The new trend of marriage after 80's: the marriage of women, boys and girls, "siblings"
the Jiangnan metropolis newspaper / all media correspondent
in the traditional concept, the "brother and sister" marriage of the male and the big girl seems to be the Tianjing. The meaning of the partner model. In recent years, the number of "sister and brother" marriage has increased by 20% per year, and a survey shows that the "siblings" marriage is relatively stable, and the happiness index of the couple after marriage is twice as high as that of the ordinary marriage. Including "trial marriage", property notarization and other phenomena are also increasing. And women in this era are better than women in any of the past times, which is a great direct result: urban women and rural men are not looking for objects.
over the past 20 years, the Internet has developed and penetrated all aspects of the life of young people at an amazing speed. Young researchers have studied the profound influence of the rise of network society on the life, concept, behavior and culture of young people from many aspects.
some studies have pointed out that youth form unique culture through interaction, emotion and thought through network community. There is a new trend in the contemporary marriage and marriage pattern of young people. The traditional marriage mode of "big boys and girls" has changed, and the phenomenon of trial marriage and property notarization has increased.
some scholars have noticed that "parents' marriage" and "leftover women" have led to the "marriage and love anxiety" of young people, which is a "Chinese marriage anxiety".
many studies have found that contemporary young people's marriage and marriage patterns are different from traditional concepts. Based on the analysis of the data of the survey on the status of Chinese women in the three periods of 1990, 2000 and 2010, it is found that the mode of marriage difference in Chinese couples has changed greatly. The marriage mode of the traditional "male and female small" has been changed, and the marriage of "male and female small" has been obviously reduced, and the marriage of "female big boy" is obviously increased, and the reason is possible. It is related to the persistent high sex ratio at birth and the change of marriage concept in China. The phenomenon of "flash marriage and flash away" among young people is increasing. "Trial marriage" has become a "undercurrent" for single young people in pursuit of ideal marriage. The importance of economic conditions is increasing among young couples, and property notarization has become a helpless choice for young people to guard against the risk of marriage and love.
the pressure of women's marriage and love competition in city
in the traditional social concept of China, women can transfer the pressure of life through marriage, which is also very tolerant to the society. But there are limited social resources, such as job resources, house resources, economic resources and so on, and the number of people with these resources is also fixed. This leads to the pressure of competition between women and cities in the city of marriage and love is far greater than that of men with certain resources. Those who have no resources are hardly competitive, and can return to their hometown in a few years. But most women don't want to go back. Most of them want to stay in the first and second tier cities, rather than rely on their own marriage, and the good women who have developed in the city will not be willing to go back. They would rather be single than find a man to reduce their living standards. Yes.
Second, women look for objects, you will first see if you are suitable for marriage, and then see if you have a sense of it, and ultimately decide whether you want to start. However, because of their character, many of the standards they judge are from movies, novels, and even imagination, leading to missing a lot of good men.
differences in economic status
differences in urban and rural differences and family background, resulting in differences in employment and social and economic status of young people. In the market competition of modern society, educational background plays a key role. A large number of empirical studies on the career and social mobility of young people have proved that the reproduction of social and economic status has led to the social differentiation of the youth group.
traditional concept, men can not pass the marriage pressure to survive, they can only rely on their own continuous transformation to win the favor of women. In terms of men's economic ability, men in cities are more competitive than men in rural areas. So men can not find wives, more of their own value problems.