11 year old boy bought 10 thousand yuan mobile phone for Valentine's Day
the seventh day of the seventh day is Valentine's day, the 11 year old boy of Harbin, Dongdong, bought a more than 10 thousand yuan mobile phone to the girl students. At ordinary times, East and East want to find the opportunity to express, this time to catch up with the new year, and hit "Valentine's Day", plus a lot of "age money", Dongdong feel that he will be able to get the wish.
it is understood that Dongdong's father is engaged in building materials business, surnamed Zhang. He said he wanted to cultivate his son's sense of financial management, so he kept his son's money in his own pocket. But he never imagined that his son would spend so much money and love too much. Dongdong's father, Mr. Zhang, decided to return the 10 thousand yuan gift.
Mr. Zhang found a female student in Dongdong and asked for cell phone. But the little girl did not pay attention to Mr. Zhang and did not want to return it. Mr. Zhang had to communicate with his parents and eventually got his cell phone back.
recently, reporters from Heilongjiang Xincheng, dragon, and many other law firms know that during the Spring Festival, it was the choice of "small lovers" to give "money to the age of money" to exchange high-end electronic products. In order to return gifts, many parents eventually had to turn to lawyers. A lawyer told reporters that the situation is similar to East, a 12 year old Harbin girl Xiaoli bought about 20 thousand yuan of high-end computer to her first grade "handsome boy", and also to give each other to a high-end game handle, because the other is "a high hand racing car."
lawyer Sun Kechao told reporters that children in the East and the Xiaoli age group, in order to ensure that their interests are not lost, the child's disposal of large amounts of property, the consent of the parents. Children's unauthorized gift giving is a kind of "undetermined effect" behavior, which should be carried out under the supervision of parents, otherwise, it will infringe upon the legitimate property rights of minors.
little editor strongly suggests that
parents should consult a psychologist before returning a gift to protect their property as important, and to protect their children's self-esteem is also important. In front of the person you like, you hurt your face, but it's a big psychological shadow. "
children's Spring Festival" rich "income is not rare
New Spring Festival, to send a child to send a year of money, is a thousand years of our traditional tradition. "Congratulations on getting rich, red envelopes!" with the children's crisp and joyful New Year's greetings, elders will take out red packets that have already been prepared. When adults are sighing for the Spring Festival to become "spring robbery", the most joyful ones are children who are still enjoying the lucky money treatment. With the continuous improvement of living standards, the age of year - old money also presents a high tide of water, many children have become a "millionaire", a thousand year old money, more than ten thousand is not uncommon.
"huge" money to master
Spring Festival elders for children to give their children the age of money, is a picture of Gili, buy a happy, but also let the child feel the elders of their love and expectation, this seems to be helpless. However, the issue of the ownership of the money has become "sweet trouble" - who is the economic power of the money?
1: unconditionally all confiscated
net friends "fruit mother": the child is not yet able to make money, and the money is also from the parent's relationship, so it should be all confiscated, if it should be confiscated, if it should be confiscated, if it should be confiscated, if it should be confiscated, if If the children need to use it again, we need to do it.
opinion 2: conditional confiscation of a part of
"Mr. Shi": the children who are still in school are not able to dominate the amount of money themselves, and there is no strong self-control, so the money can not be completely handed to the children's hands. However, parents should not be taken too seriously. Appropriate decentralization is also necessary.
opinion 3: let the child handle
, of course, there is a very "democratic" parent. Mr. Li, who works in a unit, says: "money is money for children, ownership belongs to children, how to spend, parents should not manage." During the Spring Festival, the children will have to buy it and give him all the money. It can not only satisfy the wishes of the children, but also save the worry.
experts suggest that children have the right to control year - old money, but parents should guide
experts to say that it is not the best policy to pay and indulge. The child who is in the development period is more obvious. The child will think that the parents do not trust them, the self-esteem will be hurt, and the children will be prone to conflict. The result may result in the children lying about the number of money or the private money.
allowing children to dominate the money will make it easy to make money, causing the children's outlook on life and values misplaced, waste and extravagant ideas are easily rooted in their hearts. Therefore, the best way is to help them manage their finances while guiding their children to establish a sense of financial management and help them develop healthy "financial quotient".