Why are young people reluctant to "give birth to babies"?
China Youth Daily
Qing V
The Generation "Promoted" Meet the Trouble of the Baby
"We Change from the Generation of"Promoted Marriage"to the Generation of"Promoted Birth". In recent days, Shi Xiaoyu, a young white-collar worker in Guangzhou, can not help but feel sad when he sees the discussion on whether to set up a fertility fund system and social upbringing fees, etc. in the circle of friends. According to the data released by the National Bureau of Statistics, the population of China will increase by 17.23 million in 2017, a decrease of 630,000 from 2016. After the release of this data, the media has aroused concern and discussion about why young people do not want to live. Compared with the previous generation,
the various problems facing this generation of young people may be an important reason why they do not want to have more children. "Br /> < br /> < br /> < br /> do not want to let the elderly interfere, the children have become"lean monkeys"< br /< br /> Chu Yi while drinking a small wine, while looking forward to the birth of four months to the"two treasures,"beautifully said:"I will play football with my son. The 39-year-old, whose daughter is 10 years old, took another sip of the drink at the thought that "all the previous childbearing experiences should be repeated."
when the daughter was born, Mrs. Qiu and Mrs. were very young, and the children brought them by themselves. Every day after work, his wife hurried to the kindergarten to pick up the children and cook the soup. In this way, I went to primary school. Primary school near home, basically do not pick up, but also exercise the child's independent self-care ability.
from beginning to end, the old man did not put in his hand. But when the second children were not born, he began to feel anxious. Grandma was too old to let her take it with her, so they planned to take it with them and let their wife quit and take care of the children at home full-time. On the second child issue, Qiu Yi seems calm behind, he and his wife took on a lot of "other people's grandmother" to do. "We basically don't deal with the older generation, but our living conditions are going to change." Fortunately, the mobile Internet is so developed that even if you don't go to work, you can do some business through an e-commerce. Xie Miaomiao is generally recognized as a "Superman" mother. She has two lovely daughters who work more than 12 hours a day and insist on taking care of their children. Of course, some of the time is given to the kindergarten and the elderly temporarily. During the summer vacation, she sent her youngest daughter to her mother's house every morning, took her eldest daughter to work. She rushed to her mother's house after work, arranged dinner and bath for her two daughters, and returned to work at 7 p.m. and then went to her mother's house to take her two daughters back to her home after all the work. Day after day, she said with guilt, "I have made my child a" lean monkey ". Every time he sees a couple in his circle of friends going to a movie on weekends, Wu Bin comforts his wife by saying that when the two babies are old, we can make up the movie. They did not have the help of the old man. They asked the nanny to be quiet and busy, but also comfortable. For them, the arrival of the second child did bring a lot of laughter and laughter, but the wife was very hard because she was basically on her own. Wu Bin said with heartache that breastfeeding kept her awake for a few months. Sometimes the young couple are very sentimental. Why do they have two children?
two small families, contradictions are always present. For example, sleeping, sister reading, painting, listening to stories, there are interactive problems. At this time, mom and dad are going to have a clear division of labor. Although the nanny was asked, the task of taking care of children still fell on them. At first, I thought about having a baby-sitter, but the baby-sitter made it clear that she was not responsible for the maternity but only the child. Did she come and take care of her? So change your mind and change it to a nanny. Of course, Wu Bin envied the children brought by his grandparents. Someone picked them up after school, and his parents felt relieved to leave the children to the elderly when they went out. He said, "this is the so-called besieged city."