in hospital care Lee was lying on the side of the bed and fell asleep by the correspondent Wang Zebin
what was love? For the poet to ask, it may be "a direct teacher of life and death", for every ordinary person, it may be a meal, and for the girl of Liaoning Yu Lianglong, love is the guardian of the day and night, is one of the dangerous notifications that bite the teeth, or a not to come. Li Dong, a tiger, a 28 year old Shandong guy. In early 2011, he was about to graduate from university. He found leukemia. Yu Lianglong, a dragon, a 26 year old northeastern girl. In early 2011, she was also graduating from university. She rushed to Ji'nan from Chengwu to take care of the sick Li Dong in the village of Zhang Ma Zhuang, sun Suzhen town. She took care of it for three years. At that time, Li Donghe and Yu Lianglong were just a pair of dark college students who didn't even mention "love" to each other for two words. Reporter Zheng Zhinan
A life if only
the home in Chengwu county Zhang Ma Zhuang village in Heze, there are only two rooms in the home, and the interview begins in a home house of Li Zhi's house. In addition to a bed in Li Dong's room, there is a table for medicines and daily necessities, a simple wardrobe, which is all the furniture that Li understands.
when the reporter came to Li's home, he was busy with the bench, and he sat down after a busy rush. In front of reporters, Yu Lianglong is shy and sometimes has a smile on his lips.
sitting on Li knows the bed at Li, listening to Li to tell the reporter about these years of seeing a doctor, and from time to time to help Li understand the collar and beat the dust on the sheets with his hands. While Li Dong was speaking, he listened quietly and listened to nothing.
Li Dong told reporters that there were three brothers and sisters in the family. He was the boss of the family. In 2007, Li was admitted to University of Jinan as an advertising major. He dropped out of school in 2011 and has not yet graduated.
in the long dragon, the peasant girl and sister in the front Yang village of Qian Yang Town, Dandong City, Liaoning Province, are sisters in Liang long. In November 2010, a college student who was about to graduate from the school of agricultural cadre management in Shandong was met at the training meeting of an internship in Ji'nan.
first appeared in Liang Long's eyes. Li knew that he was a spirit and sincere Shandong boy. "He came in from the classroom and I saw him at once. It's not love at first sight, it means seeing him feel good. Yu Lianglong talks about the first meeting of two people.
B did not leave
the Spring Festival in 2011, and Yu Lianglong and Li knew it for less than three months. The two people had a good feeling, but none of them had broken the window paper.
before the new year, Li couldn't help losing his fever. After checking in a hospital in Shanxian County, he said he had fewer thrombocytopenia. The parents had learned that their son had leukemia, but he did not dare to tell Li Dong that it was a bit anemic.
"at the end of the year, I went back to work, but Li didn't come to work. He told me that he was ill and was in the hospital. " Yu Lianglong said, at that time, he was in a hurry and did not know what situation Li understood.
asked for a holiday from the unit, and bought a ticket from Ji'nan to Chengwu, Heze, so that she came to Li Dong. As a result, Li knew not to leave again.
in three years, he returned to Ji'nan two times in good time. He resigned one time and graduated at one time.
Yu Lianglong, who likes watching Korean dramas, took the Korean college as an examination. Yu Lianglong said, originally in her mind, love is a romantic thing, "eat delicious together, play together, accompany me shopping, good to me."
"now it turns around. I'm like a boy. Lee understands like a girl. When we went out to see a doctor, I took everything, and I could not bear to let him do it. " Yu Lianglong said jokingly.
after laughing, he slowly said that love is not the same as the imagination, but I understand that love is not in the mouth, but in the heart, "we have experienced life and death, not the same as other lovers. Without too much calculation, we will not argue over who is right or who is wrong.
speaking of the most romantic word Li has said to Liang long, he thought for a long time in the dragon, "in fact, he said," you lie down, don't be too tired ", or 'eat more food', I feel very romantic and very moved."
C wiped away tears and continued to live.
Li knew her mother, and told reporters about "Dragon Girl". When Yu Lianglong was called, his parents also knew Li, called "dragon dragon".
"when the Dragon dragons came, little did not know his condition. We talked about it with the old two. We must tell the truth with dragons. We can not delay dragons if we understand this situation. Li Dong's mother said.
knowing Li Dong's illness, he cried many times outside the ward. "I didn't believe it was true, and I was looking forward to misdiagnosis or other miracles."
"if the dragon and dragons are always there, we will take care of Xiao Dong here, and the old two will not be able to sustain it any longer." Li Dong's mother cried as she said, "when I saw them, I shed tears. I feel sorry for dragons and dragons. I owe her too much."
Li's mother and Li Dongdou told reporters that they also told Liang long that she wanted to let her go. But in the heart of the family, they were reluctant to go along with the dragon. In the past three years, this ambivalence has always existed. Yu Lianglong said, also once thought to go, but see Li understand, and all kinds of dismay, for fear that he left Li Dong to give up treatment.
Li understands her mother, "now I am more pain than dragons, but I do not hurt her. Who do I ache? This child is not easy. "
now Yu Lianglong also uses this word "my family" and "my family" to call this "four family". Speaking of the future, he is somewhat depressed. "I don't want to think about the future. Now I'm looking forward to him being able to get better."
D accompany is the longest emotional confession
a month round trip to Langfang treatment, Li Donghe Yu Lianglong has become accustomed to it. For the height of one meter 62, only 90 kilograms of Yu Lianglong, taking luggage, buying a car ticket, registration, payment, looking for a doctor, taking care of Li to understand life and living, has also been on the road.
"when there was a great crash, he once lived in Langfang for more than 80 days, and I took care of him alone. It takes a whole day to injections, and sometimes injections at twelve in the evening. When he is uncomfortable at midnight, he will call a doctor immediately. You can't sleep during the day and can't sleep at night. Other patients who are close to home can still be replaced by others, so I can only insist on their own. I said I couldn't go on, I had to grind my teeth down. " Yu Lianglong said.
in his three years of caring for Li Dong, she had a lot of tears in her own care. "When she was crying, she carried his crept, dry tears and then went back to the ward to take care of him."
"every time he is in a bad state, I am very worried, for fear that something unexpected will happen to him." Speaking of Li Dong's recent onset of a cerebral hemorrhage, the hospital has already been informed of the danger, and he has a lingering fear in the dragon.
in December 2013, he lived in Langfang for three months, and all his money was spent, and there was no way to go home. Under the helplessness of good dragon, Li knew to kneel around the hospital and begged for a whole morning. Yu Lianglong, who had saved enough money to go to the ward to pack his bags, did not hold back and wept.
at the beginning, Liang did not think that he could take care of Li Dong for such a long time. "At that time, I didn't think so much, so I wanted to accompany him and take care of him. If I were here, he would be better and better. I didn't expect to take care of a patient so hard, so many things, but also to have an optimistic attitude. "
reporters saw Li know, Li knew his face was pretty good, he told reporters that this is Yu Lianglong's credit. The original Li Dong weighed more than 140 Jin, and fell to 120 Jin after falling ill. Now, under the care of Liang long, Li knew that he had recovered more than 140 kilograms of weight.
"in the past few years, thanks to dragon lung here, besides looking after me, he often enlightens me and makes me feel better." Li Dong said, as Yu Lianglong's boyfriend, Li Dong said that he never wanted to marry Yu Lianglong. He did not want to, but dared not think. "I often wake up in the middle of the night, think of me, think of dragons, think of us, and think of my parents, and I burst into tears. I don't know what the future will be like, but I don't know how long I can accompany them. "
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three years only went back to the northeast old home
in the dragon's resigning job to take care of Li, at first it was hiding from her parents. After a period of concealment, she dared tell her mother not to tell her father about it. Father always thought that his daughter who graduated from university had a good job in Shandong.
"dragon dragon's mother is so great. I think about it in my own body. If my daughter meets this matter, I will be ten thousand unwilling. But the dragon's mother didn't say anything and acquiesced. Li Dong's mother said.
in the long dragon's school, Liang Long dropped out of school and married his mother, and his mother suffered from severe synovitis. Just last winter, my father sent Yu Lianglong some money to go home and bought a coal ball at home. "I did some part-time work on the Internet, saved hundreds of dollars, and sent it home." In this case, he has no smile and tears down his head. "A college student, three years after graduation, only a few hundred dollars can be sent home, I feel sorry mom and dad."
Yu Lianglong said his sister's child is three years old. "I saw him when he was just born, and I am three years old. I have never seen him. Every time he calls, he asks, "when are you coming back?" The tears of Liang long ceased to fall.
this year, Yu Lianglong, who said he would go home for the new year, did not move again. In three years, she had only been home once. In the Spring Festival this year, Liang also called her father to tell her the situation. "Father did not say yes, nor did he say no. He just said, "choose the road you choose and walk on your own."