Ten years old at the school gate ordered grandpa to tie his shoelaces, and the public lamented that it was terrible.
the author is an ordinary citizen. The day before yesterday, I met a very shocking thing to tell you about...
at about 4 p.m. on the 6 day, I went to school to pick up my daughter from school. When I was waiting for the children to come out at the school gate, a little boy about ten years old in red clothes came out of the school. The boy ran and played the game card in his hand. At the gate of the school was a sixty or seventy year old uncle who was supposed to be a little boy's grandfather or grandfather. When the child was playing while he was walking, the old man watched the play of his child. He was afraid that when he got to the motorway, he would have to tug his clothes from time to time.
did not walk a few meters away. The old man grabbed the child and told him, "shoelace is open and tied to play again." But the boy did not bend down to tie his shoelace. He didn't even look at the old man. He stretched his feet out and said, "fasten it on me." The old man looked at the boy first and hesitated. The boy did not stop playing the game card. He was impatient and urged. The old man stopped talking, bent down and tied the shoelace to the boy. The child stretched his feet so frankly that the old man tied up his shoelaces, and his eyes never left the toys in his hand.
I took this scene, and now it's on my cell phone. Every time I see this picture, I feel uncomfortable. I am always thinking about it.
People Reporter Li reported
reporter investigation
children too self, the public said it was terrible
yesterday, after receiving Mr. Li's report, the reporter interviewed some citizens on the matter. For this matter, the townspeople made a calm analysis and objective evaluation.
some of the respondents were worried about the future of their children. In the eyes of his relatives, children can be so cold, if it is someone else, how will the child think, he will take care of the feelings of others, and what will his future be? " Mr. mu, the citizen, said. Ms. Chai thought more in depth and should not make too much criticism on the children. Instead, parents should reflect on it. "Maybe the child is unintentional. Maybe he is just playing too hard. This is understandable." But perhaps this is a Miao, education is to prevent the child from being able to indulge in the character of their own children, and to make the same behavior for their parents after their adulthood.
the citizen Liu said, as an old man, he understood the psychology of another role. "Now everyone is standing in the position of the bystander to see it. I believe that more than half of the parents and grandparents are willing to tie up their shoes or do what other children can do. This is also a nature, especially the age, and more like children and grandchildren. I do not advocate this kind of behavior, just to evaluate it objectively. "
child education, to prevent
later, the reporter consulted some educational and psychological experts on the matter. The high school counselor, Mrs Gao, said that it is not appropriate to comment on the incident alone. However, it is the responsibility of the parents to be responsible for the education of the children. All things should be based on the principle of prevention and treatment, especially in the children's young age.
Ms. Gao said that the boy's performance in the picture is an extrinsic manifestation of self - awareness. The child of this state of mind, "in the subconscious mind, seldom considers the feelings of others, and everything is centered on himself." It is not a good thing for a child to be considerate of others when he is young. " "The child is born like a piece of white paper, the performance of children is affected by family members, parents must be cautious." Ms. Gao's analysis.
Ms. Gao also talked about the problem of generation education. "In general, the cultural level of grandparents at the age of fifty or sixty has been improved a lot, more rational for the generation of education, but the" generation of relatives "still has not been alleviated. This stage of the elderly social function gradually lost, will enter an emotional redistribution period, the energy transferred from the work will be added to the next generation, this is the process of everyone. Therefore, Ms. Gao believes that young people should not take the slaps of doting children on the old people, but should choose a reasonable way to intervene in this kind of indulgent education.