Fu Lin and Wang Zhe wedding scene />expert: college students are married to accept, but do not advocate not to encourage
1 month 21, the Liaoning Special Education Teachers College of the big one girl Fu Lin and the sophomore boy Wang Zhe held a grand wedding in a hotel in the young fort. Many friends and relatives who came to attend the wedding banquet learned the experience of the two people, the heart is full of incomprehension, "from understanding to marriage only 123 days, two people are still in the University, how so early on the wedding?"
school students to run a banquet, what is it urgent?
father: "children adhere to the knot"
1 on the morning of 21, a hotel on the third floor of a hotel, 10 banquet table, full of friends and friends who come to congratulate.
the relatives of the bride talked to each other. "I was surprised to receive the call. Isn't she just going to the big one? How did you get married so early? " The relatives of the groom also talked about it. "We are surprised. Why are we so anxious to get married? I heard they were in the same school, and not yet graduated. How could I be so anxious to get married? "
in the face of the people's questions, Fu Liwei, the father of the bride Fu Lin, has some explanation. "When the child and we said, we were also surprised, and at first we did not agree, but the children insisted on the knot, and then they met with their parents."
bride Fu Lin, 20 years old, was born in Tiexi district. The bridegroom Wang Zhe, 22, was born in Baoli Town, Changtu. At present, two people are all college students in Liaoning special education teachers' college. Among them, Fu Lin is a freshman in community management and service major. He is the vice squad leader in the class. Wang Zhe is a sophomore in e-commerce. He is the monitor in the class.
123 days to get married, what to be afraid of?
bride: "he said I was afraid to run,"
Wang Zhe said he liked Fu Lin when he was in military training. Fu Lin disclosed that in the face of Wang Zhe's initial confession, she did not promise, nor did she refuse. In the later contact process, Fu Lin felt that Wang Zhe was very good and always took care of her. When Wang Zhe declared again, she agreed. Two people met each other from military training to a wedding ceremony, which lasted only 123 days. Fu Lin disclosed that in fact, after two months of being together, Wang Zhe proposed the idea of marriage. Wang Zhe's proposal made her feel confused. Fu Lin said, at the beginning, the parents did not agree very much. They thought it was too early for them to get married.
with Wang Zhe's insistence, Fu Lin believed that the feelings of the two people had come to the point of marriage, and she began to work as a parent. In January 1st this year, Wang Zhe's father and Fu Lin's parents met in Shenyang, and the decision to marry was made after this meeting.
hold the banquet at the end of the year to get the certificate again. What do you want?
groom: "less than legal age"
will the school agree to the marriage of college students? Wang Zhe said he was not clear about whether a college student could get married in school. He decided to marry not a momentary impulse, but a deliberate decision.
two people who want to get married are not only known by their classmates, but also know by Wang Zhe's class teacher. At the wedding, Fu Lin revealed that the news that they were going to get married was also astonished and puzzled by their classmates. "Why do you think so soon that you want to get married?"
although the students knew that two people were going to marry, but they did not know the time of the wedding, Fu Lin and Wang Zhe did not want to add trouble to their classmates, so they did not notify the students to come to the wedding, but they still received the blessings of their classmates and teachers. "All of them wish us a happy marriage and happy marriage." The word of the blessing. "
Wang Zhe said: "because we haven't reached the legal age of marriage, we decided to have a wedding first. By the end of this year, when we reach the legal age, we will go to the civil affairs department to get the marriage certificate.
friends and friends have some concerns, what do you worry about?
relative: "how do they both live in the future"
it is understood that the parents of Fu Lin are all the ordinary wage earners in Shenyang, and Wang Zhe's father is living in the local culture. In addition to sending blessings, relatives and friends have some concerns about the future of new people. "Two people are getting married, but they are still children, how do they live in the future?"
how to take care of school and life after marriage? Wang Zhe said that after marriage, they should finish their studies first, finish their credits and graduate smoothly, and then consider their future life plans. Fu Lin said that academic and life will be synchronized, but not anxious to have children. In the face of future life, Wang Zhe is full of confidence, "may still have to rely on the family, but later, I consider using the knowledge I learned to start a network store to support the family." Wang Zhe said that after waiting for the job, he decided to stay in Shenyang or back home.
marriage after marriage is the test of two people's feelings of the touchstone
for college students to marry, a university education expert in Shenyang, Professor Wang said: "it is acceptable, but not advocated, and not encouraged."
Professor Wang said that life is not as simple as that of families. Marriage needs to be managed, and it can not be fixed. Marriage is easy, and getting along is too difficult. Life after marriage is the touchstone for testing new people's feelings. New marriage is not only faced with academic and life, employment and economic pressure, but also suffers from others puzzled and many other problems. How to solve these problems is the key to whether a new person can go on for a long time.