15 year old girl with mental illness moved to mother and daughter deeply.
source: urban express
Zhu Yaoting led mother to the school cafeteria to eat
"no language, but the book is not finished."
a middle-aged woman does not speak to anyone except her own daughter.
she lives in the second middle school gates of Xianju next day, in order to have lunch and dinner with her daughter, and then go home together.
daughter is a student in grade 3 (grade 2). Her name is Zhu Yaoting. According to the lunar calendar, she is 15 years old.
[b] repeated the repertoire every day: take mother to school [/b]
6 point 45 points, 77 year old grandfather Chen Cheng, riding a three wheel battery car to the mother and daughter of Yao ting to the school gate.
Yao Ting walked into the school alone and began a day's learning life.
mother saw her daughter enter the school gate and went to a pole under the school gate. Stand for a while, Crouch for a while, walk back and forth, and look at the school from time to time.
she doesn't talk to anyone. The security guard at school says, "she'll swear at her."
when the bell rings at noon, the mother will enter the school and wait for her daughter at the Teaching Hall of Yao ting. Then they go to the school canteen to have lunch - what their daughter eats and what their mother eats.
after dinner, the two men broke up in front of the teaching building. The mother stood under the teaching building and looked up to the 4 floor of the teaching building. After she saw her daughter walking into the classroom, she left and went to the door alone to wait.
dinner time, noon scene continues.
20 20 points, and mother appeared on the teaching floor on time.
at the school gate, Grandpa and grandma are waiting for both of them. After joining them, the family of four returned to their home in the village of Huang Liang Chen Cun.
[b], which mother is at which [/b]
Zhu Yaoting, has become a celebrity in the second world - almost everyone knows that she is taking her mother to school.
when she first entered school, her mother stood at the door of the classroom every day to guard her daughter. The head teacher, Ying Jun, worried about the influence of teaching order, tried to communicate with this mother, and communicated with Yao Ting's grandfather, but all ended in failure.
later Yao Ting successfully persuaded her mother to let her wait at the school gate. "Because Yao Ting mother only speaks with Yao Ting, and only listens to Yao ting."
grandpa said, Yao Ting mother suffers from mental illness and can not be separated from Yao ting for a moment, even if it is tied with a rope.
from the beginning of Yao Ting's memory, she didn't play with other children. Because any mother who is strange to her is close to Yao ting. After a few attempts, Yao gave up.
from the age of 8 to primary school, she took her mother to school.
primary school is in the village, and not many people know about it. Until the junior high school, the strange environment made Yao ting a lot of pressure.
Yao Ting said, at the very beginning, she was also very afraid. She was very worried that everyone thought she was very strange, but gradually she got used to it. "After all, she is my mother. I can't put her down."
[b] mother loves me, I love my mother [/b]
"I know my mother loves me very much!" I think her love for me is the same as other mothers' love for their children, and even more! "He said, although her mother was unaware, she could still feel her mother's love.
Yao Ting watching TV, my mother lies on her side to sleep and rest.
Yao Ting washing clothes, mother sat quietly watching her wash.
during the meal, Yao Ting gave her mother a dish. Her mother always gave it back to her daughter and said to her daughter, "eat by yourself."
and the reporter also saw that mother saw herself as his daughter's "bodyguard" around Yao Ting: on the way to the dining hall at noon, a classmate who didn't know him wanted to say a word to Yao ting. At this time, her mother immediately used his hand to block the student. Near. Yao understands that mother is trying to protect her.
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"I love mom, too!" Yao Ting said, mother is always the first in her heart.
Yao Ting likes to give her a big meal, because every time she gives her mother a big meal, her mother will smile.
when she was free, she occasionally took some simple questions to "ask" her. Although more often than not, my mother said she would not, but occasionally my mother could answer it. Yao Ting said she did not really ask her, but wanted to try to improve her thinking level. Actually, her mother graduated from high school.
[b] grandparents prop up this home [/b]
Yao Ting family is two old brick farmhouses, two houses are about 50 meters apart, a "bedroom" shared by four people, and a "kitchen, dining room".
walk into the bedroom, the door is stacked with firewood, and a 14 inch TV set at the corner of the wall is covered with dust. It is the only leisure and entertainment equipment in the family. More than 30 square meters of rooms were vertically and vertically overlaid with three beds - two old wooden planks and a simple bamboo bed. The bamboo plank bed is Yao Ting's sleep. There is a long bench on the bedside. The old one is black and the surface is concave and convex. But on weekdays, Yao Ting was sitting on the edge of the bed and doing his homework on this bench.
grandpa said, they never buy vegetables. They grow their own vegetables. They used to buy meat once a month and boil the remaining oil for Yao ting. In the past two years, Yao Ting has grown up physically, wants to eat meat, and buys two times a month.
now, the main source of the home economy is the old two mouth per month of 120 yuan per person "low insurance", and 80 yuan pension, the old man also planted some peanuts, can sell 200 yuan a year.
the old man said that in 2003, a portion of the land was sold to the Development Zone, and there were thirty thousand dollars in income, but it was the same for the daughter and the granddaughter to go to school. Ten years ago, I can go to the medicine market wholesale point angelica, Paeonia lactiflora, licorice and the like to Zhoushan, stone Pu to sell, but 68 years old, moved a operation, can not be sold again. Yao Ting's two uncles and aunts will give some help to him at ordinary times, but they can not change the current situation of family suffering.
in front of a shabby old wooden structure, grandpa told reporters that he left it to Yao ting. When he went to university, he sold the house for her to go to school. "Sold to the village a square 1000 yuan, a total of 36 square."
these years, grandpa has been away from relatives and friends, and has quit smoking and drinking for 8 years. "The harder it is, the more it is not afraid of suffering!" Just bring Yao Ting! " This is the sentence that the grandfather repeats the most to the reporter.
reporters saw that there are six rows of figures on the wall of the bedroom -- each row represents a grade in primary school, and the number is above 90. This is the encouragement policy of grandpa to Yao Ting: as long as the exam is above 90 points, there are awards, 91 points, one yuan, 92 points, 2 yuan, and 100 points for 50 yuan. From the recorded figures, Yao Ting's achievements in primary schools are improving every year.
[b] mother and daughter deeply touched the teacher student [/b]
speaking of Yao Ting mother and daughter, teacher teacher should have witnessed a lot of emotion:
there is the last morning class in the morning, Yao ting in the music classroom. At noon, she did not find Yao ting in her daughter's classroom. Her mother was so worried that she found her daughter in the classroom building. She went to every floor and looked at every classroom. Because there was no way to communicate with the mother of Yao Ting, the teachers and students who looked around could only be anxious, until he found Yeh ting and brought her to her mother.
Ying Jun said: "although Yao Ting mother almost knows nothing, but maternal love is still there, this is the most innocent emotion."
in the canteen, mother always stands, bends his waist to eat, Yao eats dinner quietly, and then consciously keeps part of his bowl of food for her mother, she says, "because mom has a big appetite."
Ying Jun recalled that at first, some naughty students would laugh at Yao Ting, but in the end, Yao Ting's insistence moved the whole school. Now, Yao Ting is an example of everyone's admiration and learning. Ying Jun said that she was a model student of school behavior and a filial piety star. She also attended the honor list of "every Monday star" in the class last semester.
after the school knew about Yao Ting's situation, she also saved her mother's meals and tried to help.
principal Hu Yijun said, "actually, it is a very simple thing to reduce Yao's meals, but we do not want to simplify her help. This is to take into account the child's self-esteem, and to cultivate her self-reliance and self-reliance, so as to avoid her from developing the psychology of "having hope in others' help when she has difficulties."
in October this year, a county charity charity donation activities, Yao Ting insisted on donating 8 yuan. At that time, the average donation for class classmates was three yuan, five yuan, the highest was 10 yuan.
mentioned this matter. Yao Ting firmly said, "there are many people in need. I am not the most difficult."
[b] dad left home and ran away [/b]
grandpa education. "He is wrong, you can't be wrong!"
mother was mentally ill on the eve of the college entrance examination. Grandpa took Yao Ting's mother to the Tiantai psychiatric hospital for half a month. With the insisting on taking medicine, Yao Ting's mother got better and worked in a local silk factory. Later, he also met a man who worked in Xianju in the field. This man is Yao Ting's father.
unfortunately, Yao Ting's mother's condition began to be unstable after five or six years of illness. After the birth of the daughter, the illness was even more serious. When Yao Ting was two or three years old, Yao Ting father secretly took his daughter to Xianju County town and left home.
grandpa said that he had been able to find Yao Ting through public security. Soon, dad left her mother and daughter away from home alone. Since then, Yao Ting mother can not leave her daughter for a moment, for fear that her daughter will be taken away and hurt.
chatting about his situation, Yao Ting has been very calm. It was only when she spoke of her father that she lowered her head, covered her eyes with her hands, and remained silent for a long time.
, she said, her impression of her father was blurred.
"will you forgive dad?"
Yao shakes her head.
"do you understand dad?"
yew nodding.
grandpa said, "when you grow up, if Dad comes back to you, you have to take care of the rations. He is wrong, you can't be wrong! "
Yao said, "I will."