20 unsuccessful girls in Ji'nan
Shun Net - metropolitan women's
TV play "Ode to joy". Since the start of the story, with the depth of the story, Ji'nan The public has been highly enthusiastic about its discussions. In the play, the images represented by Andy and Fan Shengmei are also easy to be found in life. Ji'nan new aristocrat love private custom club general manager Han laugh said, they become leftover women is a realistic mapping, better to be better married and in Pyramid point to seek a match of emotion, these two types of women, in reality, the most difficult to find the home.
do not care about each other's conditions
only the emotion matching
the character Andy, high IQ, high education, high income, the circle of friends are all financial crocodile, is a strong woman standing on the tip of Pyramid. Almost the same as the role setting, Yu Mengran, who is 28 years old (a pseudonym), has a solid family life. He has set foot on the road to study abroad since he was 16 years old, Australia, Canada and Singapore. In 2013, after breaking up with her boyfriend who had been in business for 7 years, he returned to Ji'nan to engage in securities trading.
when she was at school, she was the best student in the class. She took full scholarship and recommended graduate school. After work, she is the backbone of the company's business, the annual tasks are over fulfilled, and the big projects are basically handed over to her.
although she is a leader in her studies and career, she has never made any contribution in her love. After returning home, my family and friends have introduced my boyfriend to me. I have seen more than 20 of them in recent years, but I am still single now. Despite her excellent personal conditions, she did not pay much attention to the income of her spouses, and was determined to find a man who could produce psychological resonance. When I first returned home, she met a man who looked up to me, but when he understood my situation, he stopped talking to me.
Yu Mengran felt that his spouse selection standard was not high, but he could not figure out why he had never been there.
good looks and work stable
three non two with
if dream ran like "eulogy of joy" Andy, the Shi Li (the pseudonym) situation is very similar to the Fan Shengmei in the play. Shi Li's hometown is in a rural area of Feicheng, Tai'an. There is a little brother who is 3 years old. My father worked outside the country all year round, and his mother worked at home for farming. After graduating from University, she was admitted to the civil service and remained in an office in Ji'nan.
every month, she sends a certain amount of alimony to her parents. When my brother gets married to buy a house, she has to help him to make a down payment. In order to cover up her own inferiority, she will take advantage of the opportunity in her work to take pictures of some important municipal meetings, or take photos of a leading survey project, and send her identity and level in a circle of WeChat friends.
in choosing a spouse, she has a set of clear and strict standards. The man is not the city, the non - system, the non - car room, the height should have the standard, the parents have the stable work.Amp; hellip.amp; hellip she thinks, depending on her good external conditions and the civil servant, the most recognized identity of the Chinese northern woman, we can find the ideal male friend. But in a continuous blind date, most of the men she looked after chose to cool down and stay away from her family. And for those men who want to work with her to create a better life, she has chosen to deny that even the house is not, how can it be together. A woman is better to have a good job than to marry.
now, Shi Li is still in frequent blind dates. She firmly believes that she can find her favorite person.
why is the reality mapping of leftover women
whether it is Andy and Fan Shengmei in TV plays, or Yu Mengran and Shi Li in reality, for the two kinds of mate selection standards that are better to find a match in the Pyramid point than to get married well, the general manager of the new aristocratic love personal club of Ji'nan These two kinds of women are the most difficult to find in reality.
she analyses that there are many golden collar women like dreamland in Ji'nan. Not only are the economic conditions higher than the average male, but also the knowledge and vision are stronger than most men, so there is not enough connotations and economic strength, and it is difficult for men to be able to control such women. The men who could match them, the younger ones who had no such ability, and the older age had long been married, could have the chance to encounter fate too little.
for Shi Li, although she looks good and works steadily, but the family condition is indeed normal, her parents' pension problem may become her burden in the future. Moreover, often in the circle of friends show life, may be a vain girl, general men will mind. Han said that blind date is not a love affair, and both sides have a clear marriage goal. So girls like Shi Li will find it difficult to find a spouse if they want too much.