Ningxia sends electricians to marry two Japanese white collar workers to buy a house.
correspondents Yan Dong
he is from Ningxia, China. He is an electrician from the Ningxia power transmission and transformation engineering company.
, from Osaka, Japan, is a senior foreign consultant in Suzhou's well-known law firm.
a romantic encounter makes the two parallel lines suddenly intersect and achieves a perfect transnational marriage. During the period of
romantic encounter
to bring electricians, many people think they are a group of people who do not understand life and interest, work environment is always in the field, can not do without soil and mud. That's the way Li Keyin is. From 2007 to Ningxia power transmission engineering company in the national network to take part in the work, it is rare to go home in the four seasons of the year. He is doing quality inspection and climbing pole for the weekend. He is watching the film at night. He is looking at the drawings and plans.
July 10, 2009, an unforgettable day for Li Keyin. At that time, he did not go home for four months at the 750 thousand volt transmission line project from North Urumqi to Turpan to Hami, Xinjiang, and the project department arranged for him to go home for a week.
after getting on the train in Urumqi, Li Keyin just saw the two girls carrying a heavy suitcase on the train.
"your suitcase is large. I'll take down my suitcase and put it under the seat. I'll put it on for you." The big Li Keyin helped them to put the box on the rack easily.
so, everyone opened the box. By further communication, Li Keyin knew that they were students from Tianjin University of Technology, a Hongkong Cindy and a Japanese Furukawa Kinuyo, who spent the summer vacation to Xinjiang for a return trip.
"you are free to go to my hometown Ningxia, Ningxia is called the south of the south, it is a magical, beautiful place, I can be a guide for you." Perhaps the way Li Keyin introduced the beauty of his hometown to attract people, or his simple image and simple words to move people, in a word, two girls put down their mind, changed the journey, and really went to Ningxia with him. In Ningxia, Li Keyin took them to Shahu, Helan mountain rock paintings, Xixia mausoleum, invited them to taste the special food of Ningxia. The hospitality of the people of Ningxia impressed them. In just a week, we had a deep friendship and separated each other.
, of course, the story didn't end, and Li Keyin had been in contact with Furukawa Kinuyo after returning to Xinjiang. Slowly, there was a good feeling between the two.
at the beginning of 2010, after Furukawa Kinuyo graduated, he found work in Suzhou branch of Shanghai Yi stone law firm, as a senior adviser to foreign capital.
"Xiao Li, it's a foreign student, and now it's a senior white collar. You don't have a high degree and work in the field. I don't have to see you. Living is a reality. How can it be romantic and passionate? Let's go back to Yinchuan to introduce one to you. At that time, many people were not optimistic about this love affair. Colleagues always talked to him about it.
"I believe in a famous saying:" love has no specific rules. I and the silk generation are like this. No one should love anyone, who matches who, she knows me, I know her, I think love is such a feeling of intercourse. " Li Keyin was always steadfast in his love.
the main tools for sending electricians to communicate with their loved ones are mobile phones and networks. At first, Chinese in silk was not fluent. Li Keyin's Japanese was not at all. Two people often exchanged words without meaning. Later, the silk generation taught Li Keyin's simple Japanese language through QQ video, and slowly insisted on it. While the silk generation also reported the Chinese class in Suzhou, the better the Putonghua was, the better.
in the chat, Li Keyin often mentioned his work, although it was very hard to send an electrician, but he did not feel inferior, but very proud and proud, he often told the silk generation, every lamp behind the sweat and pay, is the electricity, let the night more colorful. The silk generation also fell in love with this two person's constant communication, sending this electrician to love, working hard and optimistic about life.
3 years passed quickly, and the two went to Yinchuan and Osaka to see each other's parents. Surprisingly, both parents were open-minded and did not see the lovers in secular ways.
on the problem of buying a house, Li Keyin knew that his home was not good. He didn't ask his parents for money, he wanted to pay the first payment of the money he saved in the years, and borrow money from the bank. At that time, the silk generation only said a word, "we should take the first payment together, and loan us together, and you should not be too tired." Today, in the prevalence of money worship women and real women, this kind of exotic girl impressed Li Keyin deeply.
"I did not think that the Japanese girl is not so realistic, the Silk family is not only not the bride price, but her father and mother think we are going to return the mortgage, the days are too tight and want to give us money. But we didn't want it either because we were both more self reliant. Li Keyin moved on.
was catching up with the project at that time. Li Keyin was unable to return to the site for several months. When the third generation of silk was changed to the wedding photo, even the photographer of the studio smiled helplessly: "what does your husband do? How do you do this? " Serici replied with pride every time: "he is an electric worker."
over 3 years of love long run, overcoming the obstacles of language and culture, Li Keyin and Furukawa Kinuyo chose to go into the palace of marriage. In February 2013, they were in Yinchuan, with their friends and colleagues' blessings.
happy to be happy with
marriage, a long period of less life, not only do not dilute the feelings of the two people, but add a passion. In life, from the beginning of the adaptation to the later integration, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance, they pay more than the average husband and wife.
because he was afraid of her husband's telephone distraction during the daytime work, careful sericite would quietly calculate his time for work and rest according to his husband's project schedule, calling, sending letters, passing through network video, and told him to pay attention to safety and attention every day. This year, the "May Day" holiday, the project department does not rest, can not bear the concern of her husband, silk and buy tickets to the Shandong site to see Li Keyin, a few months of the couple have been able to reunite. The understanding of this Japanese daughter-in-law made Li Keyin's colleagues envious.
in the project department, Li Keyin showed up to reporters his own treasures of love: a stack of different train tickets, only one destination: Suzhou. "Because the company's engineering projects are all over the country, Ningxia, Tibet, Qinghai, Shandong...... At the end of every project, or in a round trip, people return to Yinchuan, I will go to Suzhou to accompany the silk generation, silk generation is also, as long as there is a vacation will see Li Keyin, short meeting but special sweet. Do not belittle these tickets, they are the best witness of our love. " Although showing happiness, Li Keyin's smile still has some guilt and helplessness towards his wife.
the northwest people eat often without spicy, but this is very different from the Japanese happy eating habits, at the beginning, the two people can not eat a piece. Later, Li Keyin took part in the chef class in Suzhou with the winter rest time. Every day his wife went home from work, and the rich food was filled with a table, so that the silk generation was very moved. Now, Japanese daughter-in-law likes Chinese husbands to make fish flavored pork and kung pao chicken, and Chinese husband also falls in love with sushi and curry beef rice made by Japanese daughter-in-law.
Li Keyin said, "it is a blessing to have a wife who loves herself and supports her work." In Furukawa Kinuyo's view, Li Keyin is a man who loves life, work hard and depend on and depend on it. "Chinese people say," the Chinese always say, "there is a woman who does not marry a power, and keeps the room all the year round," but I don't think so. The most attractive place for the men to send electricity in China is their sense of responsibility, which is particularly prominent in kyin's body, no matter to the family, to the work or to the love, all the Japanese men do not have. Marry him, I am very happy, do not regret it! "