Re: female college students who are paralyzed by Grandma: do more tutoring, decline more funding
learning and grandma becoming all the
the University, facing to leave home, she just got the admission notice and started the plan earlier. In the new group, she contacted the teacher and applied for a day reading. Before starting school, Dai Li Fei rented a small house with two rooms and one hall in the neighborhood of more than 10 minutes away from school, with a monthly rent of 900 yuan. "It's closer, but it's more than 1000 yuan, and it can't afford to rent." Darling said.
going to college, Dali's life is not the same as high school. It is still early to get up, to change her nappy, wear clothes, wash his face and wipe his hands, and make breakfast. Before eight, we should go to school, go to school at noon, ride a bike and return to the rental house in a hurry, two hours to buy food, cook, and turn over to granny to shoot phlegm. Because she is always in bed and is weak, grandma always sweats easily. Dai Li Fei changes her clothes several times a day, so as to avoid catching cold. Such a life, Dai Li Fei said, "has been used to".
5 23, Chengdu Commercial Daily reporters in the rental room, saw Dai Li Fei. Grandma sat in a wheelchair, the weather was cool, and her leg was covered with a woolen coat. The sequela of cerebral hemorrhage, let Grandma have no way to communicate with Dai Li Fei. Grandma was sitting on the TV set on the wall. There was a dubbed film on TV, and I didn't know if she was actually watching it.
"Dai Li Fei" fed the gruel and milk that was made of soft glutinous rice to grandma, then brought hot water and meticulously granny grandma's face. Because of the eyelid, close eyes would hurt the cornea, almost every few minutes, and Dali wanted granny to open his eyes with a "harsh tone", but Dali looked at Grandma's eyes, revealing doting and touching granny's forehead with his forehead. Hearing that there was phlegm in grandma's throat, Dai Li flew up and down from Grandma's back, letting her grandmother cough hard. "I can't spit it out." Darling frowned.
pack up and go to class. She pushed grandma back to the room, took her bed, covered the quilt, and then transferred the TV program to the busy Beijing opera, the Sichuan dialect program, and deliberately turned up the volume, "let her hear the sound." That's how dare I shut the door and go to the classroom.
busy in the busy time to do tutor
refusing more funding
because grandma can not be taken care of for a long time. "When I first came, maybe I asked her 10 sentences," she replied. " Zhang Yong, the head teacher of Dai Li Fei, told the Chengdu commercial newspaper reporter that before entering the school, the senior high school teacher of Li Fei had contacted the school and told the special circumstances of her family, and the college also noticed the independent and self reliant girl.
2017 in the first half of the year, through the college contact, a caring personage at the West China Hospital of Sichuan University to understand the situation of Dai Li Fei, offered to provide support for the moon every month. Later, some people contacted for help, but they were refused by Dai Li Fei.
"this is what we do at home, we can afford it, and we don't want to give more trouble to others." Dali said that now, grandma has more than 1000 social security payments a month, plus 1000 yuan a month for low - and good - hearted people, the school grants for every semester, and the work of a family teacher, earning some money, enough to live with her grandmother and father, so that he has the support of other people.
beauty is the nature of a girl, but at the age of 20, Dai Li Fei always wears simple and plain clothes. The slim Dali could not buy a piece of clothes for herself. She bought a mobile phone for 200 yuan, but she was willing to pay her grandmother to buy the high quality calcium milk powder. She almost occupied the whole wardrobe in her clothes. She said, "grandma uses it well, and I do it."
"Dai Li Fei said," now, when dad is at home, he can take care of himself, and when he takes a long vacation, he will get his father to rent a house. But every week, Dai Li flew home alone, but each time he stayed for no more than 3 hours. Every weekend, Dai Li Fei went to Wuhou District to tutor. At the most time, Dai Li Fei took three or four students. As a tutor, Dai Li Fei feels that he is closer to the teacher's dream. "Graduated, if you have the chance, still want to be a teacher." Darling said.
go home from school, and darling will chat with grandma. What's happening in the school today and see something interesting, although grandma can't respond, but she says he's used to it, and the future life may not be so different from the present. The family was together, which was a very happy thing for Dai Li to fly.