Li Na / Liao Shen evening paper
6 month, Shenyang foreign marriage registration formally transferred to the newly established marriage registration center of the Shenyang Civil Affairs Bureau. In the past 2 months, 66 "son-in-law" and "foreign wives" have been led to "little red books" in Shenyang. Among them, "son-in-law" is mostly the United States, Australia and Japan, and "foreign wives" are mostly from Russia and Thailand. "ocean son-in-law" more than "foreign daughter-in-law"
in Shenyang people's foreign marriage, "ocean son-in-law" more than "daughter-in-law", 66 for foreign marriage, only 8 "daughter-in-law", the rest are "ocean son-in-law". In the United States, Australia, Japan, the three men married Shenyang daughter-in-law, and the "daughter-in-law", the Shenyang and Thailand girls in Russia and Thailand are the most.
"son-in-law" was introduced by relatives and friends, and partly through marriage and love websites.
"foreign wife" is mostly because the man works and learns in the country where the woman is. The staff of the marriage registration center of the Shenyang Municipal Civil Affairs Bureau said she had also been in contact with a Mongolia girl who married to Shenyang, and the two were in love in Mongolia when they were in Mongolia.
Shenyang girls have more experience in studying abroad
"Shenyang's son-in-law" mostly work in foreign companies, generally foreign employees or engineers, and a part of foreign teachers in Shenyang. Most young girls in Shenyang have experience in studying abroad, and they generally have a better understanding of foreign cultures. Older women who marry foreigners are mostly freelancers.
does "foreign son-in-law" value Yan value when looking for a Chinese daughter-in-law? Workers recall that foreigners have different aesthetic tastes, some traditional beauties, and some are not.
the age of the two people, 32 years old, 32 years old, and the age segment of Shenyang people married to foreigners showed a polarization trend, mainly in the two age groups of 20-30 years and 40-50 years old, the proportion of which accounted for half. The age of 20-30 is mainly a free love affair. The age difference between the two sides is relatively small, and the average age difference is around 5 years old. The age of
40-50 is mostly remarried, and the age difference is at the age of 10. "We have handled a couple of foreign registration before. The man is more than 70 years old, the woman is more than 40 years old, and he is 32 years old." This age is mainly through the introduction, the combination of more intimate.
half of the couples can communicate with foreigners by translating software
. Will the foreign language proficiency be no problem? That's not the case. In Shenyang's foreign registration, half of the couple communicate through translation software, and two people can communicate with each other by querying simple words and adding a picture. Generally speaking, this is the older group. Young people can usually communicate in English or Chinese. "Older foreigners generally don't have Chinese, they usually enter words in the translation software, and the other sees words to communicate by guessing meaning by gestures."
compared with Chinese implicative, foreigners are naturally expressing their love for each other after they get married. They were very excited after they got the marriage certificate. They usually had to hold each other, and then kissed them. They were full of love in their eyes, and the expression of emotion was not implicit.
"I met a" son-in-law ". When I got the card, I cried. When I asked him why he was so excited, he put his arms around the girl and said, 'we're not easy together, think of the hard work before, and I can't help it.'
registration does not make a special choice of life
Chinese marriage is particularly concerned with "good days". "Valentine's Day" "521" and "good days", such as the meaning of "good days" should be registered. But foreigners don't care much about it. Most of them are registered according to their time schedule and are ready to count their days.
"I met the wedding day, and the bride finished the makeup in the morning to register, then went to the hotel to hold the ceremony." The staff engaged in foreign marriage for many years said, "foreigners will not deliberately pick a good day. There will be a registration of 30 years."
the little red copy of China's little red copy
the foreigner has a special feeling for the Chinese marriage certificate. When he gets "little red copy", it will be excited and curious to see it for a long time. "Foreign registration is not like China's certificate. Most of them are in the form of a piece of paper. When they get the little red edition, they feel special novelty.
last week, Shenyang also registered a couple's marriage registration. The man came from Nigeria and the woman came from Russia. Two people were studying in a university in Shenyang. In the future, they wanted to work in Shenyang, so they chose to register in Shenyang. "I remember when they got the marriage certificate, they were excited and excited to say," this is our marriage certificate! " They feel that the red marriage certificate is especially Chinese with special joy. "
up to now, 25 couples are divorced from foreign couples in addition to 66 couples. The reason for divorce is the emotional breakdown caused by the separation between the two sides in the long run.
in the divorce foreign marriage, the United States and Japan are more. "Some couples can't get a visa after they get married, so they can only live apart from each other. A couple was registered in 2008, because the visa of the woman has not been able to come down, and finally divorced after feeling broken.
staff said that foreign marriages for the purpose of going abroad are now less than in the past, and there are few flash marriages, and divorce usually happens after four or five years of marriage.