a lot of monthly sister-in-law to serve, but also difficult to exchange for the post-80s mother's approval. Comic / newspaper special correspondent Ma Teng
similar situations have appeared in many home economics companies, and some Yuesao even think that after 80 mothers are getting more and more difficult to serve. Some young mothers also complain that some Yuesao are not professional enough.
the phenomenon of "cow" between young women and sister-in-law, some experts believe that this is the result of the difference of age and cultural level between the moon and the users. At the same time, mothers are prone to depression during confinement, and it will not be handled properly by Yuesao. It is understood that Ji'nan has domestic companies specifically targeted at this problem, for Yuesao specialized psychological courses.
[b] 80 mothers love to "commit suicide" [/b]
"nowadays young mothers are getting more and more difficult to serve, and they also like to recognize dead children." Ms. Huang, 42 years old, is a gold medal wife of a housekeeping company in Ji'nan. She is very experienced in caring for babies. But recently she was angry with her employer.
Ms. Huang said that she worked in a neighborhood near production road last month. Her employer was a post-80s parturient and a kindergarten teacher. The young mother was unwilling to accept the way that the old man took care of her children. Whenever Ms. Huang baths and touches the child, the employer is always at ease.
not only that, the monthly meal she gave her employer is always being picked up, not too much salt, or too much oil. The most difficult thing for Ms Huang to laugh at is that the employer even came up with a postnatal nursing book, which she thought was wrong.
Ms. Huang said that the young mother was also beginning to feel restless and unhappy all day. At last, no one could hear her, but she was not polite to Miss Huang. "If I do it wrong, the user can complain." But if I make such a mess, I really can't go on. " After staying at the employer's house for a week, Ms. Huang resigned from the job.
[b] month - in law is most afraid to take care of the pamper's mother [/b]
"some mothers can't hear the baby cry, otherwise they doubt that the moon's sister-in-law does not take care of them. This year's 38 year old Liu Aihua is also named Yuesao. She feels that some 80 women are more delicate, not only lack of feeding experience, but also show excessive nervousness. Once she met such a user, she was worried and nervous.
at the beginning of this year, Liu Aihua had taken care of such a mother: as long as the child cried, the mother was anxious to catch the fire, and kept complaining about herself.
in order to lose weight as soon as possible, only feed the children milk, resulting in children's indigestion. "For more than half a month, the employer's mother-in-law persuaded a few words to settle down safely." "We also want to do our best to take care of the children, but some mothers are too delicate and not respectful to us. To be honest, we prefer not to serve such users. " Liu Aihua said.
[b] new mothers said some of their wives were not professional [/b]
, but there were also 80 mothers who believed that they didn't mean to "find fault". Yuesao's level is uneven, some of them have been trained, and there are not many experiences.
Meng Xiangcui, the son of the citizen, is over one year old. Speaking of the experience of asking Yuesao on that occasion, she could not help complaining.
Meng Xiangcui said that when the Yuesao invited by a home economics company near her home, she found that the Yuesao was not very professional. For some time, the baby often hiccups after the baby's milk. This month's wife told them to light the baby's back from up and down. Later, the couple consulted the relevant books to know that the right direction should be from the bottom up. "Now the cost of Yuesao is very high, and we are not willing to spend money." Meng Xiangcui said.
it is understood that at present, the price of Ji'nan junior monthly sister-in-law is between 1000 yuan and 1500 yuan, and the salary of the middle and senior monthly sister-in-law is about 2000 yuan, and the highest level of the salary of the monthly sister-in-law is about 3000 yuan.
[b] women are easy to be depressed. Yuesao should be considerate of [/b]
as the saying goes, one can not beat a palm. In the head of the Provincial Family Service Association, Ms. Zhang, because the age of the moon is usually at the age of more than 40, and there is a generation gap between the post - 80 and the post - 80, they tend to be prone to conflict, even with the occurrence of a corner.
Ms. Zhang said, sitting on the moon is a relatively closed period. There are few people who are in contact with women, and they are very vulnerable to boredom, while the moon's sister-in-law is the person who has the most contact. If her sister-in-law does not know how to help women to eliminate bad emotions, or simply out of anger and parturients "to dry", it is likely to cause some serious psychological problems in some women.
for the post-80s mother, it is difficult to adapt to the change from being taken care of to the role of caring for others. After having children, it is easy to produce emotional and psychological problems, that is, "postpartum depression". At this time, the complains between mothers and Yuesao will increase.
[b] psychology courses have entered home economics training [/b]
home companies have begun to realize this problem. Ji'nan's enthusiastic sister-in-law service center is going to invite psychological counselors in the near future to train some of the psychological lessons for Yuesao.
director Liu said that the main contents of the training include the skills of interpersonal communication, the identification of postpartum severe depression, and how to simplify the training.
director Liu said that her wife's job is not only to take care of mother and baby's life, but also to care for women, to touch the baby and to teach early. "It is difficult to adapt to the diversified market demand."