Re: women give up buying a house, buy a car, travel around the world with their parents around the world for 2 years
trifle conflicts warm up
everyone has different meanings to travel. For Yu, travel is to slow down life and relax carefully. For Yi Yu's father, when he comes to a place, he hopes to speed up all the landscapes.
Yi Yu gets up very early every day and urges her daughter to go out quickly. While Yi Yu is not a night owl, but in the evening, he has to organize photos, make travel plans, check information, always sleep late, and get up late in the morning.
once, father and daughter broke into a serious quarrel for their daughter's getting up late. An obstinate father even talks to quit the trip. Yi Yu's husband, Neal, persuaded them from both sides. At last, the two sides decided to give each other a step to help ease the breakup crisis. "We got up earlier, and they tried to calm down their minds even if things were solved."
travel to force survival skills
this is a state of being forced. However, this way is forcing Yi Yu's mother to "force" a lot of new skills. On Christmas Eve last year, Yi Yu mother completed a Christmas dinner in Sichuan, a hot pot in their youth hostel. The bottom material of this chafing dish is basically from zero, without bean paste and chili.
"before this, I never made a meal." when Yi Yu heard her family praise, she felt unbelievable. In order to eat a hometown, "I made myself."
"their abilities are really beyond your imagination".
two generations grew up
in December last year, Yi Yu's family faced a big accident. Yi Yu's father was bitten by a mountain shepherd on foot. In case of no preparedness, it was suddenly attacked. At that time, it was very difficult to communicate in a mountain village.
Yi Yu Ran 6 kilometers to find the dog that was attacked, in order to confirm whether the dog had received the vaccine. Though the villagers were very enthusiastic, they finally found the owner of the dog. You can only guess for a long time. It means that you have received the vaccine, but you are not sure whether it is true or not.
Yi Yu had to take his father back to the nearest city and explain it to the epidemic prevention station for a long time. The other side had to observe the vaccine for more than 10 days before being injected with rabies vaccine. Yi Yu, who was so worried, talked with the doctors who were in charge, and finally persuaded the doctor to make the first injection. Things have been solved.
"this period of understanding and communication to parents is even more than twenty or thirty years ago." Yi Yu did not think that after the original two people's travel plan turned into four people, it was like forming a family classroom, which is a completely different experience.