Some parents in Ji'nan refuse to send their children to kindergarten
source: the urban women's newspaper
is dissatisfied with the current kindergarten education method, and believes this will impede the future development of the children. For this reason, some parents in Ji'nan did not allow their children to enter the kindergarten, but began to choose their own children.
do not allow children to enter the park, how do these parents think of? Lack of kindergarten life, children can make friends? Without the teacher's strict requirements, how do children develop good habits?
parents say
there are ten friends,
in Francis. In the south, some parents are not satisfied with kindergarten education and choose to teach their children themselves. Mr. Yang, a citizen of the city, is one of them.
Mr. Yang said that when he was 3 years old, he also wanted to send it to the kindergarten. But after examining more than a dozen kindergartens, it was found that the teacher had too much control over the children and did not know how to arouse their curiosity. Because of his free working hours, he did not let his children go to kindergarten, but he brought the children with him. At that time, some friends and family raised objections, worried that such a child would not have a playmate.
usually he takes his son to visit museums and exhibitions. Every time he goes out to participate in activities, he will follow his son and give him the chance to make friends with the same age, so that the children will feel lonely. Mr. Yang said that because he often participated in various activities, his son was very active. Now, he has more than ten friends of his age.
son likes to deal with strangers. Every time he goes to a restaurant, he runs to the kitchen and asks the chef around the restaurant. When they leave the restaurant, a chef or a staff member often comes out to see him off. "Do not take the unusual road, only love strangers" has become his motto.
Mr. Yang never forced his son to learn all kinds of skills. "Although I am a photographer and calligrapher, I never asked him to learn these things." So far, he has only given him a swimming class. This is also the decision of the two of us after consultation. " In terms of literacy, Mr. Yang said he did not teach Pinyin first, but let children read words in sentences. When he meets unknown words, he first thinks about how to read and then confirms. This can exercise children's self-learning ability.
Mr. Yang said that the current kindergarten education only knows that children should follow the rules and do not encourage curiosity about things. In fact, this is killing the children's creativity.
recently, Mr. Yang began to worry. My son will soon go to primary school, and the habits he used to develop will be destroyed by primary school education. In this way, his hard work was also in vain. At present, he is hesitant to let his children go to primary school.
friends hot discussion
children are not the ten benefits of kindergarten
day, in the cradle network forum, netizen piaopiaobill post, introduced the ten benefits of not on the kindergarten.
netizen piaopiaobill introduced her school immediately and remembered that every time she sent her baby to school, her heart was broken. Last semester, there was 2/3 of the time at home. Every few days, the child is sick once. Before going to kindergarten, children are basically not sick. A few days ago, I met a parent. His children have never been to kindergarten, but now they are in primary school. Not only did the child learn dance, musical instruments, skating, calligraphy, and even the courses of Chinese language, mathematics and English before grade three were finished.
has been hesitant to have children in kindergarten, and now she is determined not to go to kindergarten. To sum up, there are at least 10 benefits from kindergarten, such as: children are less sick, children can have enough time to learn their favorite knowledge, do what they like, get enough sleep, control the children's diet better, avoid the child's tired, and don't look at the teacher's face.
netizens piaopiaobill's post just released, it caused heated debate. Netizen whisky_xin said her daughter was 3 years old, and she was not prepared to let her daughter go to kindergarten because she wanted her daughter to have a free and happy childhood.