Girls in Ji'nan are 6 blind dates, most of whom want to marry well.
source: city girl
90s girl Xiaoli (pseudonym) has been 6 times in two months. She may be the youngest marriage partner among clients of Ji'nan's dating agencies.
is different from the idea that "older young people get married by marriage". When the post - 80's still lingers outside the marriage door, it has been impatient to squeeze into the besieged city of marriage and prepare for a partner as soon as possible.
women who are looking for the other half in the matchmaking agency are younger, and the number of couples who are between 21 and 23 years old is not in the minority. They have just stepped into the society, why are they so hurried into the marriage hall?
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90s girl, Xiao Li (pseudonym), came to work for more than a year in Ji'nan, and in June this year, she was registered as a member of a marriage company of weft two. "At that time, we were all surprised that we did not expect a young girl to marry." Director Chen of the company said.
and Xiao Li's request for marriage is not low: the age of about 25 years old, must be Ji'nan household registration, to have housing, and can not be bought by loans. The dating record says that since June, she has met 6 men, but has not yet reached a conclusion. "These people are generally migrant workers. Although they are younger, they are generally graduating, and their demands for the other half are more specific." Director Chen said.
there is a similar situation in the elegant marriage center of Ji'nan. At present, the company is serving more than 1000 female members, accounting for 26% of the 20 to 25 years old. Among them, the girls born in the company registered in 1989 accounted for 3%-4% of the total number, while the proportion of the total number born in 1987, 1988 and 1989 accounted for about 20%.
life pressure force some girls into the besieged city
for graduates who have just stepped into the society, it is the key period to find jobs or adapt to their career life. Why are they so hurried to go into the besieged city of marriage?
the young Han family, born in 1988, graduated in Shenxian, secondary school. She has been working in a hotel for half a year. She said she didn't want to go back to her hometown from the day she came out. But in the face of the high housing prices in the city, she has only 1000 yuan a month's wages, and can not afford to buy a house unless she spends so little on her daily expenses. If you want to stay in the city, the most likely way is to find an object in Ji'nan, the demand is not high, there is a house on the line.
for the undergraduate, young Yang, who has worked in a software company, seems not to be a problem in the city's decent life, but she has joined the ranks of the marriage army less than 23 years old, because she is afraid of being a "leftover".
Xiao Yang said, now the work pressure is too big, to get a career success, you have to sacrifice their own private time, her unit, there are many excellent women, nearly thirty, successful career, a good white-collar life, but the emotional world is now a blank, "leftover".
elegant marriage center manager Yang said that those who entered the marriage office after 90 and other young marriage seekers did not become "meat and potatoes". The person who goes to the marriage center still hopes to find the marriage object as soon as possible. After 90, the girl is not the most suitable marriage age. It is not mature mentally, and few people are willing to spend a few years to wait.
older "leftover" said that the pressure is greater than
Ms. yuan will enter the threshold of thirty years old next year, and has not found the other half of the ideal. "Every time I go to the matchmaking place, I lose confidence when I see those beautiful young girls." Ms. Yuan said that the "leftover girl" of her age is most embarrassed, and the older one is not willing to find it. "Seeing more and more young people who are seeing each other, they have no advantage, and the pressure is getting bigger and bigger." Ms. yuan's embarrassing situation made her feel deeply.
of course, more and more young people are seeking marriage, not all young women are pessimistic. Ms. Guo, who had successfully found the other half in the elegant Dating Center, said that if you were prepared to take the road of blind date, you might as well take action as early as possible. "There's no need to wait until nobody wants to go to marriage. It's not bad to find the right person and get along with the life as soon as possible. She said.