"today is the 38 women's day. Today, I want to thank my mother for her hard work every day to do something for her. First of all, I told my mother a story, but my mother didn't seem to like my story and kept looking at it. It discounts my mood. I think, maybe my blessing makes mom like it more. So I said "bless" to my mother, but my mother still looked at her cell phone, and I was even more sad. I don't think so. Let me play her back. I tried my best to beat my mother back, but my mother still looked at her cell phone. There was no smile on her face. I was even more sad. "
yesterday, Ms. Zhao With the diary written by his son, he found a reporter. At the end of the diary, the child wrote, "my sad 38 women's Day is like this."
Ms. Zhao's son enrolled in grade two, Dongcheng Street Central Primary School, Huangyan District, which was written in March 8th.
according to the class teacher Wang Yuewei, on the day of 38 women's day, she was entitled to "thanksgiving" on the topic, trying to let the students do something to their mother at home, can sing a song, say a blessing, or beat the back, wash the feet, and then write down with a diary. I didn't expect this student to write about the details of her mother's looking down at the cell phone.
"after reading, I not only exclamation the children's observation, I am also very surprised, I did not think that in the children's world, adults love to play mobile phones is a very serious thing." Wang Yuewei said, at that time, he gave this diary a lot of praise. For a grade two student, the whole article was a clue to the emotional change of her mother. "The world is the simplest and the most authentic, which reflects the common social phenomenon."
unconsciously dropped the child
"when I was reading a diary in my son, my husband and I laughed and laughed, but then they felt ashamed." Ms. Zhao told reporters that every day after work home, she and her husband like to play with the mobile phone to see the news WeChat, and sometimes the son wants to let her accompany with her homework, and he will be impatient.
"did not realize that my behavior would have such a big impact on children's growth." Ms. Zhao said she had to put down her cell phone and spend more time with her son later.
noon yesterday, the reporter conducted random interviews at the gate of Dongcheng Street Central Primary School in Huangyan district. Nearly 70% students said their parents loved playing cell phones.
"I watch my cell phone while I am eating. I play while I am doing my homework. I also want to sit on the bed while I am sleeping." One student said that sometimes he saw his parents playing with his cell phone. He also wanted to finish his homework and play quickly.
"I think mom loves mobile phones more, and more about mobile phones." A first grader said angrily, sometimes when her mother played with her cell phone, she cried several times, and her mother could not hear or answer.
"that's true. Children often play their mobile phones in front of their children." Ms. Zhang, who lives in the nine peak new village in Huangyan, says that sometimes the child writes the homework, and she is sitting next to the cell phone, thinking that as long as it does not make a sound, it does not realize that the behavior itself has affected the children. "We must make corrections later, at least try not to play cell phones in front of children." In the interview, part of the parents "confession" said.
more time to spend time with children
Zhu Huizheng, Vice Chancellor of the Central Primary School in Huangyan's Dongcheng Street Center, said the diary of the children reflects the present situation of many parents. Now a lot of parents go home first thing is to even Wifi, micro-blog, WeChat, the Internet, watching movies are using mobile phones, spend more time than with children on the mobile phone.
Zhu Huizheng reminds parents that "model education" is very important. Parents are the first teachers of their children. If they always play with their mobile phones, children will imitate their parents and become "mobile phone control" at a small age and affect their health. In addition, the growth of children will also cause some bad effects. For example, parents are addicted to the mobile phone, the network, and ignore the communication with the children. It is easy for children to lack "love", and then lack the ability to love, which leads to the children to form a lonely and introverted character.
teacher Wang Yuewei suggested that if parents do have a job, they need to use a mobile phone at home, and it's best to replace them at the same time. For example, when dad is busy, mom will accompany the child to learn or play. When mom plays with mobile phones, my father will take his children to do exercises. He can also make an appointment every weekend.
"the furthest distance in the world is when I am around you, but you are playing with your cell phone." Someone used Tagore's poems to tease young people nowadays. When this sentence happens between parents and children, will there be some sadness?
recently, Ms. Zhao of Huangyan called the newspaper reporter, saying that he was very ashamed and guilty after seeing his son's 38 diaries. "I told my mother a story, but my mother didn't seem to like my story and kept watching the phone. It makes my mood discounted... "