Re: "son, don't take a wife as a family!" Father's faith in the fire
someone interviewed Ang Lee: what is your greatest happiness at this stage?
Ang Lee said, "my wife can smile at me, I will relax a little, and I will feel very happy." I have been a father, and as a man's husband, I do not mean that I can get their respect naturally, and you have to win their respect every day. You have to reach a certain standard, which is a reason for me not to slack off.
I believe my son will win the respect of his wife.
secretly told you that marriage is really a real trouble, marriage is not as good as we think, you know, I recently learned to see, I have seen a paragraph written by an answer, feeling very well written. And also to you:
what is the meaning of marriage? It does not mean that you are happy every day, or that you can always experience passion and love.
in a lot of times, marriage is even the opposite. It tied your hands and feet with red silk, tied up a lot of unrelated aunts, and made you tired and doubted what it was all about.
the true value of marriage is reflected in the dark side of life.
when you are lonely, there is a person listening to your word, with you doing nothing; when you are empty, the heart will suddenly appear in a look, let you feel what you want to change; and when you are knocked down, there is a door open for you. The people inside are not only so critical of you, but even try to heal your wounds and mourn for your grief.
parents can do that, but unfortunately, their understanding of you is not so deep. They can't be accompanying you for so long.
you know. One day, we will leave you, and only your wife will be around you, the little family you have formed. This is why you want to get married and why you want to maintain and manage a marriage with your heart.
this is also the point I want to tell you: good wife is the most important thing in a man's life.