Tang Gong practitioners / > In recent days, Tang Gong, a 22 year old girl in Shangluo, has been accepted by Massachusetts Institute of Technology and won the mother
daughter didn't go to school and never went to school after school.
22 years old, Tang Gong was a senior 4 student in architecture environment major at Tsinghua University Architecture College. Not long ago, he received the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, Harvard University, Cornell University, the Cornell University, the Cornell University, the Columbia University. The admission notice of 6 world famous schools, such as Duke University and Duke University, Tang Gong finally chose Massachusetts Institute of Technology and won a full scholarship.
Gong Huiru, mother of Tang Gong, said that the first acceptance of an American college admission notice was the night of the thirty year of the Spring Festival, and after that he received a letter of admission from a number of other universities in the United States.
Gong Huiru in a primary school in Shangluo, talking about the growth experience of her daughter, she said, the family never let Tang Gong go to the culture class, the number class and so on. Gong Huiru said that when Tang Gong was a child, she was a big hand. At the age of kindergarten, she took the child to work and let her children play freely on campus. When he was six and a half years old, he went straight to a local primary school. Junior high school is in a junior middle school class in Shangluo. The purpose is to make children grow up with a hobby besides professional knowledge.
Tang Gong played a lot of fun when he was young, and he often asked for leave when he was in school. "I've been embarrassed to ask the teacher for more times." Gong Huiru said that once she went to Xi'an to train, Tang Gong also wanted to play. She asked the child for a week's leave.
there was a mid-term exam, and the children did not want to take part in it. She took the child up the mountain for a day. "She's in a bad mood. I don't want to force her to take an exam, leaving a long shadow in her mind." Gong Huiru said that despite this, the children's performance has been good, generally can test a few. Tang Gong sometimes sleeps in class. When they know the situation, they don't criticize her severely. Maybe they are the knowledge that the teacher taught, and the children have mastered it in advance.
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there is no educational method to communicate with children's barrier free communication
Tang Gong's father Tang Shujun in a media work in Shangluo, referring to Tang Gong's education, he said, "really there is no way, if it is true, it is only a barrier free communication with the child."
on the daughter's personality characteristics, Tang Shujun and his wife's view is almost the same, but also feel that children play. Tang Gong, when she was three years old, saw her painting interesting. They asked her to study in the children's pen and ink class. Later, the children thought the dance was fun, and they let their children take part in the dance training class. After a little, he took part in the training of the electronic organ. Only the piano has been insisting on watching the music during the university period. That's all.
"when my daughter was at school, she didn't seem to work very hard. After school, she went home to watch TV and went to junior high school for three years without even carrying back her schoolbag." Tang Shujun said that he was more liberal in the education of the children. If he was qualified for experience, he could only say that he had made friends with her daughter, exchanged it with a friend, and was willing to communicate with his father.
Tang Shujun recalls that one day, when she was on her daughter's sophomore year, he said, "Dad, let's give me a guide." The daughter felt that she had been playing for fun and had abandoned herself. Tang Shujun said she had talked with her daughter for hours in the evening, and at last the daughter said happily, "you have solved the knot in my heart." Since then, the daughter has made qualitative changes, and her performance has been steady in the top of the class.
another time, when the child came home, he was despondent. Tang Shujun asked, the teacher said that when he handed in his composition today, the teacher's attitude was rather cold. Tang Shujun told the child, "the teacher is also a person, the teacher is also good and bad mood, may be the teacher's family has encountered some trouble, for a moment did not consider your feelings, you should also think more for the teacher." Such a guidance, the child's mood suddenly better.
Tang Shujun says they are equal with their children, and adults can criticize children wrong, but adults never say "you don't do it right" to their children. Tang Shujun said that children have never been to Internet cafes since childhood. He has been reluctant to go, and has been sticking to this principle issue. When the child graduated from high school, Tang Shujun said, "you can go now."
an insider said, "Tang Gong is gifted and intelligent. Her parents are fond of playing and don't have a good command. Tang Gong's experience is hard to duplicate."
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I love to play, I love fun, but I'm opposed to unrestrained playthings
, Tang Gong says, often someone will ask her, how do you learn? "I don't want to study either, but people need to read more books if they are ugly. Whenever I do not want to learn, take a mirror, I have the power to learn. This is a joke, but Tang Gong thinks half of the joke is true.
Tang Gong said that she had told such a joke more than once: there are three people who take the elevator from the first floor to the ten floor. One person runs in situ, one is doing push ups, one is hitting the wall with his head. They are all on the ten floor. Some people ask how do you get to the ten floor? One man said, I ran up. One said, I came up with push ups. One said, I hit the wall with my head. "This story is to illustrate that all the methodology that pushes the process down is a hooliganism. My experience is just personal experience, and it is just a reference for others.
for the college entrance examination, Tang Gong believes that the first college entrance examination is the simplest and fastest way to enter the so-called prestigious school in life. Tang Gong says she is not clear about other schools. In Tsinghua, for example, there are 29 people in their class. About 40% of them are directly recommended for master's and doctorate, and about 30% of them go abroad, and the rest of the 30% will be recommended to other places. There are probably a few hundred people who go to their department every year. In these hundreds of people, there will probably be more than a dozen people entering the reexamination stage through the examination. At the most, there are up to one or two of these more than ten people entering Tsinghua through the interview. "I have no doubt that more students will be better than Tsinghua students, but they have no chance to enter Tsinghua University. That's the truth. "
for the students who are going to the entrance examination, Tang Gong suggests that, if you are at the present stage, you are deliberate, and make a decision not to study hard on your life, and no one can stop you. If your dream is not a competitive player, can you control the time of your game; if your dream is not a writer, can you reasonably arrange the time for your own reading of the novel; if your dream is not a movie critic, then you can see a few Electric Shadows. "I like to play very much and enjoy pleasure, but I object to unrestrained play."