poetry poetry in reality is an article Quiet and open-minded 90 girl information times rich girl found a phoenix man, parents do not agree with what to do? My boyfriend doesn't take care of me. What should I do? This is the question that the university student poetry poetry (pseudonym) often answers to others, she recently successfully applied for a Internet Co "love optimizer" career, 200 thousand yuan a year, specially to teach people to be in love. However, in real life, she has never been in love. Do you believe in such a love mentor?
origin: boudoir has become the object of
22 years old poetry of this year is a senior Chinese college student of a Chinese University in Guangzhou. Last month she was applied to become an employee of an Internet enterprise, the position was a love optimizer, and the annual salary was 200 thousand yuan, mainly on the Internet to teach people to be in love and solve emotional problems. Wait.
Why do you choose such a job? She said she likes watching online novels and emotional movies, and the topics of conversation are more focused on emotional issues. "I like to chat with my girlfriends, but every time I talk to my girlfriends, I end up being told. This makes me good at listening, and is good at helping others analyze and solve problems from the perspective of spectators.
experience: virtual world has more than 500 disciples of
in a social software called "love", poetry has many fans. "They will talk to me about emotional problems, and I will always keep an eye on them." In July last year, a rich girl told her that her parents had feelings for her boyfriend, causing her feelings to be out of order. Poetry suggests that if the two sides are feeling well, go on firmly and try to persuade parents to get their parents' blessing and understanding.
in addition to emotional problems, uncle also worried about his daughter's puppy love and asked for poetry. "I also have a puberty feeling that these children will be rebellious, so parents should be skilled in persuasion and persuasion," she said.
nowadays, poetry has 500 disciples in the virtual world. At the same time, she met and met with others in the Internet world.
question: "love tutor" has no love experience
however, in real life, poetry is really a student without love experience, the only emotional experience is once in love with a male student for 7 years.
without practical experience, how can we be qualified for "love optimizer"? The head of the Internet Co, who recruited poetry as an employee, said, "everyone has a variety of problems when they are in love. What she wants to do is to analyze and summarize the problems as a bystander, and to optimize love. As a spectator, you can see clearly and do not need rich emotional experience. "
expert: "love and emotion do not have an expert"
"now often hear 'emotional experts',' love experts', but I think there is no expert in love and emotion. Everyone starts from scratch, and the people they meet are different. They have no experience to follow. " Hu Shenzhi, founder of sunflower psychological counseling center and marriage expert, believes that there is no standard for love. Some people think that two people are happy to be in love and that marriage is not married. Some people think that marriage is a success, but even if it comes to marriage, it will be divorced, so say, love success or not. Where is the standard? Everyone has a different standard of love.
he also said whether a person can play a role in other people's love, and not necessarily have practical experience in love. "Everyone can try and become an expert of their own."