, the reporter chose 220 junior and junior middle school students at Yanshan school in Ji'nan City, choosing 195 in Yan Liu primary school. A pupil of grade five or six has launched a survey: who do you want to talk about most of your mind? There are four choices: parents, teachers, classmates and friends.
results show that with the age of children, parents gradually fade out of their trust and do not become the main listeners of their minds; the children's trust in their classmates is also decreasing year by year. The trust of teachers is mostly based on learning. It is hard for teachers to listen to their children's worries.
[b]220 junior high school students only 2 students will tell their teachers about [/b]
the day before, the reporter made the questionnaire survey among the 3 junior class in the Middle School of Yanshan school in Ji'nan and the 220 students of the 1 junior class. The results showed that there were 45 students choosing their parents, 20.5% for choosing their parents, 16 for students, 7.3% for students, and 2 for teachers, and 0.9%. In addition, two students added a choice E: I myself and never say to others.
from the questionnaire, we can see that junior high school students trust most of their friends. The reason why they choose friends is that good friends need mutual trust. Only when they are paid to others will they give themselves. Friends and their age, communication no generation gap.
the reason why junior high school students choose their parents is that their parents know themselves, and they will enlighten themselves and give them warmth. Besides, because parents can help, parents will never betray me. The reason for choosing students to tell their worries is that there is no reservation between classmates. There is a deep friendship between students, and I believe this kind of friendship will last forever.
only 2 students choose teachers to talk about their worries. One says, "I think teachers are the most sincere friends. He will try to help me." One said, "teachers are great men of teaching and educating people."
[b] primary school students are most trusted by parents [/b]
195 students from grade five or six in Ji'nan Yan Liu primary school. The same survey shows that children in this age group want to share with their parents, followed by friends; 26, 13.3%, and 6 pupils like pupils. Joel and teacher share the mind, accounting for 3.1%.
the reason why parents choose to tell their worries is that their parents are the most trusted people; they can give solutions. It is not convenient for teachers to say that they are afraid of being laughed at by their classmates and friends. They should not be afraid of these two aspects of their parents.
choose the students who tell their friends about their worries. The reason is: they have no worries or pressure on their friends. Friends will not comment on their own thoughts, and tell parents or teachers that they will correct your thoughts and make them feel even worse. A friend can keep it secret.
6 pupils choose to confide in their teachers. A grade 6 primary school student said, "I believe in teachers, because teachers have taught us a lot of knowledge." [b] a school high school student survey [/b]
[b] only 0.2% wishes to the teacher to say [/b]
"last year our school organized each grade part of the students to participate in a questionnaire survey, and there is a question: your heart is the most wanted to say to whom. It seems that only 0.2% of those who choose to talk to the teacher do not think that our hearts are so far away from students. " Liu Yizhen, a senior teacher of experimental middle school, told reporters yesterday.
teacher Liu Yizhen told reporters that in the eyes of children, teachers and parents are basically a camp, "especially from junior high school to high school, I want to open a parent meeting, students do not want. It is the fear that the teacher will tell the parents. "
teacher Liu Yizhen analyses that the main reason why students don't want to share with their teachers is that the students want to show their sunshine and the most positive side to their teachers. "After all, teachers are outsiders, and their minds are privacy. They are the most vulnerable part of their own, or their shortcomings. Students certainly do not want their teachers to know."
[b] is reluctant to say to his classmates that they are afraid of "being sold" [/b]
"I'm not going to tell my friends about myself, because I don't have really sincere friends. I will not tell my classmates about my worries, because I am afraid of being betrayed, and I will not tell my parents about my worries because they do not understand me. A junior high school student told reporters that his mind would not be said to anyone, because he did not believe anyone. This student may be an example, but the reporter saw that in the questionnaire of junior high school students, 21 students said they would never say to their classmates because they had the experience of being "sold out" by their classmates.
reporter noted that in the questionnaire, the reason why students did not choose their classmates to talk about their minds was mainly because they were afraid of being betrayed. Compared with
, pupils' trust in classmates is relatively high. 26 students willing to share their worries with their classmates in Yan Liu elementary school believe that their classmates are more confident, and at the same time, they are almost as big as they can understand themselves. Reporter Yang Fang