The 7 year old girl woke up crying for 4 times because of "work trouble" and asked to play with me.
a university educated grandmother, facing the tedious homework of the first grade primary school girl is a headache. Seeing his granddaughter breathless in various lessons and waking four times overnight, the desperate grandmother could no longer hold down, and asked her to help her granddaughter.
homework annoyed
7 year old girl wakes to wake up 4 times to ask "play with me"
"the teacher's layout has not finished, how can this do?" the 7 night, the 7 year old girl baby (the pseudonym) wakes in the sleep, yells.
doll was first enrolled in a primary school in Ji'nan last September. Since I went to school, the little girl had not been so relaxed. She came home every day and began to do her homework. In addition to the homework assigned by the teacher, I have to complete my mother's extracurricular test paper, and write three or four more in a day. Grandma Qin (a pseudonym) is a bachelor's degree, but the difficulty of her granddaughter's homework often makes her headache.
7 nights, the baby was sleepy when she was doing her homework. Grandma loved her granddaughter and let the child go to bed at 21:00. Before going to bed, the doll also worried about telling her grandmother that she could not finish her homework, so she was afraid of being criticized by her teacher. With her grandmother's comfort, the doll fell asleep.
22:30 or so, the baby suddenly woke up crying, yelling that her words had not been finished, and her grandmother rose up and coaxed for half a day before the child fell asleep again. At about 23:00, the child woke up crying and said there was still a problem with the math problem. After that, the child wakes again two times. In this way, the doll wakes 4 times a night. At 4:00 on the 8 day, the doll murmured in his sleep. "Are you playing with me?"
grandma's heart hurts her granddaughter, and it has a big quarrel with the baby's parents in the early morning.
grandma turned to
School and parents pressure to worry about the child's psychological problem
the baby just went to primary school that was physical discomfort and had a lung infection in the hospital for half a month. This thing left a shadow in the mind of Ms. Qin. Now, seeing my granddaughter learn so much, grandma's heart is breaking.
"on Thursday after school, we should go to the science tutoring class on the opposite side of the school, learn to dance on Friday evening, from 8:30 to 17:30 on Saturday, to learn painting on Sunday morning, and learn English in the afternoon. There is no rest at noon from Monday to Friday. You say so, let the children live? They are killing me! "Ms. Qin's voice on the phone is crying.
"my granddaughter said to me," grandma, you are so happy. We've done too much homework. " "I remember I didn't have so much homework when I was in junior high school," Ms. Qin said. She said that the child's original character was active, and now he became very introverted, not talkative or laughing. "Even if you don't have any time to exercise, can your child be healthy?" she worried that if she went on like this, she would not know if her child's spirit was going to go wrong.
"I want you to call on society and save these children! I don't think the construction of the society is memorized, not the class is the advanced group, so that junior high school and high school are not going up?" Ms. Qin said, "our family has a meeting this weekend. We can't do this to our children, first from our parents. Get up. "
psychological expert
pressure over the Congress to stifle children's interest in learning
for Ms. Qin, Zhao Changying, director of the psychological Department of the Ji'nan mental hospital, agreed very much. "The grandmother of the child is right. This is not a habit of indulgent pain. Children should grow up freely." Zhao Changying said that the first one or two years to start school is a child's curiosity when the growth of the time, if the layout of too much homework will make children tired of learning, the spirit of exploration will kill in the cradle, "parents do not impose so many tutoring classes to their children, and should help children build interest in learning, this is the responsibility of parents. "
she said that parents' aspirations to not have been imposed on their children, let their children help their parents realize it, and the anxiety of their parents is a mistaken idea of the strict control of their children. At the same time, the school's teaching system also causes this generation of children to be physically and mentally exhausted and under great pressure. "In this way, the child is in a state of anxiety for a long time, fear of learning, the fear of being punished for not completing his homework, and a psychological problem." Zhao Changying said.