Author: Gao Chenghua
to one or two years old, baby entered the "2 year old rebellion period." In this stage, the performance of rebellion is generally:
1. you do not let the dry things, he want to dry;
2. does not act according to his will, then temper;
3. sometimes ignore the parents, do not let adults hold;
4. anything want to come to themselves.
these things have happened since the child was one year old, more frequently and fiercely at about two years of age. With age, children will become "good". Children aged 3~5 will be better able to control their emotions and behaviors.
rebellion is a necessary stage for children to grow up. At this stage, parents need to understand the baby and respect the baby. Babies are beginning to like to say "no" to their parents, the first step to build self-esteem and self-esteem. The purpose of the baby to do so is to demand equal status with the adult, at this time parents do not interfere with the actions of the baby easily, to ask for the child's opinion on an equal basis, and to choose the room for the child. This will make your baby feel that you respect him, maintain his self-esteem, and will not easily speak irony to you. The reason why the baby shows a stubborn "resistance" is that he wants to be independent. On the surface, he is against his parents, but the baby's heart still needs the emotional support and timely encouragement of his parents.
mother can use selective sentences when she asks the baby. If the baby doesn't wear clothes in the morning, mother can ask him, "do you want to wear a coat first, or wear pants first?" so that the baby can feel respect and autonomy. But never be able to pamper, indulge the baby, the unreasonable demands and misconduct of the baby should be resolutely and calmly stop, do not speak a lot of truth, not to persuade or threaten, weary, not to shout to the baby, give the necessary cold and stick to the baby himself feel boring, stop crying so far. At this point, family members must be consistent.