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kindergarten for children Collective wedding Lu net January 14th news (reporter Wang Wenting) recently, a Zhengzhou kindergarten for more than 100 "free love" children of the park to hold a "collective wedding" reports to many netizens to spit the slots, directly to let children premature experience adult adult world premature adult harmful to children. Kindergarten preschool teacher pointed out that the wedding ceremony for children has "ripening" suspicion, is not conducive to children's physical and mental health.
kindergarten held a collective wedding
for children. In the afternoon of January 11th, a grand wedding ceremony was held in a kindergarten in Zhengzhou. The conference room was full of the wedding march, and the little groom took the little bride's hand and walked to the stage in turn.
representatives of teachers and parents are masters of marriage. According to the procedures of adult marriage, both the bride and bridegroom are asked to take an oath. For example, "Niu Niu, you married Liang Liang, if he is sick, will you treat him well?" "Baby, you marry lily, if any other kids bully her, will you protect her?"
the chief marriage also asks a question: "why do you want to marry the other half you choose?" All the newlyweds are all in one voice: because I love him (her).
the little groom kneels down on one knee and puts on the wedding ring for the little bride. Then, in the blessing of everyone, or hug tightly, express love; kiss one more intimate.
netizens: careless parents, confused parents,
this news immediately attracted many netizens' attention. In just three hours, it was forwarded more than 1500 times, attracting nearly 1000 comments.
netizens "QiaoQiaoPP" see the news is ridiculous! "The head of the garden! Parents are confused! Children too early to experience the adult world, too early adulthood is harmful to children. What age to do at any age! "
said, "the innocence of the innocent baby is what your adult is like..."
@ Xiaguan micro news: education can not be popular. "Preschool education is based on a good foundation and the foundation of all-round development. It is impossible to carry out the necessary sexual enlightenment education for children. However, at the moment of" attention is productivity ", there are more than 100 young children's collective weddings, with promises, rings, hugs and kisses to make children become attention. Is there any suspicion that the focus should be on the rise and fall in favor of others?
career: don't be such a kid! Is this just the responsibility of the head of the kindergarten? What about the parents?
@ Zhang Yibo: claiming that children can increase their sense of responsibility. Is there no other way?
some netizens also have different views, netizen @ mama love sugar: "in the eyes of children, it is a family, a pure play, where there is a long time to think ~ ~
netizen @ Shengli Power Management Corporation:" nursery, parents, children three parties have been willing, next home say three four four. Not good. It is not bad for children to grow up healthily, at least let their children know how to take care of others.
kindergarten teacher: easy to "ripening" children is not conducive to healthy growth.
faces many netizens' claims. Li Li, a teacher at a kindergarten in Ji'nan, said that the kindergarten's practice was not good enough to "ripening" the children, which was not good for children's physical and mental health. "
" now the children of the big class in the kindergarten are at the peak of imitation, and the teleplay, network and even the address between parents in the family is easy to be a child's imitation. " Teacher Li Li said, "children do exist to like a little friend now, to grow up to marry him, but this is only limited to the idea of the children's family, as the teacher will correct the idea of the child in time and correct the idea of getting married." However, the collective wedding ceremony in kindergartens is suspected of "ripening", which is not conducive to children's physical and mental health.
Mr. Li said that changing the behavior of children's "home ownership" to a real wedding for their children broke the mystery of their children's marriage. "Children like to imitate themselves. What do they do after they get married? What do the kids do about this game? Every day, I think about my other half, and manage my little family every day. How do I get along with other children? Is it a quarrel and a divorce? The scenes of love, marriage, and child are too far away from children. We need to give children a pure child's world.
the children who hold the "wedding" for the head of the kindergarten have a stronger sense of responsibility and are conducive to the development of sexual psychological health. Mr. Li Li disagreed. "Children themselves are a protected group, early to allow them to take over the responsibility of more than the age group is to help, say more straight to the white point is" ripening ", which is not only harmful to the physical and mental health of children, and may even play a negative role. Each stage of the children have each stage of growth needs, at this stage children need is the animation world, the need is innocent and pure children's world, as long as the protection of themselves, care for their own parents, this is OK, do not prematurely give the child the "responsibility" cap.