origin: Beijing Youth Daily writer: Liu Xuwei Tong selected manuscript: Fei Yi Yan
this weekend, a great real life version of "do not be honest" Disturbing "thousand single singles" activities were held at a hotel in Shuang Qing Road, Haidian District. Thousands of men and women from dozens of Beijing universities, including Peking University, Tsinghua University, the National People's Congress, Beijing Normal University and Chinese Academy of Sciences, are waiting for couples to "speed up". The spring scenery is beautiful. The college student dating platform called "I want to know you" organized a bachelor party for single youths. From the prohibition of University orders to acquiescence, from "ground down" to publicly allowing college students to marry, and then to fear of being "leftover", the new labels of "leftovers" and "contract lovers" are changing the form of the 95 college students' love.
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each minute to know a member of the opposite sex
fellowship is squeezed out of
"4 hours a 500 time", this is not a homemade movie in the strange bridge, but A true portrayal of yesterday's scene of the "thousand single event". Haidian Shuang Qing Road Star Hotel, adjacent to the Tsinghua University, the organizers "I want to know you" packed the hotel floor, so that thousands of colleges and universities on the capital of single men and women in this collective "blind date". According to the notice, the activity was officially started at 2 p.m., but after 1 o'clock, the men and women guests poured in, and dozens of long queues lined up in the hall. In spring afternoon, the temperature in the hotel also rose sharply due to the crowd gathering.
Beijing Youth Daily reporter noticed that the girls who came to see each other were dressed up and some wore evening gowns. Some boys wore a shirt suit. At first glance, it was like entering the job fairs. The staff members of the field have called them both male and female guests. These people have both Ben, Shuo and Bo students from various universities in the vicinity of Xueyuan Road, as well as new graduates in the two or three years of graduation. Some even come from the suburbs of the suburb of a few kilometers.
lasted 4 hours, and the flow arrangement was quite compact. "5 minutes", "if you are the one", "big devil game", "dark date", "suckling contest" and so on. In the "5 minute date" hall, men and women sit, a couple of long queues quickly sit down, buzzing the crowd, everyone blushed and you spoke to me and the time left. "I am an introverted person. I didn't expect to face such a stranger." A girl was playing games and sighing at the other side of the boy. When the reporter was curious to ask why "sucking competition", the staff in the neighborhood should say, "Oh, misunderstandings, the game is really positive. In order to establish a close relationship, a group of men and women suck together with a long straw to win first.
"the entertaining atmosphere makes it easier for the guests to understand each other. On the average, each guest can communicate with 200-300 people on average, and the average person can get to know a new friend on average every minute." "This way of making friends is efficient and interesting," said Yan Yan, the head of the platform. This is what everyone is willing to accept. "
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the original intention of college students is not a part of the students to be afraid of being "left" actively hit
the North Green newspaper reporter on the site of the university students found that the choice of romantic reasons in school, to participate in the original intention is not the same. Some people think that in college, love is a kind of "ability". It is a compulsory course for every college student. Some students feel that college life is boring. They need someone to "accompany", and of course, they are worried about their "left", and want to find a good object in the University.
"do not want to become a leftover girl, a large surplus of young women, and graduate students will not take the initiative any more. Will there be a crisis?" A girl with glasses told the reporter of the Beiqing newspaper. When she was 25 years old, she was 25 years old, and her parents who had never worried about love problems began to nagging. She began to expand her social circle last year, and began to join the school student union. "It has always been a tragedy for parents to arrange blind dates. Also, I really don't want to go home for the new year and get married by my parents! "
Contract lovers and leftover women, which are full of words in the Internet and mass media, are changing the development mode of campus love. Beiqing newspaper reporter found that many parents, out of various considerations, also changed the past conservative ideas, encourage children to love in the campus, and even give the initiative to "love fees." However, this kind of "quick match" way of dating, also make some people come to participate in the activities of some discomfort, one of the students said, "although it is efficient and convenient, but I always feel that it is too utilitarian, in fact, it is the equivalent of the label, what conditions for you, what conditions, both sides of the needs, achievements into."