Children in puberty should be educated like this
16 day, Xin Mei, Lin Yan and other 4 consultants received the spring city volunteer linjian hotline. There are more people who call to consult children with puberty problems. Reporters choose one, hoping to help readers with similar worries.
reader Liu: my son is in junior high school now, and his academic record is general. I recently found that he has a feeling of disgust in learning, unwilling to go to school, and not to write homework. I just want to go to the Internet, play and play. He is very inconsistent with the parents and teachers. I don't want to communicate with us. How should I teach him?
Lin Yan, a volunteer in the spring city, Lin Jian hotline Consultant: the child is in puberty and enters the second stage of resistance. During this period, children have strong sense of independence and want to integrate into society gradually, and there are many puzzles about learning and emotion. It is not feasible for parents to educate and reprimand blindly. It is very important for parents to have a harmonious relationship with their children at this time. Learn to encourage children to do what they think is "right" (as long as they are not too strong), and let the child experience the advantages and disadvantages of what they choose in the course of doing things. Children gain the right to be independent. They will be better able to get close to their parents to get more help.
Quancheng volunteer Lin Jian hotline: 82061110; times QQ:800088005. The hotline service time is 8:30-11:00, 14:00-16:30 per Saturday. Mailbox: qcyg_ljrx@163.com; blog: http://blog.e23.cn/? Uid-1313559. (reporter Zhao Ming collated)