"I was writing homework, mother accompanied me, she was watching a cell phone." "Before I went to bed, my father and I shared the interesting things in school. He was looking at his cell phone." After reading the children's poems, do you have the heart to brush their phones with them? Recently, several primary school students in Nanjing have recorded the most familiar "brush phone" scenes in life, compilations into a poem. Put down your cell phone and hug me. "Children's simple voice has aroused many parents' feelings and reflection.
read the poem
"put down my cell phone and hold me!"
I am doing homework. My mother is accompanying me. She is looking at the cell phone.
before bedtime, my father and I shared interesting things in school. He was watching his cell phone.
my birthday, family dinner,
but mom, Dad, aunt and aunt are watching mobile phones.
I said to everyone, don't look at your cell phone,
ah ~ ~ ~ if we can become mom and dad's
we know, you're busy working!
we know, you have your own things
but please give us a little
time to get along with you alone every day.
I love
when you were little, you gave me warm embrace.
Dear Mom and Dad,
put down your cell phone and hug me.
use "one..." Just... "
there is a child to write. "Dad will go home and play"
"it's a poem, it's better to be a life" record table "," put down your cell phone, hold me! " "A real picture of the family in the family. Between the lines, it reveals the confusion in the child's mind -- why is mom and dad always playing with mobile phones? The reporter learned that the poem was co authored by several children and parents in the two (2) class of Fang Cao Yuan primary school in Nanjing. One of the creators - two (2) class Huang Ziheng's mother recalled that some parents shared a "fun" one day in the QQ group, and the children's language homework had a question: "one..." Just... " Sentence, a child wrote this answer: "when my father entered the house, he picked up his cell phone and watched it." This answer makes mom and dad feel very much.
at the next class meeting, parents threw the question to the child. "Do your parents like to watch cell phones at home?" There are only a few answers to the children's questions. "Of course, he likes mobile phones most. He also plays with his cell phone when he eats." "When you tell a story, you can see it." Parents suggested that children should write down these feelings and read them to their parents at the parents' meeting. "After the children wrote them, I made a revision with my mom in comic books on the Internet, and wrote a poem." After the parents' meeting, the poem soon spread around the school, and the children posted posters on the school bulletin board: "go away, cell phone!" During the public service in Nanjing last weekend, several pupils also read the poem. Some mothers also sent this poem to social media, causing many parents to discuss. The children said they wanted to pass on this poem to let more parents know.
parents also rethink
according to CCTV, according to CCTV, "the 2014 national family parent relationship report" shows that 17.8% parents often watch their cell phones when they are with their children, and 51.8% of their parents occasionally watch their mobile phones. In the small world of children, cell phones have become the biggest enemy of them. The Yangtse Evening News reporter interviewed many parents yesterday, and more than half of parents admitted that they had more time to go home to watch mobile phones than to accompany their children. Mr. Huang, a junior in grade five of primary school, said that every night, with his children to write their homework, they took out their mobile phone and turned out. The daughter would say, "can Dad see a cell phone?" Mr. Huang listened to his daughter's words and put his cell phone back in his pocket. "Sitting and doing nothing, and not looking at his cell phone, he felt as miserable as a cat." What can mom and dad care about when they get home? During the interview, most parents said that they were actually brushed at random. "Micro-blog brushes, friends circle is a little bit praised, WeChat group returns several pieces, and one or two hours are gone." Some parents said that they could not put their cell phones to work at home, and they could not finish the work during the day until night.
teachers are very worried about
lack of parent-child communication, children will be more and more "home"
two (2) class teacher, teacher of class two (2) of Nanjing Fang Cao Garden Primary School, have been teaching experience for 20 years. According to her observation, it has become more and more common in recent years that children are influenced by their parents' dependence on mobile phones. "From the children's written words, and their exchanges, more or less can understand the family parent child communication state." Some families have three families, one person, one flat, leisure time, and the family is quiet. Children encounter problems, parents throw a IPAD over, "you check." Mr. Zhang Xian believes that this situation can lead to two negative effects. First of all, the parents made a demonstration, resting is playing with the mobile phone, "this lets the child mistake, does not have anything else to be more interesting, the handset is most interesting. Children will become more and more homes and even addicted to mobile phones. Secondly, the influence of parent-child relationship, for a long time, parents will not communicate with their children, do not know how to communicate.
mom and dad how to do
to accompany the baby in the heart of "people in the heart", let the child when the supervisor
family education expert Yin Fei teacher of the South Normal University School of education thought, first of all parents should set an example consciousness, when accompanying the child, "people in the heart", put down the cell phone, the whole heart of company. For example, rules are set in the family, no cell phones are read in the study, or time periods are determined, and a few points to a few points are focused on company time. Yin Fei also introduced that parents could invite their children to be small supervisors. "One mother I know said to her son, 'mom's cell phone is like you like playing games, and sometimes you can't control it. Can we remind each other and make progress together?' Mother and son two people set an agreement to remind each other to reduce Internet time. The effect is very good. " Mr. Yin Fei believes that, although it is a small measure, behind the change of educational ideas, and children in an equal position, "the implementation of the people together, children will not produce adverse psychology."