiene is not in place, whether the children's education can be successful, whether the old people can live in their old age.
so if you're out of class, ask your wife if she needs help. The girl married you, not to be a babysitter, you love, marriage, should cherish each other's encounter, measure each other's hard work, appreciate each other's pay, in this way hand in hand after this life.
the good wife of the man can succeed
in fact, there is a particularly big crisis in our family. At that time, I resigned from the public office and went into business, but I was deceived by no experience.
not only paid the money, but also owed the debt. We had to move to an old and broken house, living standards plummeted, and occasionally worried about the debt collectors. Our relatives and friends are gradually alienating us. At that time, I was like an isolated island, especially helpless.
I told your mother that we should get divorced, so at least you and mother and son will not be involved. But she said, we are a family. How can we separate?
so she did one thing and went to a family to find accounts for those who owed us money. Everyone told her to shut up. I advised her to give up, but she didn't want to.
later, she really wanted to get some money back, and then we really made a comeback. So I always tell you that in my family, your mother is the biggest, and our parents owe her too much. When a man is in a setback, he can accompany you, help you, give birth to you, only your wife.