12 year old girl went to 8 training classes to take 7 certificates
reporter Jiang Fuer
small age certificate "professional", who is it?
this winter vacation, Zhao Ying, a 12 year old Urumqi (pseudonym) in Xinjiang, accompanied by her mother, reported the dance class organized by the society. This holiday, Xiao Ying had to spend time in the training class.
according to Zhao Ying's mother Zhang, the children took part in the piano grading test and got the certificate, and joined the dance class to get the certificate. "Children in the future to the art of development, no various types of certificates can not be done, a one to take, this is an indispensable capital for the growth of children, but also the development of the future." Speaking of why children should get so many certificates, Ms. Zhang said.
Zhao Ying told reporters that she had attended 8 training courses and took 7 certificates. In addition to sleeping and eating, she attended training classes at other times.
certificate "professional" is not in a few, children pressure
the reporter learned that such a small age as Zhao Ying has become a certificate "professional" children still have a lot.
"one more certificate, one more skill, there will be another way out." The parents told the press to the woman. But when the reporter asked what the use of so many certificates would be, Ms. Yu could not tell the specific uses of these certificates.
"seeing that everyone's children are learning, their children will lag behind if they do not learn." In this way, the lady explained.
"learn better than never learn, learn more than learn less!" This is the point of view of Mr. Zhong. The parents who hold this view are not in the minority.
the reporter noticed that most parents gave their children a training class without the consent of their children. Some children refused to go to the training class because they did not like it, and they were also beaten and scolded by their parents.
Urumqi psychological counselor Xu Donghui told reporters: "simply to take a certificate, it is no doubt that parents have entered a misunderstanding, some certificates have no gold content, so long as money can be paid, but many parents do not understand the situation, and the more certificates, the more able to prove the ability and level of the children."
all kinds of competitions become children's
interviews with certificates. Besides taking all kinds of training classes to take certificates, some children take all kinds of competitions to take certificates.
Zhou Wei (pseudonym) recently participated in a national primary school calligraphy competition, taking the "gold medal" and getting a big red certificate issued by the organizing committee. 8 of the classmates who participated in the competition also took the "gold medal certificate" and took more "silver certificates". The reporter learned that the cost of participating in the calligraphy competition was 150 yuan, and anyone who paid the fee had a certificate.
such a certificate, only look at the winning rate, it will understand its gold content.
but for those who are keen on taking dance competition certificates, they are not so simple. Zhang Ting (a pseudonym) took part in the national music talent competition held by a certain unit and won the gold medal of the music group. Besides, with a good voice, she has won some other awards, and her home awards are countless. Speaking of these certificates, Zhang Ting's mother poured forth his praise to the reporters.
but taking part in such a game, it almost spent most of the savings in Zhang Ting's house. It would have to pay for the competition, and the cost of accommodation, and the expenses of daily life and road. It cost ten thousand or twenty thousand yuan for a match.
the reporter learned that most children have not only participated in one or two competitions, but some children have become "professionals" in various competitions, and parents who accompany them seem to be happy.
a parent said: "let the children participate in the competition, just hoping to arouse their interest and confidence, and the fees and certificates are secondary. The award can encourage children, even if they do not get the prize, they will be a fortune in their growth.
but parents do not know whether the children really want to take part in such a competition, so I really like to take one certificate after another.
with certificate and "loss", it is understood that, in most cases, the host will charge a certain fee for the parents, such as the evaluation fee, the site fee, and so on.
in fact, many parents understand that the so-called certificate of award is actually bought at a cost, with little gold content. Some parents admit that letting their children take the certificate is their own utilitarian thinking. "I hope that these certificates will enable children to move smoothly and develop better in the future." A parent told the reporter.
psychological counselor Xu Donghui believes that parents' thoughts of quick success and instant benefit eventually lead to their children becoming certificates "specialized households" at a very young age. At the same time, parents have misunderstandings about the law of education. They think that the more the children learn, the better it is, playing is a waste of time. It is better to let them learn more than let their children play.
everything wants to see results as soon as possible and other impetuous psychology. It also helps to motivate children to become "professional households".
Xu Donghui believes that a small age has become a certificate "professional", which increases the burden of children and runs counter to the country's demands for reducing the academic burden on children. The whole society should be taken seriously and take responsibility, not just talk about it. We should make a real effort to create a healthy and healthy environment for the children.