Reference News Network reported in February 6th that Hong Kong media said the Spring Festival was a major event in Chinese society. But for many young people, when they enjoy the joy of holiday and reunion, they have to accept their parents and friends to ask them for their achievements in the past year, including marriage and love.
this is a particularly stressful time for single men, according to the Asian Times Online in Hongkong in February 5th. They will be forced to face their miserable single fate unless they rent a girlfriend or get lucky in the local marriage market.
these involuntary bachelors failed to import their family members, often referred to as "bachelors". The Chinese government has recently begun to worry about the terrible demographic trend caused by the growing number of singles.
the difference in marital status between men and women is especially significant among young people. Statistics show that compared with women in the same age group, Chinese men who are 20 to 29 years old have 15% more unmarried people. The difference between the age group of more than 30 and 6% is about 6%, while that of people over 40 is less than 4%.
male surplus in China is at least partly due to family planning policy. The single child policy and the patriarchal tradition have led many families to abandon their daughters.
what worries the government is not the single status of these men, but their socioeconomic characteristics. China's wealth is not evenly distributed among the population, and the income gap between urban and rural population is huge. Like most countries, Chinese men are taken for granted as the breadth and pillar of a family. Women are allowed and encouraged to marry men who are well-off families. Under the double-sided attack of patriarchal tradition and the widening social gap, Chinese men at the bottom of the ladder of social economy are particularly hard to find the bride.
at the same time, the new generation of Chinese women now accounts for about 45% of the country's labor force, and the enrollment rate is roughly equal to that of men, and they do not need to rely on future husbands in the economy.
but China's labor market has become more and more discriminatory against women in recent years, and the employment and income gap between men and women has widened. Many young women, especially young women who do not have a good career prospects, once again regard marriage as the only opportunity to enhance their social status. This is reflected in the increasing cost of appointments and betrothal gifts from women to men, which is undoubtedly worse for needy men.
a young man with a poor economic situation and a bad sex may eventually vent his anger through violence against others, thereby endangering public security and social stability. This view is not groundless. Sociologists believe that long - term independence not only undermines the well-being of men, but also gives rise to the aggressive tendencies of the low - level male hormones in the hormones of ancient China and contemporary India.
Taiwan media said that during the Spring Festival, facing the family's "urge marriage order", the mainland "rented friends to go home for the Spring Festival" business flourished.
according to Taiwan's "Wang Bao" website of January 24 Daily said, in the mainland, on the eve of the Spring Festival, the children who work outside have not come home, parents early call to urge marriage. So many people were afraid to go home for fear of going home. They were also bombed by their family members. They simply rented a boyfriend or girlfriend to return home for the new year. A family member in Shenyang, Liaoning said that the recent "rental girlfriend" went home for the new year.
the man who wants to rent a girlfriend wants to see the "lease" or the other party is refused. The introduction of the person dialed the phone, let the man and the other say, but the phone is the woman's mother, said to agree with the daughter "rent", but must first speak well "how to rent?"
introduction of the staff said, if you want a lower price, of course, but it can only make the other parents see one side, do not provide other services, even if it is not to accompany a cup of beer with the family.
some businessmen also say that some women can be free, but the premise is "if the other side looks like Andy Lau!"
reported that renting friends online, rent a boyfriend or girlfriend have, every girl has a name. "Greasy heart" "flower too thick" "flower" "flower" "Begonia" all have, will also indicate that self "characteristics" is "standard" "slim" or "plump", not only can be separated from the market, but also to improve the "rental rate".
why rent a girlfriend can have so many "source of supply". Some women say that they do not go home in the new year or earn extra money. Some people say that the Spring Festival can be played everywhere. Some people pay money and eat and drink. What's wrong with going to different places every year?
according to the website of "Wang Bao" in Taiwan, renting a girlfriend to go home for the new year is often "bad". Someone took the money and ran away, and others saw the marriage. Lawyers say that renting a girlfriend is not protected by law and is difficult to protect. More difficult to regulate is to rent out a girlfriend or hide a pornographic transaction.
reported that rent a girlfriend to go home for the new year, some need to sign agreements, others are just verbal agreement. This phenomenon has existed for many years, and there are also many problems.
rent a girlfriend is not a bad ending. In Guangdong, a business man, last year for the Spring Festival to escape the family to hurry marriage, the money to rent a girlfriend to go home "intersection", did not think of the two after a few days to get along, incredibly congenial, into the auditorium.
will soon be the Spring Festival, and those who work hard outside will not be in the mood to go to work. But the holiday is not so happy. I must be home by my parents and my aunt. The news of renting girlfriends home on the Internet is also common. But have you ever seen a rented boyfriend go home?
in fact, in addition to the old men who rent their girlfriends to go home for the new year, single young women rent their boyfriends home just now. In recent years, there has also been a phenomenon of renting a boyfriend. The daily rent is over 1000 yuan. In a group of thousands of people renting Q, many men have posted personal information about the Spring Festival rental. The content involves the basic information of height, weight, education and other basic information and rental locations. In addition, the "service content" is also written, such as "coping with the marriage of parents and relatives".
rent, the daily rent is more than 1000 yuan. The group administrator introduces that the daily rental of her boyfriend is between 600 yuan and 1000 yuan in peacetime. However, near the new year, the price of renting a boyfriend will be more expensive, and the daily rent will be between 1000 yuan and 1500 yuan. Besides rent, the woman also needs to pay for the ticket and other related expenses, such as eating out and playing.
men who are single are eager to sign up. Maybe they are from a fake boyfriend to a real boyfriend. But do not move anything wrong. In the agreement to rent a boyfriend's girlfriend, it is generally indicated that "green rent", the two people sleep in separate rooms.
rent a boyfriend or girlfriend to go home for the new year, although it is to make parents happy, but this is a kind of deception, although the starting point is good faith, it is not full of filial piety. Moreover, bringing a stranger home is a great danger to himself and his family. The identity card does not guarantee a person's character. The agreement signed by the two parties can not restrain a person's behavior. This agreement is not protected by the law. In case of the injury of personal property in this so-called lease process, the wife will also lose his wife. Therefore, it is best not to take this way to win the happiness of parents, and communication with parents is the most important.