that is the night dinner that lets Shanghai girls decide to break up. R / > according to the girl's post, the story is like this:
a Shanghai girl has a boyfriend is Jiangxi rural people, the family is poor, but the work ability is strong, "sell phase" is the kind that girls like. During the new year, the girl, regardless of his family's opposition, followed her boyfriend back to the country for the new year. She didn't think it was easy to bump home, but the girl regretted when he saw the first meal. She decided to break up with her boyfriend and return to Shanghai immediately.
this event occurred immediately after the occurrence of the Shanghai girl.
He Lei: I want to say that all the food in the countryside know that these meals are all like this, maybe it looks black, but I don't want to say that people in the countryside do not say dirty! Those bowls and chopsticks are not dirty. I still eat them every year. It doesn't matter if you look down on the poor. The women in the incident are uneducated, uneducated and untutoring. The arrogance of Shanghai people is well known throughout the country. This couple is also right, I just want to say that the actor's eye is poor. I won't want this girl at the beginning!
"six countries perish alone sad Zhao: Shanghai girl went to Jiangxi boyfriend rural old home, after eating the first meal, then fled to break up. Now even foreigners are talking about this. Their tone basically feels that Shanghai girls are wrong. Let me talk about it. First, do not wave the moral stick. Everyone has his own feelings and power to choose. Second, maybe girls will regret it, but at least not for the time being. Third, the boy did a good job, finding a car to send away, without complaint, and without excessive action.
>: it is very difficult to be true, the gap between the city and the countryside has been placed there, and the choice should be no return. I can only say that the girl is not as good as the rural people, the rearing, the etiquette, the principle, the bottom line is the character of being human. How to educate adults!
the goddess of face and face: the food in the countryside is good, with fish and meat, that is, the dishes are not so good. But breaking up everything depends on your own mind. But on the Internet, the parents were embarrassed. After all, the old man did his best.
> "Saussurea flower blooming: I am a wife who is married to Jiangxi, I do not think Jiangxi is so bad, some remote places in Jiangxi may be poor, but the year will never be vague and the guests are more enthusiastic. Since you have come, as a qualified Shanghai people, why not insist on one? Next, wait back to think about breakup again, birth is not a choice, the boy's parents do not do anything wrong, since you can not accept, you can choose to leave, why to send to the Internet, with your own hours of judgment of a person, girl you are more willed!
@Anastasia_Z_S: I understand her, she, on the premise of understanding his conditions, regardless of his parents' obstruction, and he is together, including with him home, I believe in her heart is prepared. But after seeing it, the gap is too big to accept. This is not only a huge gap between material conditions, but also a divergence of thinking in future life. Marriage is a matter of two people. There is a huge difference between the two old people who are unable to communicate. The most fundamental is the difference between urban and rural areas.
network big V "and the head of the dish" points out that the Shanghai girl "inserting chopsticks in the rice bowl" is a lack of education, "the right to marry is in a girl, but marriage is not married and there is no family education is two different things." And point out that "the family joyfully greeted his son's girlfriend, turned her sister and left, the whole family was depressed, and became the headline of the national network in second days." "Your family is too poor, the son let a person dump", from the private affairs of the family, into a village, a country is well known, the sister is too much to do this? " Wei Chunliang, a net friend, wrote an article entitled "Shanghai girl flee, a daily life on which my parents were living," he said in the article, "no wonder the girl is inhumane and uncultured. She has only witnessed the most real situation in China; she only found out that we were living in great difference for the first time." Different. Maybe it's just this huge difference that frightens her. "
perhaps this Shanghai girl did not think of a post of his own, set off an emotional discussion about "the door to each other", "the phoenix male married peacock woman", talking about marriage marriage, is a private affair between two people, even if the netizens discussed the fierce, also can not be involved in this Shanghai girl's choice. However, the great influence of the gap between the urban and rural areas on the spouse selection and marriage life of the young generation deserves everyone to think deeply. Perhaps as the counselor Liao Weiwen said, "good material can really improve life, but this is never a person, the key to whether a family can get happiness, the key is what you hold about life, whether you have love to overcome embarrassment, if the idea is right." With love and understanding, no matter what the present situation is, we always have a way to live a decent life. "