She went to the funeral parlour to work as a social worker. She cried three times a week.
source: Shandong commercial newspaper
in August 3rd, Zhang Qiaoling, a new social worker who had just graduated from University, was divided into the Lotus Hill funeral home in Ji'nan. Now a week passed, does she adapt to the society?
"the mother's family is a social worker, the mother's family is a funeral home"
at 9 yesterday morning, when the reporter came to the funeral parlor at Lotus Hill, Zhang Qiaoling and the other staff were doing exercises for morning exercises. "Apart from doing exercises is studying rules and regulations, just coming to work in units, and not familiar with the organizational structure. It doesn't seem to be very well understood." Zhang Qiaoling said she needed more practice to accumulate experience quickly and steadily.
just entered the funeral home, and many colleagues will also ask Zhang Qiaoling for social workers. She will smile with a "special service" answer, and in fact, she does serve. "I am both a funeral parlour and not a funeral home. It is a little subtle. For example, Ji'nan spring social work service is my maiden home, the Lotus Hill funeral home is my mother's family, since it has been married, it is natural to be a good family daughter-in-law. Zhang Qiaoling said with a smile.
the first day of work was not afraid of
as a funeral home guide, and 22 year old Zhang Qiaoling had to be familiar with all the normal work in the museum, because most people came here for the first time and were not familiar with the service process, and the guide was particularly important. "Be patient and patient and feel the grief of your family members so that you can do well." Zhang Qiaoling quoted the leader's advice.
in order to be familiar with the various processes, Zhang Qiaoling took part in the farewell ceremony, followed the experienced guide as an intern, watched the freezer, passed the cremation furnace, but she did not feel the "horror and fear" in her anticipation. "To tell you the truth, the work is in the daytime, in the beginning of the familiar process is accompanied by colleagues, and not so scared, which is completely different from the idea I prepared to work." Zhang Qiaoling said, but really let her unexpected is the gap between ideal and reality.
other people's farewell ceremony, she also tears
from Zhang Qiaoling's Web log, she saw that she had just worked a week, she cried three times, but not because of the work itself. "In order to get into the role as soon as possible, I will go to the farewell ceremony, and I will cry when I see my family cry." Zhang Qiaoling said that every time he wept, he had a long time to fall, and had to read, call a distant boyfriend or communicate with other social workers, in order to distract the depression.
she is very satisfied with her present work, but still dare not tell her relatives and friends at home because "the village is too small to gossip a lot." Next, the funeral parlor wants to make new tooling and has a high demand for the body. Zhang Qiaoling hopes to reduce weight further on the existing basis, which is also a part of the work. "I have to make clear what I do. I just do the service, so I want to love my work, like my love, like my work, love can be motivated to face." Zhang Qiaoling encouraged himself like this in his diary.