After 90, single mothers are the driving force of Yuesao, only to settle down in Ji'nan with their children.
Qilu Evening News reporter Zhang Afeng
Zhang Lei is cleaning the client's toy room. Although she is young, she has won the customer's praise from the careful and thoughtful service. It took only two years to be promoted from one star to four star.
Zhang Lei was busy and had a chat with reporters. She looked at the cell phone from time to time. She only asked the customer for two hours' leave.
just last month, she just got the divorce verdict, and began to formally embark on the road of single mother. "I am single, and I will live with my son." On the day she got the verdict, she made a state in her circle of friends.
as a post-90s, she is engaged in a career that few of her peers will choose -- 24 hours home. She meticulously protects the children of the client's family, but only separates herself from her children.
who says the post-90s can't suffer? Who says after 90 does not pay? Zhang Lei achieved four stars from one star in less than two years. She worked hard to realize her value in life, and also realized her dream of settling down in Ji'nan with her children.
borrow money to learn Yuesao, almost no peer
I decided to do Yuesao after her father had been away for more than a year. You may not believe it, though I was married for over 3 years at that time, and the children were two and a half years old.
I was born in 1990, my hometown is in Zhangqiu rural area. After graduating from the first vocational school of CNC lathes at the age of 18 in Zhangqiu, we have been in succession to the quality inspector of the clothing factory, the charge of telephone charges, the quality inspector of the food factory and the shipper of the carton factory. Yuesao is my fifth job and my longest time job.
first came into contact with this industry because it was heard that Yuesao had a high income. I was almost divorced, and I needed a well paid job to ensure the basic life of my children and me. And young people like us will be laughed at if they have been working in the countryside and do not go out to make money.
, so in May 2014, I signed up to sunshine elder sister Housekeeping Service Co., Ltd. to accept Yuesao training. Although housekeeping practitioners are getting younger and younger, they find that the so-called younger age is far from young to 90.
had seventy or eighty training sessions with me, but not one of my peers, and my colleagues were usually over 35 years old. They were surprised to see me: why do they come out to do Yuesao in such a small way?
indeed, my classmates and friends of my own age are mostly just married, not enjoying the sweetness of love, that is to take the children at home, and few people come out to work, let alone housework. I know that there are more 90 people who are still little princesses and babies in front of their parents. But I can't. I have to have the ability to raise children independently.
you are still a child. Can you bring good children?
initial entry to the company, the company leaders and teachers are not optimistic about me, especially my training teacher, particularly worried about me, I think I am young, can not eat this bitter, stick to it. Teachers say, now there are few post - 90s sister-in-law in the industry, not because the post - 90s have never come, but almost no one can stick down, most of the work has not been long to beat the drum.
I said to my teacher, "you can rest assured that I am young, but I have experienced many hardships and I can persist in it."
customers are surprised to see me at the beginning. They feel that I am so young, I am still a child, can I bring a good child? In order to dispel customer concerns and start working, the company will arrange an age, experienced five star monthly sister-in-law with me into customer service. Only through this initial stage, customers have recognized my ability, so that I can serve customers independently.
the more people doubt, the more I have to do well, the more I have to persist. Because all along, my character is very strong, do not want to lose never admit defeat.
over the past two years, I have served four clients. The customer is very satisfied with me, and now the customer who has served has booked me for 7 months. The evaluation of customer satisfaction prompted me to gradually upgrade from the first star month wife to the current four star Yuesao.
in fact, the biggest requirement of customers is to give love to their children and to their children as their children. This is also my advantage. I have just had my own children and will be very good to their children. Besides, it is very difficult to not be liked when working at ordinary times.
also gets along well with several customers. Only third customers, some strong character, encountered anything, do not let an explanation, do not let a word, let me pressure. At that time, though I was not feeling very well, I told myself that the contract was signed for three months.
facing the parting, the child cries
before the training is ready to go to work, I go back to my home to see the children. What I do is 24 hours home, so that I can save money for renting in Ji'nan, but I can't bring my children to work. On the day of going to work, the child ran after the car in the rear, and the tears were torn away. He is only two years old. I bite my teeth and think that I must try to take the child away.
finally, my mother loves her child. After knowing my situation, let me send her child to her. But my mother is not easy. I have a high school brother who is going to college, and my mother is also working for money. She opened a lathe for her neighbor's small factory. She also had ten mu of land in her house and helped me bring my child. Later, I realized that my mother had passed out of the factory and fainted at the door. None of my mom told me. After
work, the company has four days off every month, every Monday day, I save two weeks to return to Zhangqiu's hometown, only two children in a month. In order to reduce the burden on my mother, the child was only two and a half years old, so I sent him to the kindergarten.
when I first started the job, I felt really uncomfortable. The main reason is that the customers' families are generally very harmonious, the conditions are good, and the children are very happy. While I admired it, I even felt sorry for my child. The child is faced with a single parent family, and I can not accompany him. I can't give him the warmth and company of this family.
but if I have to spend time with my children every day, even at least I have no financial support to raise him. I prefer to go out to earn money to support my family. Now that I have the income, I can give him the tuition fee in kindergarten, and I can buy him what he needs and wants, which will enable me to continue.
looking forward to settling down in Ji'nan and living with
I started to lose weight after I worked in Yuesao. Do you know how fat I was when I first started doing Yuesao? I have 208 pounds. Later, I began to deliberately control diet, coupled with hard work, a year, I lost 60 Jin, reduced to about 140 pounds. In the fastest time, I can reduce 20 kilos a month. 20 jin is very obvious, walking on the road can feel walking more light, and people are more confident.
now, I really like Yuesao's job. Before I did it, I thought about feeding, bathing, cleaning, and so on, but I did not find out, whether it was touching or bathing, there were so many ways in it. This let me not only have a sense of knowledge and skill, but also let me feel ashamed of my own children, regret not later to the children, give him better care. If I have the opportunity to remarry and have a second child, I will give the child the best care.
in addition to this, the demand for this industry is increasing, as long as you have good business, willing to work, will never be laid off, and the income will become more and more high. And Yuesao's work is at home, the wind can not rain, can deal with the customer relationship is a family, do not have to engage in intrigues with people outside. More importantly, the long time to live with these high-end customers, constantly learning from the customers, can let me know more, no longer like a native, feel his footsteps are faster than in the countryside.
what I am most looking forward to in the future is to be able to settle down in Ji'nan, take the children from my hometown and live with me. If I can do it, I will continue to work in sister-in-law, but I will change from 24 hours of home - sister-in-law to 8 - hour working - sister-in-law so that I can go back to accompany the child every day. After all, the children are getting older and older, and they need to study and life. I also worry that he does not have a father for a long time, and his mother is not around, and there will be a psychological defect. It is these beautiful yearning that makes me work hard every day.