Re: after 90 divorce survey: flash marriage flash away from the fuse is mostly a trivial matter.
marriage and family counselor Xu Lei, many after 90 after marriage, showing a flash of "natural and unrestrained" style. After 90, most of them are single children. They tend to be self centred, do things by feeling and lack family responsibilities.
Xu Lei believes that most of the growth of the post-90s is very smooth, they have a lot of romantic and beautiful longings for love and marriage, but once they face problems such as wood oil and salt and the relationship between her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law, they lack the ability and patience to deal with them, often like children in the family. Moreover, many young couples are unable to be independent physically or financially, or rely on their parents' support, such as helping children and mortgage loans. The marriage of the post-90s is also often transformed into a "mixed battle" between the parents of the two parties. The parents are not at ease, and the premarital control and the marriage intervention lead to the escalation of the contradiction.
she suggested that after 90's be cautious about marriage, it is not appropriate to get married too soon, grow up to be able to bear marriage, and make a commitment to those who love again. And it is hoped that the parents of the younger couple can let the parents let go. The children are already adults with complete ability. Let them manage their marriage in their own way, and try not to stir them up as far as possible. "Only by correctly understanding the meaning of marriage, and being ready to be a qualified husband, a good wife and loving mother, can marriage be fragile." Xu Lei said seriously.
source: Life newspaper