Tan Yao / Chongqing morning paper
boy crying to alarm 2 at 1 p.m., a little boy carrying a schoolbag in the police station of Shapingba's Qin Jia Gang. The little boy sat on the bench innocently, and soon caught the attention of the police.
police on duty asked, but before he started asking questions, the boy cried, as if he had been greatly wronged.
the little boy said, his name is Maria Tung. He is 9 years old and lives near Tianhu road. His parents came to Chongqing to do business in Sichuan, and he was in grade four in a nearby primary school.
Maria Tung said, not long ago, my mother gave him a tutorial, but he didn't want to go. On the two class, Maria Tung really couldn't stand it. It was a new year's Day holiday, and there was a cram school in the afternoon. Maria Tung didn't want to go, and his mother hit him. Maria Tung felt very aggrieved and went out with his schoolbag in the afternoon. He didn't go to the tutorial class, but asked the police station of the Qin Jia Gang all the way.
police found that Maria Tung had no obvious wounds on his body and face, but just kept crying.
Maria Tung told the police that his mother just hit him several times with anger, but he did not do it very well. But he insisted that "this is a domestic violence!"
his son said "skipping classes" for reasons
the police quickly contacted Maria Tung's parents. Two couples heard that their son did not go to cram school, but went to the police station. He was also very surprised and promised to go to the police station to pick up the child immediately.
"we send him to cram school, and also want to keep up with his academic record. I can only earn four thousand or five thousand yuan a month, and I have to pay 1000 yuan to make up the tuition fee. Is it easy for us to be a family leader? In the mediation room of the police station, mother spoke out in front of Maria Tung.
Maria Tung's mother told the police that his son's performance in the class was at a medium level, and that their children's grades were not up. They were also very anxious. So, without the consent of his son, he gave the children a tutorial class.
and Maria Tung was not interested in cram school. Recently, he became addicted to online games and became even more disgusted with cram school.
parents promised not to force children
in front of Maria Tung, the police educated his parents. The police told them that children should not be forced to take part in "cram school" or "interest class", but to respect the wishes of their children. Parents can also reflect on their own academic problems.
after more than half an hour of persuasion, Maria Tung's parents promised not to force his son to attend a cram school, and would have a good communication with him when he came home.
the police also carried on "education" to Maria Tung, "must understand parents' good intentions." In the end, Maria Tung forgave his parents.
parents should reflect on the
reporters yesterday from the police of the sand area that they had recently received 110 alarm calls from the minors they had received because of the pressure of their children to learn and to take part in a "cram school" or "interest class".
police said the number of children dialing alarm calls increased, in addition to the self-protection of minors and the enhancement of legal awareness, and there were deeper reasons. Parents should reflect on them.
Qiu Si, director of the Chongqing bright psychological consultancy, said that in this event, as a parent, two things should be identified first: first, they gave Maria Tung a cram school, had the child agreed? Two, what is the reason for Maria Tung's failure in academic performance?
"some parents are very rude to the management of their children. They do not seek advice from their children. And children at home "nowhere to redress the injustice", can only ask for help from the outside world, the police have become the first choice for them to seek help from outside. Qiu Si said that parents can understand the mood, but at the same time to help children improve their academic performance, first of all to understand the reasons for the poor performance of children, to the case, "pull out" will be counterproductive.