90 men take care of paralyzed girlfriend 5 years of self-made equipment to help them exercise
before daily rehabilitation training, He Jinfeng It's all about helping Feng Xiaoge warm up for half an hour.
in the homemade parallel bars of He Jin Feng, Xiao Ge insists on exercising every day.
reporter Cai Junyan Tan Pingwen Xu Junwen photography core hint: "take a ridge to turn a mountain, the air in the ravine is really fresh..." Zhoukou 90s boy He Jinfeng heard the Henan Opera "Chaoyang ditch" know the Chaoyang ditch, but he never thought that he would stay in this place for 5 years, because there was his beloved girl Feng Xiaoge. An accident paralyzed Feng Xiaoge's lower extremities and soon lost his mother. At that time, he and his girlfriend fell in love for only half a year and he chose to stay. In Chaoyang village, Daye Town, Dengfeng, in the humble and warm cave of the cave, he made his girlfriend home-made parallel bars and other equipment, and accompanied her day after day, year after year for rehabilitation training.
"Zha" took care of his girlfriend in Zhoukou Chaoyang gully, and moved to Dengfeng
"this young man is really good!"
now in Chaoyang Gou Village, He Jinfeng, a 24 year old Zhoukou boy, is almost household name. In January 16th, the "good boy after 90" was chosen as one of the ten leading figures in Dengfeng. Why did the Zhoukou guys move Dengfeng? He had to take care of a girl with two lower limbs paralyzed by Chaoyang gully.
"this young man, really!" The village people speak of He Jinfeng and do not live in admiration. On the morning of January 23rd, the Dahe newspaper reporter found Feng Xiaoge's home - a humble farmyard in the west of Feng Village, Chaoyang village. Xiao Ge in the wheelchair is sunning in the courtyard. He Jinfeng sits next to her to massage her legs and feet. "Knead here and rub her cartilage." He kept in mind the doctor's advice. Xiao Ge occasionally looks at her boyfriend, sometimes he lowers his head and fiddle with his hands. He is shy. In
two small cottage, Feng Zhanwei, the father of Xiao Ge, rested on his bed with his right ankle wrapped around gauze. On weekdays, He Jinfeng helped to take care of Xiao Ge at home. Feng Zhanwei went out to do odd jobs to earn money. But three months ago, he broke his work carelessly. Today, father and daughter on the bed are taken care of by He Jinfeng. "After my daughter's accident, he has been here to take care of, cook and wash clothes. It's hard for him." Feng Zhanwei said.
6 wooden pile as the bracket, cross the bamboo pole and wrap the cloth, "love parallel bars" do
"no money to buy, but also afraid to delay her recovery, have to do."
basked in the sun, Xiao he promoted Xiao Ge to promote cave dwelling, and they also had an important task to be busy every day.
before training, help your girlfriend to "warm up" for half an hour, which is the most tiring time for Xiao He. First pull the toes one by one. Every time he pulls, Xiao He looks forward to hearing the crisp sound coming from the joints. Then massage your feet, knead your legs and thighs, then stretch your legs, curl your legs, and move your joints. "I can't move my legs. He's very tired." Xiao Ge was lying in bed watching her boyfriend.
"do you have a feeling?" Pain or hemp? " Little congratulations from time to time. Whenever he heard pain and numbness there, he was more energetic. "The doctor said that knowing pain means that her nerves and feelings are good things." Xiao Ge had been operated on and his legs were unconscious. Now his thighs have occasionally known pain and numbness. Half an hour's "warm-up" came down, and his forehead was covered with sweat.
"warm-up" ends, Xiao he finds self-made rehabilitative braces and tightens and fasten them on his girlfriend's legs. With one voice, "Hey", he took Xiao Ge off the bed and helped him to a homemade parallel bar in the cave. The parallel bars, about 1 meters high and 5 meters long, are modeled after Xiao He's rehabilitation equipment. 6 wooden piles enter the ground nearly half a meter when the support, the middle two supports and diagonal wood support is more stable, above the support is long bamboo pole. Xiao He specially tied up sticks on bamboo poles for two or three days, and the "love parallel bars" were ready.
"no money to buy, afraid to delay her recovery, so she has to do it herself". Xiao He said that he was not steady enough after he did well. He tried hard to make sure that Lenagen's girlfriend had rehabilitation training. The parallel bars went straight to the door. Later, Xiao he adjusted the direction and tilted to the door. "So she can watch the program while walking." Xiao He pointed to the computer at the gate of the cave.
rehabilitation training should be done two times a day, two hours in the morning, three or four hours in the afternoon, and no interruption in 5 years. In the meantime, two people also quarrelled, "she let me go in anger, I know she is uncomfortable, and forced to coax her to exercise."
no promises. He takes care of 5 years
"no sweet words, only action."
near noon, Xiao He was busy preparing lunch. Xiao Ge insisted on training alone in the cave dwelling, "can't be lazy, I want to get better soon." She knew that only when she was good could she lighten her boyfriend's burden.
He Jinfeng and Xiao Ge met in a garment factory in Xinmi. After the match, two young people fell in love. Xiao Ge looked at the reality of Xiao He at that time. However, one night in July 2009, unfortunately, suddenly, Xiao Ge fell carelessly on the roof and fell to the ground with a splash.
"I didn't think it was so serious at the time." Xiaohe said, doctors said Xiao Ge lumbar fracture, injure the nerves, paralysis of the lower extremities, but he did not want to believe. Two months later, Xiao GE's mother could not bear the blow of her only daughter's paralysis. In November 2009, Xiao Ge, who had no money in hospital treatment, was taken back to Chaoyang gully home. Her boyfriend, He Jinfeng, came back together and continued to take care of her. At that time, two people fell in love for only half a year.
Xiaohe realized that he wanted to be "responsible", but he did not expect this to take care of 5 years. "He didn't say anything to me." Xiao Ge said that when he was in love, Xiao He said he would not speak sweet words and would only do it with action. Now she has realized the weight of this sentence.
proposing in public, she shakes her head in tears,
"only when I am ready can I marry him!"
"would you marry me?" In moving the ten awards ceremony in Dengfeng, He Jinfeng publicly asked Xiao Ge to marry him. Xiao Ge in a wheelchair tears, shaking his head vigorously
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"young people like this are very rare." Mr. Chen, who witnessed this scene, said.
why refuses her boyfriend's proposal? Xiao Ge said, she was very entangled: "I'm afraid to lose him, and I dare not think if one day he's gone, what should I do, but if I don't get up, I don't have the heart to bear him." She red in her eyes and said, every day on the double bars made by her boyfriend, the training was done over and over again. That kind of pain, others can not understand, "I say to myself every day, stick to it!" Just wait for me, I can marry him.
Xiaohe also pained his girlfriend's heart, "she is afraid of me." Xiaohe said, no matter whether his girlfriend answered or not, he wanted to accompany Xiao Ge to go on. "I dreamed of opening my eyes for second days, and she was alive again and again."
but he knows that there is still a hard way to get to his girlfriend to stand up. The most difficult problem at present is to earn money. In order to take care of his girlfriend, he did not go out to work in the past 5 years. He tried to make money for people in the village some days ago, but he did not want to lose money. In 5 years, he only returned home 3 times, the parents of his parents once and again to call, hope that he can go back, but he always said that he can not go, every time is hung up the phone, secretly wiping tears.
is it going? Is it left? On this topic, two young people are reluctant to mention it voluntarily. "I just want to exercise well, get better early, and others do not want to think much." Xiao Ge said that Xiao he had been with her for 5 years. It was difficult for her to spend more time with her.