origin: Jiang Han's view of
recently, a word on the large media screen, the word is: empty nest young.
what is the empty nest young man, according to the definition of Baidu Encyclopedia: "empty nest youth", refers to the young people struggling in big cities, he (she) is far away from their hometown, relatives, living alone. Life, lack of emotional support, no family life.
after graduation, he worked alone, left his parents' asylum, was alone in the city, and lived in a rented room separated into a single room. A room, a bed, a wardrobe, a table, a computer. That's all they have. Every day in the first line of units and domicile, in addition to overtime is the job, when all people say more opportunities in the big city, but do you think that in this city you are that superfluous person? What is the status quo of
empty nest youth?
once, we call ourselves "single Wang", and now it's not just the problem of being single. In this big city, being single may not be a big problem, because too many people are single, but they don't have a lot of you, but there's no background to the young people in the city. Without the foundation, it is not easy to have a foothold here, but to want a better life to be faced by the city again and again, to give up but not to be willing to leave and choose, so that only one is left to us, this is the hope of the poem and the far away in the struggle and the struggle.
every time you sell out no one together, you can buy only a small number of 32 fruit. No one will give you a greeting, no matter how late it stays up. When the lights flicker and the night is deep, when you stay up late, your family and friends may be in a dream, who can think of an ordinary young man working hard at the night and staying up in the dark.
for most empty nest young people, suffering is not terrible. After all, when you leave home to enter this strange city, for school, to fight, no one knows the hard work, but the fear is lonely. In this city, you have no family, except colleagues on the flat day. No friends, no one to rely on, no sense of home, and no sense of belonging. No matter how late you go home, you will not touch the lamp waiting for you, and you will never meet the person who cares about you.
this is the life of an ordinary empty nest youth, a frightening loneliness, that's all.
the poverty crisis of empty nest youth
for empty nest youth, the crisis lies in psychological loneliness, and the lack of material. For most young people, they all felt self - pride when they went to college, but after four years of baptism of the University, they knew their name was Diao silk.
in one year more difficult than one year in the most difficult employment season, through a single wooden bridge of thousands of horses, it is not easy to find a job, think that we can rely on wages in the city to live a good life, but see, every month's wages, deducted the living expenses, reduced the rent and electricity, basically It's all moonlight. Thinking of helping parents to share the family burden after graduation, they are basically delusional. It is not easy to feed themselves. If you meet a colleague and a colleague and have a wedding and funeral, it is essential to eat soil this month.
most of the time you want to call my parents' relatives, but when you think of your parents, they don't want to worry about their parents, and when they call my home, they tell them I'm good, a good salary, a good working environment, but never a credit. The news that the card has been exploded tells them that because they are away from home, it is instinctive to report good news without worrying about it.
because of poverty, the young people have to rent the house far away from the unit, because the current rent is really difficult to find the right place to rent, and then get up and catch the subway every day, and do not know how to work overtime at night, get up earlier than the chicken, sleep late than the dog. It has become the norm of young people. Because of the busy and poor, young people lose their cooking time. They can only eat at random. The food that disdain at the University in the same year is the cheap and delicious food that can't be found again after the society. This is the crisis of the empty nest youth poverty.
it's just a beautiful story to run away from north,
we have been talking about the status and difficulties of the empty nest young people, but why this happens. In fact, it is very simple. After the reform and opening up in the last century, the whole country began to migrate. In the early period, it was the cross city flow of migrant workers. It was the peasant workers who built the great development of the city. After the gradual maturity of economic development, migrant workers are no longer the protagonist of the story. The protagonist is replaced by the student. According to the Research Report of the Swiss bank, a large number of college graduates are becoming the second demographic dividend in China after the first demographic dividend of China, that is, the dividends of migrant workers' dividends completely lost.
but what is the demographic dividend? You have to put up with the problem of the population, because you and all the people around you are the motive force of China's economic development. It is the existence of a large number of students' potential employment population, so a large number of industrial reserve forces have been formed in the city. These industrial reserve forces allow enterprises to hire themselves as they want. Employing people, and by using these potential labor forces to lower the prices of employees, reduce the cost of enterprises, so that enterprises can get the driving force of progress.
in big cities, the more developed the city is, the more resources and opportunities will be concentrated. These resources and opportunities are like the magnet, which firmly attract more and more young people to join the empty nest young army and contribute to the development of the industry. These populations, in turn, form a large demographic dividend, thereby pushing the city forward faster.
is the feature of big cities so that the so-called escape from north to Guangzhou has become an undisputed false proposition. When we shout "the world is so big, I want to see", some people will tell you, "the wallet is so small, that can't go." this is because the small city on the surface of the hometown can have. To live a more comfortable life, but what is it actually? The small cities do not have the wonderful life of the pastoral pastoral life we have imagined, but a more intricate relationship. If you are already used to life in a big city, you will not be able to bear that little job opportunities, as well as the ubiquity of people.
and in this year's real estate tide, not only the big city, even the two or three line city house price has also risen to the most unbearable place, young people, even if you want to escape, where are you going? So escaping from North Canton is just a prelude to your escape.
this is an inevitable logic of the economy. It is an inevitable result that can not escape. Any choice has a price. This is the price we have to bear.
thought of a story my friend once told me: he and his girlfriend went to see the Peony Pavilion. At half past nine in the evening, almost half of the people began to leave the theater in silence to catch up with the last subway, so he gave a conclusion that literature and art could not buy bread and milk, poetry. And far away from this time.
working rhythm is fast, work pressure is high, housing prices are too high, promotion is too difficult, this is a reality that all of us can not evade. To deceive oneself to say not tired, is really too false. However, Ma Yun said, "dream is still there. If it is realized?"
indeed, what if it's done? Go all the way. This is the last choice for all empty nest youth.