Shandong Commercial Daily
an article "Chinese type relative price list" has triggered a network hot discussion: "my son is only 33 years old, not considering the north. The girl with the residence of Beijing has a disability with a registered permanent residence. "You can be slightly disabled, but it's absolutely impossible for a sheep." Similar situation also occurred in Ji'nan, 26 year old Binzhou girl Xiao Xu attended a blind date meeting, "was despise". Xiao Xu said that one of the uncles was "dislike" that she was not a native of Ji'nan, and that an aunt was not satisfied with her job - in the media industry - not enough time to take care of the family. Wen / TU reporter Chen Chen
"young people dare to make their own matchmaking, it's nice."
at the end of March, Xiao Xu worked for less than a year when he went to the meeting. "The University in Ji'nan, who graduated in June last June, stayed in the media, and was engaged in media work."
Xiao Xu's work unit has many singles. "There are quite a few singles in our office." Xiao Xu is one of them. After knowing that there is a blind date, Xiao Xu has always been "eager to try". "Most of the colleagues around you are single and their parents are in their home. Few people give a boyfriend, but they can only rely on themselves."
the evening after work, Xiao Xu and another single colleague came to the scene of the meeting, "all of which are basically middle aged and old people, young people are really not much." Xiao Xu said that the red and blue posters were hung on both sides of the road, and the red ones were women's and the blue ones were men's. "Poster is written on the conditions of marriage seekers, if interested in the opposite sex, you can leave your contact information in the blank space of the poster."
Xiao Xu and his colleagues slipped around and found that the youngest consign on the poster was born in 1995, only 21 years old this year, and more people were born from the year to 1985. " When it comes to this, Xiao Xu also adds a little bit, which refers to a young person's blind date area, and a area specially designed for the middle-aged and the elderly, "we didn't see it."
when he first entered the conference hall, Xiao Xu attracted the attention of an aunt. "Aunt looked at my colleagues and I looked up and down, I guess the last phase is me." Xiao Xu smiled and said, because later aunt asked a few questions, all asked Xiao Xu.
"Auntie first asks if we are here to make a blind date." Xiao Xu and his colleagues confessed very quickly. Aunt seems to be very satisfied with the answer. "She is very happy to say that many young people refuse to make their blind date. It's a shame." At that time, the vast majority of people in the venue were middle-aged and old people who came to meet their children.
"later my aunt asked me about my age. I am 26 years old and my aunt is a little young." Xiao Xu said that although he did not introduce his son to himself, he encouraged Xiao Xu. "Young people dare to come to see each other," he said.
"is it not a native of Ji'nan? After that, "
and aunty greetings entered the meeting, and Xu found that many middle-aged and elderly people were standing in front of the poster." they are taking notes in a small book. " You don't have to go forward to ask or go and see, Xiao Xu said that they must have seen the conditions for their satisfaction from the poster. "It is estimated that it is good to remember to go home and show your children."
Xiao Xu and his colleagues "visited" the blue poster, and found that some of the posters were still blank, while some of the posters were filled with or covered with small notes. "I and my colleagues summed up. These posters, all from the monthly income of about ten thousand yuan, have a car. A man with a house. "
along a trail, Xiao Xu finds that many middle-aged and old people will get together and point to one poster.
at a turning point, Xiao Xu found an uncle in front of him staring at himself. "Uncle is smiling at me, and I smiled at him." After laughing, Xiao Xu said his uncle came up. "He asked me about my age, education and work units." Perhaps he was satisfied with Xiao Xu's answer to the questions. Next, his uncle would slanted a small bag across his body and put out a cell phone with a white shell.
"uncle asked me if he wanted to see a picture of his son." Xiao Xu smiled and told the reporter that his own idea was that he did not lose his sight at any time, and that he should come down. But unexpectedly, when uncle was about to turn the cell phone shell open, he suddenly threw out a question to Xiao Xu: "where is the girl?" Xiao Xu replied, "I am not a native of Ji'nan." After that, he watched his uncle recover the hand that was about to open the cell phone, and laughed and said to Xiao Xu, "is it not a native of Ji'nan? Or don't you see it? "
"media industry? "Can not take into account the home"
in the interview with small Xu smile said, this is his own blind date on the way of the first camp, "I did not think of this ridge, there are many cams waiting for me."
after turning the corner, Xiao Xu and his colleagues continue walking to observe the poster on the roadside. "I found an aunt who was staring at me with a smile, and after the contact with an uncle, I decided to temporarily 'close' myself and not respond to that aunt." But Xiao Xu found that later the aunt followed himself, and came to talk at last when Xiao Xu and his colleagues stopped talking about the above conditions before a poster.
"after my aunt asked my age, I immediately told her that I am not a native of Ji'nan." What Xiao Xu did not expect was that his aunt did not care about this. "Aunt said it doesn't matter. They are not Ji'nan either." Then Aunt began to introduce his son to Xiao Xu: he graduated from a famous university, he studied abroad, and now he works in a public institution in Ji'nan.
proud when she introduced her son, then she asked me what I was doing, and I said I was in the media industry. After listening to Xiao Xu's answer, aunt disappointed. "Media industry?" I can't take care of my family. "
Xiao Xu said that at this time, an aunt who came to give his daughter a blind date suddenly came up to talk and asked if the son of the former aunt had been compiled. After the affirmative answer, the latter aunt said that her daughter also had the establishment. "At that time, I thought the two aunt's children should be very suitable, so that they could chat and pull away their colleagues."
now reminiscent of the time to attend the meeting, Xu said that he did not hold the idea of finding a boyfriend. "More is a curiosity. There are no photos on the poster. Only some introductory words are not very good at judging what kind of person the other person is, and whether the two people are suitable or not. When asked if he would attend the blind date again in the future, Xiao Xu smiled and said, "the possibility is very small."