Guangxi News Network - contemporary life newspaper reporter Huang Zhanling / TU
Zhang Fei and Cao rock
1 month morning, Zhang Fei alone in the rental room, watching the empty room, some do not know what to do. Tomorrow, Zhang Fei will fly back to Jilin to go to the hospital to look after his sick lover Cao Yan.
Zhang Fei and Cao Yan got married in 2009. In 2013, two people were quarrelling with each other because of their new year's Eve and divorced on impulse. After the divorce, Cao Yan suffered from breast cancer, and Zhang Fei knew about it and began to take care of it. Last March, Cao Yan went to Guangxi Teachers Education University to be a graduate student after his illness. Zhang Fei chose to accompany him and find a job in Nanning and feed two people on a meager salary. In January of this year, Cao Yan was diagnosed with cancer recurrence. Zhang Fei decided to resign and accompany Cao Yan to fight cancer. The doctor said Cao Yan's situation was not optimistic, but Zhang Fei said he would not give up as long as there was still a glimmer of hope.
fights divorce
for the last year of the two people to separate
"if this year, we will not return to my home for the new year, then we simply don't go!" When Zhang Fei said this sentence, he never thought he would separate from his lover Cao Yanzhen.
Zhang Fei, 31, is from Anyang in Henan. Cao Yan, a four year old, is from Gongzhuling in Jilin, and the two are a secondary school teacher in a local county in Anyang. In 2009, the two married and gave birth to a lovely son the following year. From marriage to two years after the birth of the child, the Spring Festival, Zhang Fei is in Cao Yan's home, because Cao Yan feels that Henan is cold, Jilin is cold but the house has a hot Kang, and she is the only child in the family, the Spring Festival should be at home with parents. Before
2013's Spring Festival, Zhang Fei proposed to take her and her children back to their hometown for the Spring Festival, because from the birth of the child to the 2013, Zhang Fei's parents had never seen grandchildren. "My parents always talked about when they could see grandchildren. I really couldn't refuse them any more." Zhang Fei said. The two of them ended up in a big quarrel because of the problem of returning to their family's new year's Eve. "At that time, I was really angry and thinking about divorce is no big deal." At the time of the second day of the quarrel, two people went to the local civil affairs bureau for divorce.
Zhang Fei said, the year of the Spring Festival, the children followed Cao Yan in Jilin for the new year, and he went back to the hometown of Henan, to find a reason to tell their parents, a person to come back for the new year. Not long, Zhang Fei's mother, when cleaning the room for him, found the divorce certificate of two people. The two old people were very angry, persuaded Zhang Fei to hurry up with Cao Yan, and could not suffer the young children. Later, when Zhang Fei returned to school, Cao Yan had gone back to his hometown. "At that time, I didn't think so much, but the day went by as usual." Zhang Fei said.
hit
she was suffering from cancer and he resigned to accompany
2013 in September. Cao Yan received an admission notice from a graduate student in the Department of mathematics at the Guangxi Teachers Education University and was going to study in Nanning. But on the eve of her departure, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. The sudden blow made her choose to quit school, and she was hospitalized immediately to start chemotherapy. During the chemotherapy, her hair began to fall, and her mother did not bear to bear the heart of a patient in the hospital, and she called Zhang Fei in private. On the phone, Cao Yan's mother could not help crying. Zhang Feicai knew that Cao Yan, who had not seen him for several months, was ill.
Zhang Fei hurriedly bought a ticket to visit Cao Yan in the hospital, and found that after her serious illness, he immediately took a month off from school. In that month, Zhang Fei took care of Cao Yan at a moment, in addition to talking with her, cooking and washing for her, looking at the increasingly haggard lover, and at that time he began to regret that he should not divorce Cao Yan. A month later, Zhang Fei resigned to the school, his parents supported Zhang Fei's resignation, and his friends objected. Finally, Zhang Fei chose to resign. "I don't want to think about that much. Love is the most important thing in front of us." Zhang Fei said.
just like this, Zhang Fei and Cao Yan began to fight cancer. From chemotherapy to surgery to radiotherapy, Zhang Fei never left. The treatment cost a lot of money. Zhang Fei did not have the source of the economy, so he could only save money and borrow money to raise money. Later, after their stories were reported by Jilin media, they were helped by many loving people. "At that time, I thought I would be better off, repay the society and repay all the people who helped us." Cao Yan said.
remarriage was refused
she was worried that she was dragging her favorite person
2014, and Cao Yan was getting better after receiving radiotherapy and got the doctor's permission to go home. At this point, Zhang Fei chose to stay at Cao Yan's house, take care of his wife and children, and propose a remarriage to Cao Yan, but Cao Yan refused his request. In Cao Yan's view, although her condition has improved, it is not stable yet. She does not want to drag her favorite people. In March of 2015, Cao Yan came to study in Nanning, but Zhang Fei was not satisfied that she lived alone and chose to study in Nanning.
at first, two people rented a room near the mayor of Nanning Road, Cao Cao went to class during the day, and Zhang Fei bought food and cooking at home. Later, Zhang Fei went to a middle school in middle Yao Road, Nanning, and found a teacher's job. The monthly salary was only 1500 yuan, barely enough to maintain two people's life. Because of the distance from work, Zhang Fei must catch 6 hours of bus every day, and go back home with students to return home 10 hours at night.
last August, Zhang Fei changed to a school. His salary was 1000 yuan per month, and the life of two people began to improve. At this time, Cao Yan's body began to appear problems, often to the hospital for medical examination, each time to see a doctor spend hundreds of dollars to 1000 yuan. "The most feared and most worried thing is that she is ill." Zhang Fei said.
towards the end of the semester, Cao Yan told Zhang Fei that his back was always inexplicable, and he planned to go back to Jilin for another examination. At that time, Zhang Fei thought that this was only a routine check. There should be no problem. Cao Yan just had a physical examination a month ago, and the doctor said all the indicators were normal. So Zhang Fei let Cao Yan go back to Jilin and stay in Nanning to continue his work.
cancer relapse
he resigned again to accompany her lover to resist the disease
in early January this year, Cao Yan was diagnosed with cancer recurrence. On the day of the news, Zhang Fei watched the drizzle outside the window fall into pain. At that moment, he wanted to shout, "why is God torturing his lover again?" Why can't happiness always stay with us? However, Zhang Fei quickly arranged his emotions. He knew Cao Cao would be more overwhelmed. Zhang Fei decided to quit her job again and accompany her lover to fight cancer. "Cao Yan was so brave that she could feel her fear when she listened to her speech. It really distressed her." Zhang Fei said.
Cao Yan is now hospitalized in the first hospital of Jilin. She feels pain on the body as the cancer cells have been transferred to bone and liver. In spite of this, Cao Yan persisted in reading and learning. "Cao Yan is diligent and studious, and has great ideas for academic research." Liu Shengping, a teacher in the Department of mathematics at the Guangxi Teachers Education University, said.
1 24, Cao Yan, in a telephone interview with reporters, said he was very grateful to Zhang Fei for her care. Because of his poor health, Cao Yan could not share too much housework for Zhang Fei, which made her feel guilty. Now, she is once again admitted to the hospital. Despite her efforts to remain optimistic, her mood is somewhat low as long as she thinks of Zhang Fei's debts. Before the cancer recurred, doctors told Cao Yan that if the body had been kept well for five years, it would prove that the body was no problem. "At that time, I thought, five years later, I must marry him and be his good wife." Cao Yan said, now that the body is out again, is there any hope for their love? On the evening of 24,
1, Zhang Fei, who had completed the resignation procedure, gave her children the last lesson. Zhang Fei's student Liu Shufan's parents donated 5000 yuan to him after he heard about Zhang Fei's situation. "I really appreciate it. If I return to Nanning, I must thank the parents again." Zhang Fei said. In Zhang Fei's view, it is embarrassing to accept the help of the parents, but he can not take care of so much, because this time Cao Yan's condition is fierce, if he can not make up for the cost of treatment, then the illness will be delayed soon.
Cao Yan's chief physician is Lv Zheng of the breast cancer group in the cancer center of the first hospital of Jilin. Lv Zheng said Cao Yan must also start the targeted therapy except for the chemotherapy. The cost of the target treatment is about 17000 yuan a month. If the therapeutic effect is good, it will need two or three years of treatment.
1 24, in the reporter Zhang Fei, the reporter saw a part of the medical records, some are medical reports, some are doctors to open the liver and kidney medicine, and in the other side of the bed also put some medicine left by Cao rock. Zhang Fei said that he and Cao Yan had been donated by a lot of love people, raised about 200 thousand yuan of love, in addition to about 100000 yuan for surgery, later rehabilitation and each check also spent a lot of money, now that love has nothing left. For the two people of Zhang Fei and Cao Yan, Cao Yan's parents are not well, and Zhang Fei's elderly parents are living at home, and the cost of treatment for cancer recurrence is no doubt a huge cost.
but Zhang Fei told reporters that no matter how difficult the road was, he would try to guard Cao Yan to help her overcome the disease and overcome cancer. "For me, Cao Yan is my love, my family, and my world can't have her!" Zhang Fei said.