Re: French girl catch up with Suzhou guy.
marriage is not a simple matter, but also a transnational one, and it is full of various entanglements. By the end of November last year, 207 pairs of transnational marriages in Jiangsu were disintegrated, and among the reasons for the divorce, the "feelings of disharmony" accounted for 71%, followed by "family dissension", "family disputes", "third children", "education children" and "lack of understanding before marriage".
Xiaolin is a Nanjing girl. The character of "big radish" is obvious to her, which often becomes the fuse for her quarrel with American husband David. "She always orders me to do this. I really wonder why she never said thank you to me." David's question, in the view of Xiao Lin, is "superfluous", "why do the two couples still feel so outspoken and say polite words?"
Kobayashi said, in addition, there are differences in diet. She likes duck heads and chicken feet, and David is unacceptable to them. "
" through the communication with the divorced parties, we understand the main reasons for the divorce, or the differences between the two parties in cultural traditions, values, habits and other aspects, which are difficult to be compatible with each other, and are prone to conflict. This requires communication and integration. " The staff of the provincial foreign marriage registration center said that many women now have a longing for "transnational marriage", but they must be prepared for many of the difficulties.
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66 countries and regions
Jiangsu alliance
provincial foreign marriage registration center told Modern Express reporter that the end of November by the end of November, Jiangsu has handled 1439 pairs of foreign-related marriage registration, involving 66 countries and regions, and still mainly in Korea, Japan and the United States.
Tunisia, Burundi and Guyana were the first countries to be married to Jiangsu residents last year. Last year, the Youth Olympic Games were held in Nanjing. Athletes from all three countries came to participate. Among them, President Nkurun of Burundi came to attend the opening ceremony. "The closer the economic and cultural exchanges between the two countries are, the better for married men and women to become husband and wife." The person concerned said.
the maximum age gap:
53 year old
in last year's foreign marriage, the age of "ocean son-in-law" was mainly concentrated at the age of 31~40, accounting for 32% of the total number of marriages. The main age group of girls in Jiangsu is 20~30 years old, accounting for 46.3% of the total number of marriages.
Modern Express News reporter learned that in general, there is still a certain gap between the couple in age, mainly in the age of 0~15, last year, the first half of last year, the largest marriage registration age gap is 38 years old, is a Japanese man married the Nantong woman. In the second half of the year, the American man married the Suqian woman and broke the record. Their age difference was 53 years old.
"foreign daughter-in-law" more and more
279
last year, the "ocean son-in-law" is still more than "foreign daughter-in-law", but it is not to be ignored that the "foreign daughter-in-law" married to Jiangsu more and more. According to statistics, in the first 11 months of last year, 279 foreign wives were brought into the family by Jiangsu boys, accounting for 19.4% of the total number of registered persons. "It also shows that with the continuous improvement of Jiangsu's economic development and living standards, more foreign women are willing to become married to Jiangsu men and live together."
the provincial foreign marriage registration center said, "foreign son-in-law" has 682 undergraduate or college education qualifications, accounting for 47.4% of the total number. The degree of postgraduate education is as high as 248, accounting for 17.2%. Jiangsu girls are not bad, with 794 or more college educated, accounting for 55.2%. From this we can see that "match each other" is a highlight of foreign marriage, and the gap between the two sides is narrowing.