Shun Network - Ji'nan times
always smile In the face of the difficult reporter in the white crane decoration material wholesale market, there is a shop that manages the paint wallpaper. The red fire business has brought an ideal income to the owner of the store, and now she has many sets of housing in Ji'nan. But no one could have imagined that Fan Xiaoli, a 36 year old female boss, was a disabled person with an arm missing. At the age of 16, she accidentally lost an arm. In 20 years, she had no time to complain about the unfair fate. She started from the stall and relied on her own hand to fight until now. She says nothing is more horrible than poor.
don't think that people see me is poor my
one arm beauty boss is very happy, life rich family is full of
wearing white hat, long hair shawl, light makeup, Fan Xiaoli is a standard beauty. It made it difficult for her to see her missing arm at the right moment. When people look at me on the way, I don't think they look down on or pity me, but think they might be thinking about.Amp; lsquo I'm much happier than her, at least I'm a sound.Amp; rsquo. Fan Xiaoli said.
although she is now a boss, she will never turn to others if she can do it herself. She has great strength, a barrel of 50 pounds of paint, she can easily lift with one hand.
now, she has a happy family, considerate husband, 4 year old daughter, rich life. We all admire her. Since she lost his right arm at the age of 16, we have never heard a complaint from her. She always laughs and tries to run a life like a hair. And this is hard for many healthy young people nowadays. A friend of Fan Xiaoli said.
at that time really did not feel that there was something
16 years old lost his right arm, 18 years old Beijing stall
Fan Xiaoli was born in the rural Xiajin County, Dezhou. At the age of 16, Fan Xiaoli, who was a poor school dropout, went to work in a cashmere factory in Hebei. Who had just worked for 10 days, she had an accident and her right arm was in the machine. When she woke up, she had lost an arm. Many relatives and friends wanted to see her at home. I don't want to see the faces of my relatives and friends crying. When they lose their arms, they think that the sky is falling down, but I didn't feel anything at that time. The fact is so acceptable.
after the injury, her parents borrowed money to set up a canteen for her and wanted her to be married at home and have children. But after two years, the little girl wanted to see the world. He took the $2000 borrowed from his parents and went to Beijing to look for opportunities. She chose to set up a stall, get up early in the morning, get up at 3 in the morning, carry a bag of daily necessities with one hand, have been sold to 10 in the morning, 5 p.m. continue the stall, and then sold to 11 p. m.
nothing is more terrible than poor
trying to beg for money. After 1 hours, give up
in the days of Beijing, I don't eat breakfast, eat 3 bun at noon, eat a bun at night, and earn more than ten yuan a day. Because he could not earn money in Beijing, Fan Xiaoli later returned to his hometown.
but she still had no time to live in the family, set up a stall, and went to work in Hebei. She said that the lack of youth also has the right to toss. At the age of 25, she came to Ji'nan to work in a paint wallpaper agency.
but she rarely talks about it. In fact, before she was 25 years old, she had been to Ji'nan once before coming to Ji'nan. I did a lot of work, but I didn't make money. Later I heard that begging made a lot of money. That time came to beg in Ji'nan. At that time, in order to beg for more credibility, she deliberately made a scroll on her body, and wrote "the County Federation of disabled women's Association", and also made a donation box.
at that time, I saw that the shops on the street were coming in one by one. The way was to stop, not to give up. But when I came to a corner, I could not lift my feet and cry like tears. The begging lasted for an hour, and I fled as if I left Ji'nan. Because nothing is worse than poor. Fan Xiaoli said.
is all equal
to find happiness in Ji'nan. From a migrant worker to a car and a car and a house to come to Ji'nan again at the age of />25, Fan Xiaoli finally met the opportunity of life and also met a lifetime partner. After five or six years of working in a shop, the shop owner decided to make the shop out of business. Fan Xiaoli borrowed money from all around to make up 100 thousand of the store. Later, I changed the brand of the agent, more kinds, in recent years, business has become better and better. I never felt the inconvenience of living with one arm missing. I can learn to work with my left hand when I do things with my right hand. I work slowly with one hand, and I am slower than others. Fan Xiaoli said.
because of the fragmentary body, Fan Xiaoli's love is not easy. "When I was still working in a shop, my husband came to the shop to purchase materials, and we knew each other. Because he was the only child in the family, we were strongly opposed by his parents. My husband never gave up on me, but finally changed his parents' mind and talked about marriage for six or seven years.
"I do not want to classify me into the ranks of the disabled, but prefer those who are physically abnormal in terms of defects. I think defects are all equal, because no one is perfect. In order to survive, for a better life, I never stopped. I work hard everyday. I bought the house carefully, and bought the car with effort. I want to say that as long as we work hard, the garage is ahead of us! "Fan Xiaoli wrote a paragraph in his own space.