The Ji'nan survey shows that "white rich beauty" is more likely to be left.
29 year old lady history of the year, just finished a high-end meeting. After attending the meeting, Ms. Shi was very impressed: "the girls who participated in the meeting were all dressed up as if they were in Party, with excellent temperament and a look of 'white rich beauty'." Ms. Smith asked, these "good women" work is also good, many of them are middle-level and senior executives of enterprises. However, the age of these women is concentrated in the "85 before", and most of them were born from 1980 to 1985, that is, to "run three" or more than 30 years old.
in women's view, "white rich beauty" is absolutely a commendatory word, and is the state of life each girl yearns for, and also represents some of the women's advantages. But why on the spouse, these advantages have not become a woman's chip?
a recent survey just explained the problem. According to the survey, "white rich beauty", when looking for the other half, asks for all aspects of the agreement, such as asking the other to know the books, to be gentle and considerate, and to be different from the educational background. Such harsh conditions have left many opportunities for themselves. Although their requirements seem realistic, they actually idealize love and marriage and finally make themselves "too high and low". "Bai Fumei" is more than
in real life, what do women see in real life? "I think I'm not high, I don't want to be rich and handsome, just looking for a similar condition to me." Ms. Li, the citizen, said. In the survey, reporters found that many girls and Ms. Lee were "almost the same in all respects" when they chose their spouse. But Ms. Li's degree is master, family conditions are also good, parents are office staff, Ms. Li's monthly income is about 7000 yuan, so all aspects of the men are not good to find. This is also the reason why Miss Li, who is 28 years old, is still alone.
for men, what do they think of the phenomenon that "white rich beauty is more easily left"? Mr. Zhang said, "white rich beauty" means three aspects of women: skin color, economic ability and appearance. "I think the three words, for men, only the attractiveness of beauty is relatively large, white and rich is not necessarily an advantage for women."
65% of men think that the ideal marriage for women is 25 to 28 years old. From 28 years old, their chances of marriage have fallen straight. At the age of 30, 25.5% men think they can barely marry her. When women are 35, only 12.5% of men can accept it.
there are less age crises for men. Even at the age of 35, 1/3 of the women are willing to marry him, even 40 years old, and 15.2% of the women are willing to choose.
age is not difficult to explain to psychologists because it is difficult to marry in a woman's spouse range
(journalist Zhao Shicai Intern Li Xuejing) "Bai Fumei". In the middle and lower three of the society, the choice of the upper female is only the same as the male in the upper level, while the upper level men can be the upper or middle level for the mate selection, which is why the "Gao Fu Shuai" is better than the "white rich beauty".
Zhao Limei, a national two - level psychologist, a British study shows that men and women have different ages of mental age, and the age difference between men and women with the same psychological maturity is around 11. Marriage contains two factors: one is objective variable factor, that is, the factors such as economy, position and other material factors are subjective immutable factors, such as personality, character and so on. In marriage, "Bai Fumei" needs to understand what he expects of marriage, and then, to list and sort the conditions that you need, to find out which must be required and which can be contained.
real spiritual or soul mate is inevitable. There are few women in real life. Women should not ask too much for each other. In addition, the recognition of their parents' marriage also affects the spouse selection standard. "Marriage that contains three elements of economy, sex and feeling must satisfy any two to succeed." "White Fu Mei" why it is difficult to marry
after the Seventh Festival, the topic of "leftover women" has once again become the focus of attention. Recently, a survey shows that "Bai Fu Mei" is easier to be left because of the idealization of spouse selection. "Bai Fu Mei" is more in pursuit of fit, which is all inclusive, including appearance, age, education and family status. The well-known writer Su Qin once said that the leftover women want to "take off" quickly and need to list their own choice of spouse, and then hit half off, which is the actual standard of spouse selection, and the ideal mate principle of "white rich beauty" is the cause that leads them to the rest.