Middle School lovers. Wang Xueqin
at the moment, the phenomenon of puppy love is becoming more and more prominent in the middle school campus, and the scenes of the boys and girls wearing school uniforms are no longer rare.
in September 14th, girls in the third day of the newspaper reported more than ten people fighting innocent girls. The reason is early love. Puppy love, like the "youth poison" again, is affecting parents' hearts.
[b] puppy love is now very popular [/b]
yesterday, reporters in Ji'nan many high school for investigation. The results showed that almost every class in these schools had a phenomenon of puppy love, and many teachers had intercepted the notes between men and women in class.
outside school, the phenomenon of puppy love among middle school students is common. In public places such as parks and stations, people often see young couples wearing school uniforms.
a junior high school teacher who had been teaching for nearly 30 years told a story she had seen: on the bus, a boy sat on a chair, and the girl lay on him. The boy said to the girl, "wife, I love you!" The two people are all wearing a high school uniform.
the teacher shakes his head, saying, "husband" and "wife" are hanging in the mouth, and the middle school students who do some excessively intimate movements are not in the minority.
a junior high school teacher said there were four or five puppy love students in every junior middle school in his school. This is also related to the class style and the school style. A class with a good atmosphere of learning has less early love.
love is related to the age of the students. After entering middle school, along with the growth of age, puppy love behavior increases. In junior high school, junior middle school students are most prominent. And high school love is more than junior high school.
[b] female students were influenced more. [/b]
students who had puppy love had nothing to do with learning quality, but often influenced learning. According to the survey, puppy love has been a very important factor in the decline of students' academic performance. One obvious feature of
is that girls are more affected than boys. Girls are more emotional. They are more emotional and vulnerable, and are less able to withstand the pressure of public opinion. So once they fall into puppy love, their learning will be greatly affected. At the same time, once their romance is frustrated, their emotional injury will be more serious. "Most of the injuries are girls." A class teacher said.
however, it is not accurate to say that love affects academic achievement. Yesterday, a second year girl told reporters that her classmates had such a phenomenon. The two were puppy love, but their academic performance improved. Just, this is a few.
[b] most couples live in secrecy with [/b]
reporters ask middle school class teachers how many people in their classes are in puppy love. Many head teachers shake their heads. "Puppy love" is usually underground development. Real numbers are not good.
three girls told reporters that there are 60 students in their class, at least more than 10 people are in love and some are still looking for friends and friends outside the school, so teachers and parents are not easy to find. The number of puppy love that the teacher knows is less than the actual number. The reason why
is underground is that students do not want their parents to interfere too much with their teachers.
posted at a middle school in Ji'nan. The students expressed their dissatisfaction with their parents and told them that their love affair was "very miserable" by their parents. A student said, "Today my mother turned over my things, and she read them and taught me a lesson."
some classmates expressed their determination to fight with their parents. "My mom and dad knew it and beat me, but in order to sprout, I could only be sorry for my father and mother. Go your own way, let others hit it! "
[b] parents often object to [/b]
puppy love for students, middle schools are explicitly prohibited, and parents are also opposed.
a post bar in a middle school in Ji'nan. One question is "puppy love. Why do parents oppose it?" The post attracted 60 followers, who had love experiences and were dissatisfied with their parents' oppression. In November 2009, Ji'nan High School of Hong Jia Lou was listed as a "18 recruit for girls' self protection". Eighteenth of them are: do not love early... It is unwise to learn puppy love from learning cultural and scientific knowledge or from its own safety.
Zhang Chuanyou, director of the Middle School of the Central School of the western town of the city district, said that in the class meeting class and the parents' meeting on various occasions, the school teachers will emphasize again and again, not to be in love.
[b] a lot of children actually "love" [/b]
survey found that in fact, there are many campus love, only a good feeling of each other, by the teachers, parents and students "contributed". They became "puppy lovers", and such students accounted for the majority of the puppy love troop.
when entering adolescence, it is normal for the opposite sex to feel good. But the actual situation is that once a male student and a female student look at one another, they will immediately pass through the students, then the teacher will call two people to the office to criticize one, and then call the parents. From then on, the two children who were "fond of each other" were put on the hat of "puppy love".
the teacher of the Middle School of Quancheng, Li Jing said, parents and teachers encountered the problem of premature love, often the attitude is rough, the reverse psychology is easy to let the middle school students "false play real singing", and thus really fall in love.
[b] is not too intimate with children in front of the children [/b]
Zhang Chuanyou, the junior middle school teacher at the Central School of the western town of the city district, said that more and more mobile phones are now used by students. Telephone calls and text messages between students also contributed to the occurrence of puppy love.
Li Jing said that a single parent, or a parent who is busy with work and business, is easier to fall in love with because of his loneliness.
Zhang Chuanyou said that parents and teachers should not be too early to button up puppy love for their students. "Solving the problem of puppy love is only suitable for working in private, and can not be publicizing in class. Otherwise, the more we talk about it, the more we will rebel." Zhang Chuanyou said.
Li Jing said that what we need to remind is that we must not think that the puppy love students are mentally disabled students. The main way to prevent early love is to dredge. Teachers and parents should try to be children's intimate friends and guide them to shift attention to other things. She also reminded parents not to be too intimate in front of their children, otherwise they could lead to negative guidance for their children.
[b] news link [/b]
[b] Heilongjiang stipulates: parents have the obligation to stop the early love behavior [/b]
August 20, 2009 afternoon, Heilongjiang province through the Heilongjiang province protection of minors Ordinance. Early love behavior is listed as the content of family protection in the regulations, which stipulates that parents or guardians should criticize, educate, stop and correct the early love behavior of the minors.