http://news.sina.com.cn/s/p/2013-10-21/081028488120.shtml
Jinyang Net - Yangcheng Evening News
in August 21st this year, Fan Shukai went to the Tsinghua University mechanical engineering department to report to the East IC
A teenager in Shanxi is very "very": 2 years old will be subtract and multiplication and division, 5 years old school, 7 years old junior high school, 13 years old Tsinghua, let the thousands of parents sigh with emotion is "prodigy", self sigh son is inferior to people.
but "the prodigy" mother said in an interview with the reporter of the Yangcheng Evening News: "it's not a modesty. My son is absolutely not a child prodigy. Nothing special, like his IQ and his family's children, there are thousands of thousands in China. Children are strong in plasticity. They are all guided by adults. When they are young, they are used to bad habits. If they are too big, they will not be able to correct them.
1, 1, old Tsinghua headmaster surprised
13 years old, is a lot of children's primary school graduation, the age of junior high school, but Fan Shukai of Hequ County, Shanxi Province, now read the University in Tsinghua University. He was not a special student, but was admitted by taking part in the general college entrance examination.
if born one week later, Fan Shukai, born in December 24, 1999, will record again: he will be the first "00 post" college student at Tsinghua University, and "after 00", he will be the peak of Tsinghua, only 5 years later.
in August 21st of this year, Fan Shukai came to Tsinghua University to report. Fan Shukai, who wears low myopia glasses and a junior high school student, faces a reporter's interview with a clear and subjective opinion. When he is speaking, he will look straight on the other side, want to yawn and hold it strong. If he chews his mouth, he will never speak. In view of this scene, the present president of Tsinghua University, Chen Jining, "startled", felt that Fan Shukai was "a young man," and that the behavior of the conversation was not consistent with the age.
even to this day, even in the face of a telephone interview, Fan Shukai answered the question politely. If not, he would be polite to explain the reason; if the other party repeated it, he would explain again. There was no way to say, "I really want to hang up the phone."
Fan Shukai began to refuse his parents to send him to Beijing, and finally, because his mother said, "half a year can't see you".
in the Tsinghua University for more than a month, Fan Shukai, who did household chores at home, kept the bed and clothes in good order. Self introduction at the first class meeting of the University, Fan Shukai said, "you can say that I am young, but I am not small. My psychological age is as big as yours. Don't take me as a child. When he said this, his thin body was wrapped in the New Jersey of the Department of mechanical engineering, Tsinghua University. The shoulder seam of his clothes fell under his shoulder. His forehead was covered with potholes, with velvet whiskers on both sides of his lips.
a fellow boy could not help feeling: "when I was little, I looked exactly like Fan Shukai." Fan Shukai was embarrassed by the laughter of the whole class.
when Wang Jing graduated from University, he taught in a mountain village primary school. His life was very hard. Fan Shukai had been eating with his mother at school since he was a child. Half a year old, my mother taught her son to know animals and look at pictures and talk. Unlike other mothers, Wang Jing never said "dog dog", "cat cat" and other infant expressions. At the beginning, the language of teaching standard was taught repeatedly and never reprimanded.
Teaching in the mountain village, Wang Jing deeply realized that children should grow up, families should be warm, parents should guide children more. In fact, she said, in the poor mountain village, many children are very clever and hard, but their parents all day quarrel, divorce, even the children's reading desk can not buy, reading environment is too bad. Rural children are like wild weeds in the mountains.
"my child can never do this!" Although he was in a small mountain village, Wang Jing was free to teach children and play with the children. Even if the son read high school, she also insisted on picking up the children every day, talking with him, talking with him, making the children feel warm and sharpening their minds in listening to the adults' stories.
when Fan Shukai was born, her grandparents suggested that they should bring their children. Wang Jing and her husband deliberate after resolute, "the experience of teaching in the mountain village let me understand that children should take their own, grandparents and grandmother more indulge in children, teaching children knowledge is also a little hard. When he was born, he should be held responsible for him. He should walk with him step by step. Wang Jing said, with his son very hard, now look very value.
3, 5 years old reading four grade
son 2 years old, Wang Jing found his son's memory is very good, he found the primary school textbook system teaching, but also bought the "new concept English" full set of CD-ROM practice listening, in addition to the number of English, moral, natural, scientific, social and other courses are also studied.
Fan Shukai showed a strong desire to learn from childhood, and began to cry when he did not teach new content. This allowed fan and his wife to enjoy their work, and they could push the company's entertainment and push their children back home when they were free.
by the age of 5, Fan Shukai has finished primary school courses, mathematics has learned the "negative" content of junior high school and other contents; Chinese can recite two hundred or three hundred ancient poems; English finished the half of the second books of new concept English. Listening has reached the level of normal junior high school students.
in September 2004, Wang Jing wanted his son to jump to grade three in County Experimental Primary School. School leaders worry that children will knock on stairs and disagree with such an early admission. In the second year, fan pleaded again. "Now he has all the courses in primary school, so that he can read from the first grade. He will be bored and hurt his children".
the school did not believe that a four grade examination paper was found. Fan Shukai spent almost 3 hours on the examination papers of several courses, almost all of them. It is not uncommon for grade skipping in small towns. The school leaders have agreed.
not yet to school age, but Fan Shukai went straight to grade four. In the final exam, Fan Shukai took the first grade. Editor: Mou Qing
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4, good working habits persist till now
good grades for children, when parents are very proud. However, Wang Jing felt that his son's achievement in primary school was not what he represented. In the children she taught, the grade of primary school was much better than that of his son, but because of the lack of good habit, a junior high school had a bad result, and some of the key senior high schools couldn't get it.
Wang Jing and her husband to discuss, now the children have good results, should let the son develop good learning, living habits, and stick to it, can not make a little discount.
through the groping, they gradually let the son form a good rest time, the weekend is no exception: get up early, wash after breakfast, and then read, study, nap at noon, reading primary school 10 night sleep, reading junior high school, high school night 11 must fall asleep, reading high three at 12:30 p. m. You must sleep, and do not delay every day.
Wang Jing set an example, even if he stayed up late preparing lessons, he insisted on getting up earlier than his son the next day. Even if the sensible son did not sleep enough, he could see that his mother had already got up. This habit has been upheld so far. When reading senior three, there is little sleep time, but Fan Shukai can get up on time without using the alarm clock.
children like procrastination, Wang Jing educating children, an hour to finish the homework, must finish on time, never dragged to the next minute, because every minute there is to do. Constantly learning and speaking, Fan Shukai learned gradually. Wang Jing said that she had brought so many students, and few students could do that. "Many adults can't do that."
son is good at comprehension and quick at work. Fan Xiang and his wife felt that they should teach their children more knowledge, so that he often felt fresh and felt "endless learning". They bought many books for their sons, all over the world, astronomy, geography, novels and essays. So far, only ten thousand yuan has been spent on books. Fan Shukai, a complete set of Chinese and foreign masterpieces on the bookshelf, had finished reading in junior high school. Fan Xiang also wrote a library card to his son in the county library, and often took him to borrow books.
magnanimous reading, let little book Kai feel the charm of words and the power of thought, and let him appear more mature than his peers.
5, people in people's families have "prodigy"
Hequ County Experimental Primary School to implement five year system. In July 2007, only 7 and a half years old school graduated from Fan Shukai primary school, entered Hequ County experimental junior high school, and read junior high school and high school normally.
Fan Shukai's high school head teacher Miao Jianmin said that Fan Shukai's intelligence quotient is no exception. He can walk to today and is very important to family education. "When he was born, his parents always gave him positive energy. Step by step education was very attentively and valuable. In particular, his mother almost never left her children every day. Such a family education is not a miracle, it is inevitable.
high school three years, each teacher almost received Fan Shukai's "help" phone, questions never stay overnight. Fan Shukai has a strong understanding, but never takes any opportune time, and does more exercises than other students.
let Miao teacher sighs that a lot of parents, regardless of their children's grades, like to have children on holiday and late study, and let their children take interest classes, cram classes and so on, and Fan Shukai's parents never do this, they respect their children's growth needs, interests and interests.
"develop good habits and grow up without having to worry about it." Wang Jing said that when he received the admission notice from Tsinghua University, Fan Shukai still insisted on reading, practicing calligraphy and running every day.
Wang Jing regrets that learning is a long-term and lasting process. Many parents only care about the results, but ignore the process. In fact, developing good habits is the most important. Some parents believe that when they spend extra money on extracurricular tutoring and reporting extra long classes, children can learn to go up. In fact, they are hurting children in the name of love. "A lot of people envy our family out of a prodigy. They don't know that there are prodigies in their homes."