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Su dream alone in The family keeps a notebook and opens up a fun shop. The photos were provided by from postgraduate students. After that, Su Meng, a female college student after 90, began taking over a cousin's shop. A few thousand yuan a month, or even tens of thousands of Yuan's income, makes her lead a more comfortable life than most students. Just, she never let the students go to the store. Because this is a fun shop. So Su Meng chose to be a stuffy man and keep the secret.
to buy condoms for women in the online shop is more than
Su Meng's home in Qingdao, Shandong. When he is reading a graduate student in Chongqing, her cousin offered to give her a free shop for her to do for free. At that time, the cousin was particularly busy. I had a lot of leisure time when I was a graduate student. She directly asked me to take over the store. I think it's an opportunity to make money. Su Meng's parents were very worried when they heard that their daughter wanted to take such a store, for fear that she would learn bad. But Su Meng is very insistent, and the parents are gradually compromising.
the products in Sumeng store include condoms, masturbation appliances, lubricants, sexy underwear and so on. After class, she opened her notebook in her dormitory and served herself as a customer service. In fact, many people do not consult, order directly to buy. After su Meng orders, she usually tells the factory to deliver the goods. Her main responsibility is customer service and promotion. I will also check some product descriptions carefully, so as to give detailed answers to customers. When consulting buyers, they often ask whether condoms are genuine products, appliances will not be good for the skin and so on, and there is no erotic topic. When Su Meng makes customer service, he also pays great attention to avoiding the sight of his classmates. Although we are all adults, most of them are unmarried. If the students know, maybe they will have different opinions about her.
the best selling item in the store is the condom. Su Meng found that most of the condoms were women. Men are concerned about sex, and women also consider safety. Many women are embarrassed to go to the supermarket to buy, and many men do not take the initiative to prepare, resulting in many women are willing to buy condoms online. Su Meng also said that this reflects the enhancement of women's self-protection consciousness.
this industry is sometimes popularized more than the product is important
with this part-time job, Su Meng has four thousand or five thousand yuan per month, when more than ten thousand, can be compared to an ordinary white-collar income. In order to promote the business in the store, Sumeng tried to do the bill. Later, he tried to advertise on the side of Taobao website, and promoted some activities of buying condoms to give up the eggs. Monthly sales were over 20 thousand. Sometimes it's more important than product to do business of sex products.
Su Meng said her supplier was also a girl. I don't know why. There are many girls in this circle. Most people will not let their neighbors know that they run such a store. There are also some female shopkeepers who will be generous enough to reveal their true identity, and others will sell in WeChat's friends circle. I think there is nothing wrong with such a practice. Some good female shopkeepers will also attach their own photos.
some people think that women are selling their sex products in the face of sale, but I don't think so. Su Meng said that people who have this idea have a strong male chauvinism. Su Meng believes that in such an era of increasingly open concept, women engaged in interest commodity industry is a trend. The patriarchal society only respects men's sexual rights, but sets up sexual chains for women and distorts women's sexual attitudes and behaviors. Many women subconsciously suppress sexual desire and exclude sexual desire.
the shopkeepers occasionally come out of the strange idea of
although they have opened a fun shopping net shop, Su dream still likes Korean drama like ordinary girls and reads pure love novels. But she also had some strange ideas that some students could not understand. For example, she discussed with her mother to adopt a baby. Two mothers and daughters even went to see a child at a local children's welfare institution, but later their family decided not to agree.
the idea is bold, and some of the times are quite feminine, but unlike some feminists, Su's dream that the sexes of men and women should not be obliterated. Some feminists advocate the theory of queer. The so-called "queer" is the dual mode of jumping off and out of men and women. Queer thinks that they are only male or female, but gender is uncertain and mobile. I do not dislike the neutralization trend of society, but I also believe that gender should not be obliterated. In the world, there are men, women, and some neutral talents who are truly pluralistic.
Su dream in life is a daring girl, who has plucked up courage to express his love to the boy he likes. In fact, before I confession, I think he liked me very much. But when I confession, he behaved rather coolly. Su Meng said that this experience had made her very worried. She began to think that many boys could not accept the initiative of girls. Many men think that women who actively pursue men should not be treasured or are not sufficiently reserved. This summer, she graduated from a university in Chongqing and entered a media work in Ji'nan.
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2015 is the twentieth year of the basic national policy of equality between men and women in China. Over the past 20 years, social attitudes towards women have changed dramatically. Women themselves have begun to pursue their diverse lives independently and boldly. Some of them go out to see the world boldly, some people choose to spend their lives alone, others speak boldly about sex. They dare to think, dare to do, is a part of the eyes of women, but also dare to act as a woman.
it is undeniable that inequality in men and women is still everywhere in this society. In Chinese TV series, Hong Pan, born in 1954, can only play the role of mother-in-law or mother. Robin White, who was born in 1966, can play the charming first lady in the house of cards. Just like an interviewee said, aunt is a derogatory term, but uncle is a commendatory word. This reflects the social discrimination against middle-aged and elderly women. No matter how beautiful the women are, they will grow old and advocate equality between men and women for everyone's interests. Therefore, we might as well take off the worldly glasses and learn to tolerate and appreciate these avant-garde action groups.