business newspaper reporter Zhu Ting
like the archaeological Xiao Yang. The interviewee was given to figure
before his father was forced to "abandon the text". Now he gave up IT and chose his own life
before he listened to his father's words, he chose the profession he did not like, and he abandoned himself in the University, even the degree certificate was not obtained. Now, he has to be brave enough to be himself and refuse his father's good job. He goes to the main city alone. This is the story of a son who follows his father's fate to pursue himself and choose again. The hero, Xiao Yang, opened a prelude to the story with a letter of resignation in classical Chinese.
the wrong line
Writing classical Chinese resignation IT male complaint is not like
ordinary people in writing resignation letter, often do not pay too much attention, on the online template simply write a few sentences, but 25 year old Xiao Yang is different, recently, he resigned in the resignation of a literary and flying praise Wen resigned the letter and uploaded the original letter to a forum in Chongqing, which attracted the appreciation of netizens. Surprisingly, Xiao Yang is not a high student in a famous university, nor is it a liberal arts major, but a science man.
"Feng Tangyilao, Li Guang is unsealed." Qu Jia Yi in Changsha, not without the Holy Lord; Liang Liang Hong Yu Hai Qu, why is it lacking in Ming Dynasty? My friends in the past are good friends. In Xiao Yang's classical Chinese resignation letter, there are altogether 612 words. Although many literary allusions are borrowed, the diction is refined and the logic is clear. The reporter noted that in this letter, many historical celebrities such as Feng Tang, Li Guang and Jia Yi have been quoted. They have a common point, namely, unpaid and unsuccessful.
yesterday, Xiao Yang told the business newspaper reporter that the letter was written a few days ago. At that time, he was a technician in a software company in Yubei. Because of its boring work, he has resigned and is currently doing logistics in a male hospital. When he wrote his resignation letter, his heart was disconsolate. Most of his friends at the same age had a good end result, but he still had 3000 yuan monthly salary. "Since we can not change the status quo, we can only express feelings in classical Chinese."
"my brother and his father are very unhappy about the difficult situation of Wen di." In the resignation letter of Xiao Yang's classical Chinese, in addition to telling his own misconduct and misfortune, there is a statement that is free from resignation, that is, to mention his father, and to express his father's dissatisfaction with his present work. Originally, he was keen on reading literature and philosophy books from high school, and began to try to write, but he was forced to choose science by his father's "forced". He always believed that it was his father's choice for him that led him to the wrong way.
listen to
listen to my father, but don't get a degree certificate,
Xiao Yang told reporters that he graduated from the Chongqing University of Posts and Telecommunications Institute of transfer in 2010 and studied electrical engineering and automation. Although the technology is professional and the employment rate is good, he admitted that he did not hesitate to find a job at the beginning, or even lost a very good job opportunity.
on the eve of college graduation, Xiao Yang went to the recruitment of a state-owned enterprise, the written examination and the interview were all passed smoothly, and when they entered the formalities, the staff of human resources asked him to issue a degree certificate, because the four level of English did not pass, Xiao Yang did not get the degree certificate issued by the school. Speaking of his own experience, Xiao Yang is very regrettable. He said that almost all the four years of the University were in the past. He had never heard of an English class, and he didn't speak English four or even two of Public English. "When I did not choose this major, I would not be so self abandoned." Xiao Yang attributed the reason that he did not get the degree certificate to read a disliked profession.
speaks of the profession that he has reported, and little Yang Shiyi suffers from it. It turned out that after the announcement of the college entrance examination results in 2006, he scored 450 points. "I want to choose liberal arts. I want to read archaeology, then business management and marketing." Xiao Yang said he wanted to register for his favorite profession, but he was opposed by his father. His father ordered him directly to choose civil engineering or science and engineering major. The reason is that there are acquaintances in these fields, and they can get a good job after graduation.
father's helplessness
young select the wrong professional watch do not step behind
yesterday, the reporter contacted Xiao Yang's father Yang Yong. He said he is 50 years old and is currently living in Tongliang. It is his idea to let his son choose to study science, but it is also for his son to have a better future.
is not a reporter talking about Xiao Yang's resignation. He doesn't know that his son has changed his job. Yang Yong said, after his son graduated, he told his son to give his son a job in a local state owned enterprise in Tongliang. His salary and treatment were good, and his home was close, but his son refused to go out alone. Because of this choice, father and son had a big row. On the second day, his son went to the main city with his luggage on his back. Now, when Yang Yonghe speaks, he often ends with quarrels.
Yang Yong also introduced that when he was reading, his achievements were very good, especially in the liberal arts. He has always regretted that he chose to study liberal arts, so he also hoped his son would not follow his footsteps. "No, he has worked for 3 years, but now he is still asking for money at home, buying a computer and renting a house asking me for money. Not long ago, I gave him 1000 yuan. " Speaking of his son, Yang Yongji felt sad and heartache and still regretted it.
re - choose
to quit IT to do logistics is to prepare
for the relationship with father, Xiao Yang said he had no way to communicate with his father, and his father never understood him.
yesterday, Xiao Yang's university friend Jiang Zheng also confirmed to reporters that Xiao Yang did not get a school degree certificate. He also said that Xiao Yang liked to talk about literature and philosophy when he was at University, but he was not too keen on his major. When Xiao Yang talked to his father, he often heard the voices of father and son quarrelling. "He doesn't like this major, and his father has problems with him."
"although I don't have much money now, I think people can't put money first." Xiao Yang said, in addition to the choice of professional regret, his resignation of the work of IT to the hospital to do logistics, is his own choice, even if not satisfactory, he will not regret. He chose to resign and prepare himself for his own business. "In the hospital, the size of the miscellaneous things have to be responsible for me, I am working hard to learn management, and also to inspect some places, wait for the rest of the hand, I intend to start my own business." Xiao Yang said that he used to be forced to make a choice, but when he experienced regret, he knew that he should live and choose his own life.
expert
parents should respect their children's choice
"to be sweet." For this reason, Xiong Bingqi, a famous educationist and vice president of Education Research Institute in twenty-first Century, said that the plaguing of Xiao Yang was actually the dispute between arts and science when he chose his major. When his father chose his professional for the child, he was too arbitrary. It was a one-sided view that the employment of the students of the arts would not be good and made a choice for the children, thus causing the rebellion of the children. But everything is not absolute. As long as we learn the major, we will make some achievements.
Xiong Bingqi also said that now many parents are accustomed to planning their studies and future for their children, and many of them are in the state of being planned and managed. Although it is a good thing to think about children, if children are placed in a passive position, it is easy for them to have a rebellious mentality. At every important stage of the growth of children, the best way of education should be to fully respect the child's choice as the premise, and the parents and children to negotiate and exchange, and then make the choice of life.